A wife doing Porn??? Thoughts?

[ShesInsatiable]

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[Samday]

Would it be cool for a married woman to start doing porn? Not the bad stuff from years so Maybe some small time stuff with a small group of people she likes and trusts?
Ladies, what do you think?
Husbands?
Guys who like milfs?

...I ask this for a reason. I don’t want to taint opinions with the reason but I look forward eagerly to reading the answers. I promise I’ll explain at a later point.

If everyone involved is comfortable with it then why not?

Good Luck

Sam x

 

[Marriedvet]

Would it be cool for a married woman to start doing porn? Not the bad stuff from years so Maybe some small time stuff with a small group of people she likes and trusts?
Ladies, what do you think?
Husbands?
Guys who like milfs?

...I ask this for a reason. I don’t want to taint opinions with the reason but I look forward eagerly to reading the answers. I promise I’ll explain at a later point.

I definitely would let her do porn and more than likely be there to watch it being filmed. I already let her play with her boyfriend with or without me being there and if I am not i get rewarded with some video or pictures afterwards.

 

[Vitriolhack]

Would it be cool for a married woman to start doing porn? Not the bad stuff from years so Maybe some small time stuff with a small group of people she likes and trusts?
Ladies, what do you think?
Husbands?
Guys who like milfs?

...I ask this for a reason. I don’t want to taint opinions with the reason but I look forward eagerly to reading the answers. I promise I’ll explain at a later point.

Oh boy, what exactly are you asking?

If it’s ok for a married woman to get paid for fucking?
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If it’s morally acceptable for a married woman to fuck for a living?

You can bet that you can find at least one porn star that is also a mother.
Does being a porn star prevent you from being a good mother?
I don’t think so, why should it be any different than being a regular actress but you have that little extra scenes that other actresses just don’t do.

So, as far I know, i do t think that being a good mother and porn star are mutually exclusive. You can be both.

V.

 

[ShesInsatiable]

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[ShesInsatiable]

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[Marriedvet]

See, I get that. There are lots of husbands here who are also desperately into the cuckold thing. Does the permanency recording bother you? Does the fact that others will be watching it bother you. Does the fact that it will be spread through the Internet all over online and saved and others computers bother you? Long term?

It really doesn't bother me. Knowing how much personal data is already out there in comparison is much scarier to me. Besides, out of the dozen or so rude looks it might get if it spread enough to be recognized, there will be another dozen wanting to join in. Neither of us are in politics, no kids, and not a very large family on either side. Worth the risk to experience the thrill. This is just my opinion based on my situation, I am sure others may feel differently and that is completely okay with me.

 

[ShesInsatiable]

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[screwher]

I definitely would let her do porn and more than likely be there to watch it being filmed. I already let her play with her boyfriend with or without me being there and if I am not i get rewarded with some video or pictures afterwards.

This is my situation as well. We’re a hotwife couple. So she’s already having sex with other men. With my full approval. And been able to watch a number of times now. So the payoff to her doing porn is having her sex on video for me to enjoy anytime. Doing porn would also increase the number of men screwing my wife a great deal. At least 2-3 new guys a week!

The only downside would be the potential of friends and family seeing her vids. Friends/family are a boundary in our lifestyle. And I’d like it to carry over into our lives as well.

 

[myrionomos]

Doing Porn is public. Whatever regrets there may or may not be, there is no going back - ever.

Your wife would do better to test the waters - particularly her own psychological response by obtaining work as a prostitute first. Then if she does not like the experience at least it was a private transaction that she can walk away from.

 

[Pantux]

Would it be cool for a married woman to start doing porn? Not the bad stuff from years so Maybe some small time stuff with a small group of people she likes and trusts?

I like porn where I know it is somebody’s wife. I like older women. I follow a few married couples on Pornhub. They often start off with their husband or solo, then usually to lesbian and then friends. It seems to be a progression. I feel that the taboo of the wife doing other men or women on camera Is exciting for me, because It is something wife would never do. If the wife and husband are into go for it.

 

[screwher]

Doing Porn is public. Whatever regrets there may or may not be, there is no going back - ever.

Your wife would do better to test the waters - particularly her own psychological response by obtaining work as a prostitute first. Then if she does not like the experience at least it was a private transaction that she can walk away from.

That’s really good advice. Makes a lot of sense. That in itself would be hot! I have a long time fantasy that my wife I’d a high priced call girl. She has a select clientel. Rich businessmen in town staying at fancy hotels. But more realistically my wife would basically just be a prostitute.

 

[Vitriolhack]

Hi V,

I guess that I’m asking both. It’s a surprising a new topic to me as well. I guess I’m thinking that there are different ramifications to this. It doesn’t have to be some big company. Maybe you can be a small company that produces things on a shoestring budget. But the ramifications are similar; what’s the impact on the relationship? Does it bother anybody that this could be online for a long time? People could save it on their computers. Would it bother her long-term? What if other people see it?

You are asking a lot of good questions that, in the end, you cannot answer for her.

What does she think about it?

If she has made up her mind, all you can do is express your concern, if you have any, and be a supportive partner. If you do not support her and she is hell bent on going through with it, this will become a topic of constant irritation in your couple.

v.

 

[policywank]

I am with you. I get it. In fact I don’t want her to do her wildest things on that video for all to see! We have not heard from any wives or non-husbands. I wonder what they will think?

That strikes a chord with me. If she is going to do it she can't really know in advance just how far she will want to go. Maybe she will want to do her wildest things. Even if she feels otherwise to start, she may change her mind. The point being I think you need to be really careful about pre-ordaining rules and constraints to assuage your or her anxieties. You don't know how it will go. And she needs maximum latitude to be her herself. Keep the "limits" to those that are for safety or practical purposes.

If she does it, you need to assume people you know will see it. Reality is that porn is so prolific now that it could easily get lost in the huge volume of what is out there and once it has been out for a while will quickly be forgotten. But you never know. Yes guys will download it and jerk off to it.

In a way I think of it like being a hot wife. I try to be discrete and careful with who knows. I don't date guys who shoot their mouths off. But sometimes people see me on dates with other men. Or stuff just has a way of coming out. You can't live in fear of people finding out. You have to adopt the attitude that they will and when that happens you will own it. The best way to do that in my mind is to be ready to acknowledge it and insist on your and your wife's right to live your lives without other people's judgment. That may be hard to do and you may feel self-conscious. But if you start making excuses or justifying yourselves you just feed into those who would judge you. If you say "so, what of it?" they have not much left to say and will soon lose interest in judging you.

Just remember it is a job and it is her job if she pursues it. She has to do it her way and own it herself. If you try to impose constraints or become her "manager" she will likely end up resenting it.

 

[Muwarr90]

Would it be cool for a married woman to start doing porn? Not the bad stuff from years so Maybe some small time stuff with a small group of people she likes and trusts?
Ladies, what do you think?
Husbands?
Guys who like milfs?

...I ask this for a reason. I don’t want to taint opinions with the reason but I look forward eagerly to reading the answers. I promise I’ll explain at a later point.

First off, I'd echo what many have said already: Once done there is no going back. If she decides to do it, it's a lifetime, irrevocable, commitment. Once out on the internet it will never, ever go away

Secondly, I'd be wary of doing it through a small time operation. While it may seem like the exposure is lower, a small time operator may not have the knowledge or resources required to prevent your wife, or the product produced from being exploited in ways she doesn't want. There are a lot of shady characters in porn, as in other industries. Research those you will be working with extensively. The nice, friendly person you may deal with face to face may not be the one who is making the important decisions behind the scenes.

 

[Loveitdady]

I am with you. I get it. In fact I don’t want her to do her wildest things on that video for all to see! We have not heard from any wives or non-husbands. I wonder what they will think?

It doesn't bother me either. But I am a single guy and would love it. Maybe then I could find a hot lady to chat with...

 

[Whitney91]

I did some small stuff when I was in college that my husband knows about. Like you said it was with a group of friends I knew well and trusted and they were trying to start a company so it's not like I was a huge porn star or anything. My husband says it's hot knowing that I did it in the past but not sure how something like that would go over now.

 

[luckyseven]

Would it be cool for a married woman to start doing porn? Not the bad stuff from years so Maybe some small time stuff with a small group of people she likes and trusts?
Ladies, what do you think?
Husbands?
Guys who like milfs?

...I ask this for a reason. I don’t want to taint opinions with the reason but I look forward eagerly to reading the answers. I promise I’ll explain at a later point.

The fact that a wife used her body to make my living shouldn't be frowned upon.

Porn is often quoted as the depiction of erotic behaviour intended to cause sexual excitement. Increasingly many mainstream movies feature non-simulated sex but because it is regarded as "artistic" it isn't considered pornographic; sex is a beautiful thing and shouldn't be treated as something evil.

Pornography has taken on an additional, non-sexualized, sense: one that refers to a depiction of sensational material (such as violence) in order to elicit a reaction. This I find worrying as it tends to degrade women.

If my wife wanted to pursue a career where she would agree to have consensual penetrative sex on camera I would support her in anyway I could.

 

[devilish_desires_couple]

Yes. I believe she should.

 

[FL30]

Would it be cool for a married woman to start doing porn? Not the bad stuff from years so Maybe some small time stuff with a small group of people she likes and trusts?
Ladies, what do you think?
Husbands?
Guys who like milfs?

...I ask this for a reason. I don’t want to taint opinions with the reason but I look forward eagerly to reading the answers. I promise I’ll explain at a later point.

It's already been done. There is a lot of amateur PORN out there that has been done by married women.

You're late to the game

 

[luckyseven]

It's already been done. There is a lot of amateur PORN out there that has been done by married women.

You're late to the game

I was amazed at the quality and how well they have mastered the art. Married women never fail to amaze me.

 

[Islander55]

I am an older married woman and personally I would not want to do any porn that was on the internet. Just because there are people I would not want to see it. If a woman and her husband were OK with those risks, I see nothing wrong with doing a shoot.

 

[ShesInsatiable]

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[luckyseven]

We actually joked about her becoming a call girl in during the ‘08 recession. I was surprised that she found it funny. I liked the idea. Would be exciting!

Many do and enjoy the freedom but many have pimps who are heartless and exploitive

 

[Cfnmlover84]

If you knew they were filming/taking pictures and that it was going to end up on the internet. Would you let your wife go to a male stripper show?