cuckolding - what is your big turn on?

[dominatrixNY]

I love to get fucked infront of my sub. For me it is a big turn on for me that my sub has to prepair me for my bull in many different ways and than i tie him up and my sub has to watch me to get fucked from a young and hot bull with a big dick.
than i love that my sub has to suck the dick of my bull. I think it is so hot to see a sub sucking a dick.
What is your big turn on?

 

[screwher]

My biggest turn on in our lifestyle is my wife and her lover using our marital bed! It’s suppose to be that sacred special spot where we sleep, cuddle, and physically express our love.

Then he comes over...

 

[Mystories189]

I love making my husband jealous is number one. I also love being with a new guy who knows us and doesn't know that I sleep around and seeing their surprise.

 

[Longhairsmile]

yet..

yet to explore it with a partner, but i love the energy of it, and if i was with a girl who really got off on the idea, i think it'd be very erotic if, he texted her, 10 min away... or parking... being with her, next to her on the couch, knowing he's about to be there, feeling her excitement, or watching her in the mirror getting ready-- and eye contact, almost no words, knowing she's about to get fucked like she deserves, knowing i'll be with her after... knowing she's basically his, and eagerly waiting

 

[TheShez]

We are yet to take the leap. But for me it's my wife getting attention. Her being made to feel sexy. But most importantly the idea that she is using them just to get off. Like a form of masturbation. And me being able to share in all of her pleasures. I love her completely and want her to be completely fulfilled in her passion.
Promiscuity is a massive turn on for me. Particularly when a woman owns it.

 

[ShesInsatiable]

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[Mystories189]

You’re devious! He’s so lucky!

Haha, sometimes he threatens divorce when I I have sex and he's present. It just makes me hornier and I tell him to go ahead. Then the next day, he's over it.

 

[Pliantjoed]

For me it’s the emotional insecurity of my wife doing things with another lover that she won’t let me do. Our sex life is very ordinary. She has this other side that she doesn’t offer to me. A very slutty side sucking, licking, anal. All things that I get punished for asking about. I would love to be witness to see this side of her in action. I also would love her in that situation to be dominant, make me kneel, watch, suck and lick them both and clean up after their adventure.

 

[SharesMe]

I love when we’re all wearing our Wedding rings, and we’re watching each other. At times will make sure that we are forced to watch the other couple without interacting.

 

[bareman]

Promiscuity is a massive turn on for me. Particularly when a woman owns it.[/QUOTE]

Man! This expresses it perfectly for me.

 

[goodsonformom]

For me the cuckolding dynamic is intense. Even in simple wife-sharing activities, I find many of the same psychologically arousing components. I can be a jealous guy, so there that is, the gut-wrenching feeling of watching your wife or girlfriend fucking another man...seeing her receiving pleasure...watching her responding in ways she has never responded with you...of if you're not present, the fantasy and suspicion she is doing things she would never do with you, the envy...the knowledge she is taking control of her own sexuality and needs...satisfying her need for more cock, bigger cocks...maybe larger than your own, and could you still satisfy her after her pussy was stretched by him...then best part for me would be reclaiming her, taking her back, filling her with your seed.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I love just seeing her confidence manifested...

That the other guy is going to like what she does with him
That she is attractive
That she is giving me something sexual as well by being shared
That her marriage will remain intact

Its amazing to see her confidence in these situations.

 

[PaxNurgle]

For guys who are into it, it's a combination of things:

-The voyeuristic aspect of watching a woman you are attracted to having sex, especially with someone perceived to be more physically perfect than you are.
-The erotic humiliation factor, for guys who trend kinky and submissive.
-Wishing to see your wife satisfied sexually if you are unable to fulfill all of her needs yourself.
-and, ironically, consensual cheating may potentially even save a marriage that is in trouble, as the guilt factor and the deceit aren't a factor.

With that said, it's clearly not for everyone.

 

[HottieOlwen]

I love to get fucked infront of my sub. For me it is a big turn on for me that my sub has to prepair me for my bull in many different ways and than i tie him up and my sub has to watch me to get fucked from a young and hot bull with a big dick.
than i love that my sub has to suck the dick of my bull. I think it is so hot to see a sub sucking a dick.
What is your big turn on?

I suppose my biggest turn on is that I am doing something that pleases my cuckold. Yes, I dominate him, and he's been a willing cuckold for all but 2 years of our married life, but at the end of the day, I love him. He's watched me being fucked, he's been banished to the spare room and heard me being fucked and he's been left home alone whilst I go out to get myself fucked. But I'll never leave him. He cleans me up so thoroughly and looks forward to his weekly milking (even though it is always to a ruined orgasm.) He has even learned to suck cock, despite being 100% hetero.He's happy being cock locked 24/7 at all times except for milking time. It was his suggestion that I become a Hot Wife, something that I was not comfortable with at the time. But that was 30 years ago! I love my lifestyle now, and I know that my cuckold loves his too.

 

[pixie07]

there are many big turn on‘s . Watching her do things with othe guys that she would never do with me , having guys that are naturally dominant get my also naturally dominant wife to submit to them and watching her get the fucking of her life . The jealousy and humiliation it brings me that we both know I will never be able to fuck her as good as these other guys do especially when she is with our friends and they about our cuckold relationship. everything about our relationship is a big turn on .

 

[cuck72]

For me it's all about the humiliation. About the other guy knowing she's my wife, and that he's making her feel better and more satisfied sexually then I ever did. He feels so good fucking my wife and knowing he has a bigger cock, that she's feeling things in her pussy she never could feel with my little pee, pee. Then the fact that he is humiliating me knowing he's more of a man in our bedroom then me.

Then the whole thought of my wife being a real cum dump slut for guys with bigger cocks and better love making skills. Then she flaunts it, not hiding the fact that I don't satisfy her sexually once she gets a taste of a better lover with a huge cock. I LOVE to submit and show my submissive side of being a cleanup cuckold. I love her so much, so I wouldn't mind being an obedient cuckold just to stay with her. My wife gets the sex she needs, and I get the humiliation and hard little pee, pee watching or cleaning up after she gets home.

 

[bizarrpaar]

My husband told me his biggest Turn on is when a bbc Bull Shows up to me at a bar where i am to Pick up bbc Bulls - dressed slutty - and Do Not care that my husband is with me. That turns me on too.... Kissing a young Black man and looking into my husband eyes.... watching helpless as a Alpha man takes his wife... Owns her

 

[screwher]

Another big turn on is when another man licks my wife’s pussy. And her current boyfriend has eaten her ass. Those are her most private, intimate areas. And they’ve now seen them up close. And knows what she tastes like.

 

[cuck72]

Years ago we had some really hot exciting 3sums with a work friend of mine. My wife admitted she liked it best when I left them alone to have sex. I always gave them time alone knowing it would be more exciting for my work friend and wife. But I was still around, and when I quietly walked into our bedroom it was so exciting to watch and hear my wife. It was like I wasn’t even in our home, it was just him fucking her. He had my wife forgetting I was around, hearing her moaning and telling him how good his much bigger cock felt. Then One time he was fucking her deep and he had these low hanging balls slapping her ass loudly. That was so exciting when my wife said, “ I love the feel of your balls hitting my butt.” There are some, I call them highlight moments that I still remember from those hot 3sums. But just knowing that he was fucking my wife with a much bigger cock, and she got into so much, that she forgot that I was even around.

 

[WonderPonder]

Even though my wife has no interest I love the fantasy of her being with another man. The man would have a big cock and is a totally stud. They really hit it off in every aspect and I like the danger of them crushing hard on each other. They see each other for a couple of weeks regularly before she sits me down for the talk where she tells me how it's going to be. First her pussy is now his and he doesn't want her fucking or her sucking me anymore, she agrees with him completely. My sex life will consist of lots of masturbating, the odd handjob and licking her pussy.

 

[JR284]

For me, it's multiple things. There is absolutely the compersion component. My wife is quite the size queen and I love knowing that she's getting so much pleasure from other men, and getting the big cock that she enjoys. I also just really love the attention that she gets from other men and at the end of the day knowing that she comes home to me. I don't know how to explain it, but I just love knowing that she's been used by so many other men. When I'm going down on her, or fucking her, just looking at her pussy and knowing that so many other men have been inside of her even though she's only supposed to be mine. And lastly there's absolutely a voyeuristic side to me that just enjoys watching.

 

[cuck72]

Even though my wife has no interest I love the fantasy of her being with another man. The man would have a big cock and is a totally stud. They really hit it off in every aspect and I like the danger of them crushing hard on each other. They see each other for a couple of weeks regularly before she sits me down for the talk where she tells me how it's going to be. First her pussy is now his and he doesn't want her fucking or her sucking me anymore, she agrees with him completely. My sex life will consist of lots of masturbating, the odd handjob and licking her pussy.

Becoming a true obedient cuckold, because you love her so much and don't want to be without her. You are so happy to be in any part of her sex life, to eat her pussy clean, and she only rubs you off through your undies. I think if a guy is just a little submissive or has those kinds of fantasies, he can easily get into liking the whole idea of being a cuckold.

 

[whatahoot]

Back when my husband was into it, I loved teasing him about things that I did with other men, but didn't do with him. It would get such a rise out of him. Knowing that he wanted certain things and denying him always got him so worked up that and made him fuck me even harder. There was also something insanely hot about having him eat me out after someone else had fucked me, whether the guy finished inside of me or not. I would always need to make sure to have him do that before he came though, because my husband had crazy post-orgasm clarity issues.

 

[LeeKee]

Back when my husband was into it, I loved teasing him about things that I did with other men, but didn't do with him. It would get such a rise out of him. Knowing that he wanted certain things and denying him always got him so worked up that and made him fuck me even harder. There was also something insanely hot about having him eat me out after someone else had fucked me, whether the guy finished inside of me or not. I would always need to make sure to have him do that before he came though, because my husband had crazy post-orgasm clarity issues.

How old and how long were you married when you started cuckholding?

 

[whatahoot]

How old and how long were you married when you started cuckholding?

I was 31 and we had been married a year at that point (it was how we "celebrated" our one year anniversary). It was more of an open relationship but it certainly shifted more towards cuckolding towards the end.