Bi guys - Do you like hotwife / cuckold play?

[CharlieBoker]

The psychology behind why men get turned on by another guy fucking their wife has always fascinated me. Since I discovered that cuckolding was a big turn on for me I've done lots of research and established that the theories surrounding it are many, broad and varied.

Over on the Ourhotwives forum there's always lots of chat about husbands who like to service the wife's bull. Many guys who would normally consider themselves straight seem to enjoy cream pie eating after their wife has been freshly fucked and talk of a yearning for cum direct from the source is quite common.

It got me thinking about some of the theories I've read plus my own bisexual leanings and my love of the hotwife scenario. I wondered if it worked the other way........Are bi men who are in a steady relationship with a woman more inclined to lean towards hotwife play?

I'd be really interested to hear from you bi guys........Is it a thing for you? Is there a common link between male bisexuality and the hotwife / cuckold scene?

 

[Marty Fisher]

The psychology behind why men get turned on by another guy fucking their wife has always fascinated me. Since I discovered that cuckolding was a big turn on for me I've done lots of research and established that the theories surrounding it are many, broad and varied.

Over on the Ourhotwives forum there's always lots of chat about husbands who like to service the wife's bull. Many guys who would normally consider themselves straight seem to enjoy cream pie eating after their wife has been freshly fucked and talk of a yearning for cum direct from the source is quite common.

It got me thinking about some of the theories I've read plus my own bisexual leanings and my love of the hotwife scenario. I wondered if it worked the other way........Are bi men who are in a steady relationship with a woman more inclined to lean towards hotwife play?

I'd be really interested to hear from you bi guys........Is it a thing for you? Is there a common link between male bisexuality and the hotwife / cuckold scene?

My perspective: we're all just a giant bag of chemicals that changes from day to day, some more than others, so it's hard to find a single reason for why any of us do certain things other than to say they bring pleasure to us, sometimes in explainable ways. I'm certainly no longer heterosexual and I'm guessing I never really was, squarely see myself as bisexual with a few extra kinks, mostly driven by desire and the inability to live out those desires at a satisfying level. I'd loved to be cucked, caged, and/or dressed, and I'd gladly suck a cock "for my wife", fluff a bull, fuck-lick, clean his cock and her pussy after they fucked, etc etc etc. It's all good to me and I don't need an explanation as to why.....Marti

 

[Brick1950]

I would say yes!

I would think most cuckold have a bi side so much so they are willing to share the hot wife for the chance to " clean up" the bull's cock with the wife looking on.

 

[BBCfan]

The psychology behind why men get turned on by another guy fucking their wife has always fascinated me. Since I discovered that cuckolding was a big turn on for me I've done lots of research and established that the theories surrounding it are many, broad and varied.

Over on the Ourhotwives forum there's always lots of chat about husbands who like to service the wife's bull. Many guys who would normally consider themselves straight seem to enjoy cream pie eating after their wife has been freshly fucked and talk of a yearning for cum direct from the source is quite common.

It got me thinking about some of the theories I've read plus my own bisexual leanings and my love of the hotwife scenario. I wondered if it worked the other way........Are bi men who are in a steady relationship with a woman more inclined to lean towards hotwife play?

I'd be really interested to hear from you bi guys........Is it a thing for you? Is there a common link between male bisexuality and the hotwife / cuckold scene?

In my case I had BBC cocksucker desires for years but never any interest watching them fuck my GF.

It all changed when I found out my wife had experienced many of the cocks I fantasize about. The idea of watching her enjoy a BBC has become hotter than me sucking one.

So definitely my bi interests got me there,but they have waned a bit and I'm more turned on by more straight 3some activity watching my wife get stretched by a much bigger cock than mine. That could evolve to more cuck type scenarios especially
if wife pushed the idea but creampie eating is not appealing even in wild fantasy.

 

[peter49parker]

The psychology behind why men get turned on by another guy fucking their wife has always fascinated me. Since I discovered that cuckolding was a big turn on for me I've done lots of research and established that the theories surrounding it are many, broad and varied.

Over on the Ourhotwives forum there's always lots of chat about husbands who like to service the wife's bull. Many guys who would normally consider themselves straight seem to enjoy cream pie eating after their wife has been freshly fucked and talk of a yearning for cum direct from the source is quite common.

It got me thinking about some of the theories I've read plus my own bisexual leanings and my love of the hotwife scenario. I wondered if it worked the other way........Are bi men who are in a steady relationship with a woman more inclined to lean towards hotwife play?

I'd be really interested to hear from you bi guys........Is it a thing for you? Is there a common link between male bisexuality and the hotwife / cuckold scene?

Like you, I have been fascinated with the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle for a very long time. As a young man, I was interested in only one thing ... pussy. When I first got married, I could never see myself wanting anything other than a hetero relationship with my wife. Then came the 'unexplainable'. I was overcome with an intense desire to watch my wife have sex with other men. I have no idea of how my brain came up with that, but it did. I used to do a lot of reading Penthouse and found the "Hotwife/Cuckold stories totally un-appealing. Then one day, it was like a switch flipped 'on' and I was obsessed with them.

As with most people, we are expanding our wants and desires and sex is no different. My desires started with watching my wife have sex with other men and developed to me being a participant. I wanted to help out by guiding cocks into her. Then I wanted to eat the resulting cream pie. As time passed and my desires went un-fulfilled, I took matters a step further and had to taste another man's cum right from the source. Once I accepted this bisexual curiosity as a real piece of my sexual puzzle, I went for it.

I can't explain it. I don't know if anyone can. The fact is, I went from a heterosexual husband, to wanting to be cuckolded by my wife, to being a cock sucker. I would prefer to combine all of these desires into one, although my wife is not interested in pursuing the matter.

In answer to your question, I have no idea of any correlation between the "hotwife/cuckold scene and bisexuality. It just happened.

 

[OpenMouth]

I think it's had a strong appeal for me from about the time I started experimenting with panties and vibrators.

As a background, it's always taboo to tolerate other men even looking at your girlfriend in the kind of traditional paternal society where I grew up, so that adds an element of forbidden excitement.

When I watch cuckold videos all the sexual and erotic elements compliment each other. I adore the woman and want to be the cuckold; I envy the bull but also want to suck him too, and lick the woman clean afterwards. I want to be each and all of them in a way. It also gives me pangs of wishing my wife would take lovers, and I imagine it would give me bittersweet pangs if she actually did.

The whole concept is electrifying.

 

[guns4444]

I can say over recent years I have become bi-curious and that has lead to a HUGE wife sharing fantasy. I think about it most everyday!

 

[betamale30]

I developed a big cuckold fetish early on in my 20’s.. I was lucky enough to experience It alittle bit but havent never done or served the other guy. Later on I had met a Dom man on another site and I was telling him about my cuckold thoughts. He had a theory on why I was so into It. His claim was that I was really into men myself and that cuckolding gave me a less guilty way of experiencing that. He said It was a way for me to live vicariously through my gf getting cock, It felt less gay because It wasn’t actually me getting the other men off but deep down that was the real reason I liked It so much. Made me wonder a lot of maybe he was right

 

[wondering00]

I developed a big cuckold fetish early on in my 20’s.. I was lucky enough to experience It alittle bit but havent never done or served the other guy. Later on I had met a Dom man on another site and I was telling him about my cuckold thoughts. He had a theory on why I was so into It. His claim was that I was really into men myself and that cuckolding gave me a less guilty way of experiencing that. He said It was a way for me to live vicariously through my gf getting cock, It felt less gay because It wasn’t actually me getting the other men off but deep down that was the real reason I liked It so much. Made me wonder a lot of maybe he was right

Probably true.

 

[CharlieBoker]

He said It was a way for me to live vicariously through my gf getting cock, It felt less gay because It wasn’t actually me getting the other men off but deep down that was the real reason I liked It so much. Made me wonder a lot of maybe he was right

One of the many interesting theories.........In my case there is a link between my gay side and wanting to watch my wife.

 

[haventdonethat]

Just my take on the hot wife, wife sharing thing.
BTW . . . I much prefer the term “wife pleasuring”. To me that is the whole point of it.

I do not like cuck themed scenarios. I do not enjoy sissy play or dress.

I do (or did) like fucking my wife and having our very close friend fuck her also, plus enjoyed sucking his cock as he sucked mine with my wife as an equal participant. We were all equal participants; we enjoyed cleaning her cunt after anyone came in it, licked her face after her blowjobs as she kissed us after we sucked each other to completion.

Am I bi . . . or sexually opportune?

 

[txfuncouple]

Just my take on the hot wife, wife sharing thing.
BTW . . . I much prefer the term “wife pleasuring”. To me that is the whole point of it.

I do not like cuck themed scenarios. I do not enjoy sissy play or dress.

I do (or did) like fucking my wife and having our very close friend fuck her also, plus enjoyed sucking his cock as he sucked mine with my wife as an equal participant. We were all equal participants; we enjoyed cleaning her cunt after anyone came in it, licked her face after her blowjobs as she kissed us after we sucked each other to completion.

Am I bi . . . or sexually opportune?

We sound very similar. Not into humiliation at all. Matter of fact, if you’re going to play with us you have to understand its an extension of our fun, not a replacement. We like to think of adding a cock (or two) to our fun is like having a real life sex toy to use for our pleasure. No desire for replacing what we have. Its just another facet of our desire to not limit our sexuality or experiences.

 

[haventdonethat]

Matter of fact, if you’re going to play with us you have to understand its an extension of our fun, not a replacement. We like to think of adding a cock (or two) to our fun is like having a real life sex toy to use for our pleasure.[/QUOTE]

This is why I say "wife pleasuring" rather than wife sharing.
Sex is supposed to be pleasurable and fun so adding a cock (or two ) should only increase that pleasure for all that are involved.

Also, I think finding the correct "extra" is one of the biggest hurdles.
With us, it was a very close friend of ours; close to both of us. I think that helped a lot.

 

[Jerseyboy52]

I love both

I've been with my wife a few times with her bf.