A little truth and honesty...

[Angeleyes355]

A good woman will never force a man to realize that she is a good woman. If he doesn't recognize that on his own it's his loss

I decided after getting some really incredible advise (you'll know who you are) that I'm going to change things around a little.

I'm looking for prospective friends who would like to the invest time into getting to know each other. Someone who I can talk about everything from whats for breakfast, to how my kids are driving me crazy, to how tough that decision at work was. I would so love for them to confide in me too about what's happening in their life. Sometimes Crying, sometimes laughing sometimes both at the same time but you're loving it anyways because it's me.

The greatest lovers were friends first so who knows what it could become if we don't take a chance.

Im passionate about life and I'm an old romantic at heart. I used to write a little erotica.

Oh and I turn heads with all my clothes on... Imagine that!

Thanks for reading.

 

[Bewleybrother]

Yeah well people should be careful.There are a lot of duplicitous individuals on literotica;people with multiple ids,men pretending to be women and vice versa.Ask for a photo and see how quickly they want to be friends.lol

 

[Fuzzy1975]

Chose your "friend" wisely, too many idiot males lurking about Lit....

 

[Bewleybrother]

Chose your "friend" wisely, too many idiot males lurking about Lit....

Yeah choose your "friend" wisely,too many idiot females lurking about literotica.50/50

 

[Fuzzy1975]

Yeah choose your "friend" wisely,too many idiot females lurking about literotica.50/50

*chuckles* half the women on here are just men in a female profile.....

 

[ElizaBennet33]

Wow so many cynical replies on this thread!

Wishing you all the luck and ignore anyone with only negative things to say. There are many good guys on Lit and a lot of them are not very active on the Boards. You only need one so take your time to find the right person for you. xx

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

*chuckles* half the women on here are just men in a female profile.....

Which is utterly disgusting. You'd have to be pretty desperate to play a woman just to find another to talk to.

I'd rather no one want to talk to me than to pretend I'm someone I'm not.

 

[hondo53]

Can people really be friends if they haven't spent time getting to know each other?

 

[MrDevereaux]

I don't know if the OP is still about on Lit, so here's my contribution to the conversation.

Friends are great. Getting to know someone without the overhang of sexually entertaining the other person is the best way of finding what makes the other person tick. Where there is an identifiable goal, people are more focussed on that goal than anything. If you start talking with the statement that overly sexual comments will end the conversation, you set boundaries and that means people can be more open with telling you want makes their world tick.

If sex is on the table from the get-go, once that conversation has run its course (so to speak), then you have this place where subjects need to take the place of the silence.

I hope that you have been having some positive adventures here, or wherever you are finding friends.