3some Ideas

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Am 38 and she's19. We are planning for a 3some, which is first for both of us.
Seeking foreplay or ice breaker ideas from experienced folks please.
 
Have some drinks available. Make out with her in front of him, as if you are alone. Have 0 expectations and approach ot the same way you'd approach any new sex partner: just relax and communicate
 
How about the old standby of Strip Poker followed by Truth or Dare?

Just curious but is the third male or female?
 
Prep

Success is all in the preparation.

Who are you doing this with? Stranger or friend?

Where are you going? Who's house or are you getting a hotel?

Who's allowed to do what to whom? Who can touch what, who can do what? Set some rules and expectations between you and your gf.

Is there a duress code? Pick a word or a phrase that can signify artfully extracating yourselves from a bad situation. "I'm done, stop," is always acceptable if you're not worried about style points.

Don't go overboard with the booze, the drugs, the intoxicants, and altering reality. Enjoy it and stay in the here and now. Once you've tried it, you'll realize how fun it can be.

Really, talk to each other a lot before you do this. Walk out the scenario start to finish (even that can lead to some sexy times) and figure out what you two want out of the experience. Then be safe, take your time setting it up, and go have some fun.
 
MFM or FMF?

No experience with MFM, but we had a few FMF threesomes.

The first time we met for drinks with the lady to become acquainted, then proceeded to a local hotel. Once inside, our new friend proposed that the ladies take a shower together to freshen up. That suggestion worked very well. The women went in together and came out fully charged and ready to play.

The second time was a random meeting at a bar. The women were both drunk, and things happened as soon as we got to the lady's house. No preliminaries were necessary.

When we played with couples in swap situations, we found that playing pool is a great way to get things going. You don't need to make any special rules, just getting close to line up shots, bending over the table, etc, can do wonders to get the juices flowing.

A hot tub is even better. No explanation necessary.
 
Am 38 and she's19. We are planning for a 3some, which is first for both of us.
Seeking foreplay or ice breaker ideas from experienced folks please.
I'd suggest drinks or a bit of smoke if that's your thing to get everyone loosened up a bit as well as to settle in and get comfortable. A bit of chat followed by some sort of erotic games. I'm fond of sexual trivia, pictionary, and games of that sort. Then there are the classics of spin the bottle and Twister, which are a great follow ups to the ice breaker games. Once you get there the moment begins to rule the day and the games tend to naturally come to a conclusion as the orgy commences! If you have a pool this can also be a natural at breaking the ice as everyone is so close to being naked already and this tends to have everyone aroused seeing one another. Good stuff and have fun! Do share some stories or pics!!!
 
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