Any advice for better replies? Need help

[Draven_Crow13]

I post often but get no replies or connections. Ladies please look at my post and see if there is something i could word better to attract more attention lol.

here goes laying it all put there so you can like or lumpy next words. Seeking that missing connection. Relationship but complicated would discuss more if we click. Looking for the type that adores good morning and good night messages. Just to see how our days go and chert each other up.
I'm sarcastic love football coffee star wars and batman.
More into the girly girl type I guess as they seem to have that bubbly vibe which offsets my sarcasm lol. Ones who like to show off their outfits and love compliments. Overall just fun innocent flirting to see if we click and a good convo to learn more about people and brighten each others day.
I have snap and use it a bit more than here so hmu here or


snapchat. chris_wolflover

 

[lonely_hubby60]

hello Draven, I have but a small piece of advice for you, but possibly it may help you.

When I look at your post Sexless Marriages for instance, it seems to me, you focus a lot on your own misfortunes. Instead of telling every woman reading your post, what you could do for her, in case the connection you search for materializes.

it seems to me, every woman will prefer hearing, what you like to give her, and not so much what you are yearning to get.

Good luck in any case.

 

[NotThatMrsJones]

Hi Draven,

I tend to agree with lonely hubby when he says your posts focus a lot on your misfortunes. Plus, looking at your ad titles, some seem rather negative, such as "I Doubt It", "Connections are a Myth", and "Sad my posts are like an echo to nowhere." To me, they don't scream "major catch." Plus, it looks like your post activity on Lit is confined to your personals as far as I can see. You don't appear to post anyplace else, so I can't really get an idea about you beyond your ads, despite you being a member her for almost four years.

My advice, for what it is worth, is to increase your interactions with other members on Lit. Let us see more of you. Step out and flirt with some of the ladies in other threads. Post about your likes and dislikes. Tell a joke you heard.

One other thing that lonely hubby mentioned that you could add to your ad: tell your potential lady (or girly girl, as you mentioned is your preference) what it is you'll do for her. What's in it for her? What can you offer her that the next guy's ad below yours can't?

I wish you luck.

 

[MadameSarcasm]

I post often but get no replies or connections. Ladies please look at my post and see if there is something i could word better to attract more attention lol.

here goes laying it all put there so you can like or lumpy next words. Seeking that missing connection. Relationship but complicated would discuss more if we click. Looking for the type that adores good morning and good night messages. Just to see how our days go and chert each other up.
I'm sarcastic love football coffee star wars and batman.
More into the girly girl type I guess as they seem to have that bubbly vibe which offsets my sarcasm lol. Ones who like to show off their outfits and love compliments. Overall just fun innocent flirting to see if we click and a good convo to learn more about people and brighten each others day.
I have snap and use it a bit more than here so hmu here or


snapchat. chris_wolflover

Just based on this post, I would advise you to carefully read and edit before posting. You have several typos and your punctuation is erratic at best. It's all about making a good first impression. You personally may not care about spelling and punctuation, but in a forum where those are your only means of presenting yourself, you have to pay attention to them.

Best wishes to you!

 

[ElizaBennet33]

Do something different

I agree with all the comments above. I also think you've asked for advice before, but didn't really take up any of the suggestions or make any changes to your new ads.

If you're serious about finding that connection on Lit, you need to do something different this time and not post the same PM over and over again.

I remember what I've read before and I shake my head a little if it's the same PM copied and pasted.

Best of luck to you. It's tough on here!

 

[Draven_Crow13]

thank you to all. Yes. I admit I got lazy and just copy and pasted my previous adds. As far as likes. Big football fan. Loveccoffee especially starbucks dark roasts. And star wars nerd lol.
I'm sarcastic and funny at least i think so and tend to think outside the box. Have a creative naughty mind if we click that will leave you wanting more.