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bbwAlexa

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I have had some great luck meeting people off here who are fun to chat with. Sexually, and otherwise. Usually these friendships expire at some point. And usually the both of us married, with kids, just looking for some flirting, fantasy, and escape from our spouses we have no intention of leaving. But they fizzle after a few months. I shrug my shoulders and move on. Never bothered.
This time, was different. Mostly because it was out of the blue. Some weird circumstances. I can only fathom he got caught, or COVID which is a possibility as he was at work daily. Which makes me sad if the latter. Because you kind of care about someone, even if you don't know them. And then it's possible the worst could have happened. I guess the worst is a possibility without a pandemic. But now it's more likely. Sigh...... I think I'd rather just think he is an ass who ghosted me. Too bad I doubt that. He was too nice. And we had the most amazing sexual chemistry.
 
bbwAlexa said:
I have had some great luck meeting people off here who are fun to chat with. Sexually, and otherwise. Usually these friendships expire at some point. And usually the both of us married, with kids, just looking for some flirting, fantasy, and escape from our spouses we have no intention of leaving. But they fizzle after a few months. I shrug my shoulders and move on. Never bothered.
This time, was different. Mostly because it was out of the blue. Some weird circumstances. I can only fathom he got caught, or COVID which is a possibility as he was at work daily. Which makes me sad if the latter. Because you kind of care about someone, even if you don't know them. And then it's possible the worst could have happened. I guess the worst is a possibility without a pandemic. But now it's more likely. Sigh...... I think I'd rather just think he is an ass who ghosted me. Too bad I doubt that. He was too nice. And we had the most amazing sexual chemistry.
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Lit is a great place to come to cheat on your spouse. Good luck. :)
 
Saint_Ann said:
Lit is a great place to come to cheat on your spouse. Good luck. :)
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Oh the debate continues if chatting with someone about sex is cheating. Not in my book. I'm on the right side of a thin line. I've spent years trying to spice up my sex life. He hasn't even tried to give me an orgasm in 5 years. I refuse to waste my one and only life. But I also won't physically cheat. That's the other side of the line.
 
bbwAlexa said:
Oh the debate continues if chatting with someone about sex is cheating. Not in my book. I'm on the right side of a thin line. I've spent years trying to spice up my sex life. He hasn't even tried to give me an orgasm in 5 years. I refuse to waste my one and only life. But I also won't physically cheat. That's the other side of the line.
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You'd be okay with your hubby phone fucking some hussy? Men usually don't have the willpower to keep it aural. :)
 
Saint_Ann said:
You'd be okay with your hubby phone fucking some hussy? Men usually don't have the willpower to keep it aural. :)
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I would if he had come to me and had several long real conversations about it where I told him to get his kicks elsewhere.

I couldn't tell if you were being a judgemental ass before. I feel you've confirmed that. Is it irony when a person on a sex site is judgemental about other people and sex? I read a lot of sex stories on my Kindle too. Would you like to judge me there too?
 
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bbwAlexa said:
I would if he had come to me and had several long real conversations about it where I told him to get his kicks elsewhere.

I couldn't tell if you were being a judgemental ass before. I feel you've confirmed that. Is it irony when a person on a sex site is judgemental about other people and sex?
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I'm just trying to figure out what "this" ^ is. Is it a confessional? An advertisement for an opening in the special friend department? A pity party?

Kick his ass to the curb and go out and get some real sex. :)
 
Just some random thoughts. Gosh It's hilarious how much you care. You must be awfully bored today. Lol
Feel free to troll someone else. I think I'm washing my hair today so I don't have time for it.
 
bbwAlexa said:
I have had some great luck meeting people off here who are fun to chat with. Sexually, and otherwise. Usually these friendships expire at some point. And usually the both of us married, with kids, just looking for some flirting, fantasy, and escape from our spouses we have no intention of leaving. But they fizzle after a few months.

I shrug my shoulders and move on. Never bothered.
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I hear lots of "me's", but nothing about the wives that you both two-timed.

bbwAlexa said:
This time, was different. Mostly because it was out of the blue. Some weird circumstances. I can only fathom he got caught, or COVID which is a possibility as he was at work daily. Which makes me sad if the latter. Because you kind of care about someone, even if you don't know them. And then it's possible the worst could have happened. I guess the worst is a possibility without a pandemic. But now it's more likely. Sigh...... I think I'd rather just think he is an ass who ghosted me. Too bad I doubt that. He was too nice. And we had the most amazing sexual chemistry.
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Why would anyone care about a pity-party
thrown by a fat bitch
who has no qualms about helping men cheat on their wives?


bbwAlexa said:
Oh the debate continues if chatting with someone about sex is cheating. Not in my book. I'm on the right side of a thin line.

I've spent years trying to spice up my sex life. He hasn't even tried to give me an orgasm in 5 years. I refuse to waste my one and only life. But I also won't physically cheat. That's the other side of the line.
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a Kim Kardashian, nevertheless.
 
bbwAlexa said:
Just some random thoughts. Gosh It's hilarious how much you care. You must be awfully bored today. Lol
Feel free to troll someone else. I think I'm washing my hair today so I don't have time for it.
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I'm just here to hear your confession. Please continue. :)
 
bbwAlexa said:
I have had some great luck meeting people off here who are fun to chat with. Sexually, and otherwise. Usually these friendships expire at some point. And usually the both of us married, with kids, just looking for some flirting, fantasy, and escape from our spouses we have no intention of leaving. But they fizzle after a few months. I shrug my shoulders and move on. Never bothered.
This time, was different. Mostly because it was out of the blue. Some weird circumstances. I can only fathom he got caught, or COVID which is a possibility as he was at work daily. Which makes me sad if the latter. Because you kind of care about someone, even if you don't know them. And then it's possible the worst could have happened. I guess the worst is a possibility without a pandemic. But now it's more likely. Sigh...... I think I'd rather just think he is an ass who ghosted me. Too bad I doubt that. He was too nice. And we had the most amazing sexual chemistry.
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Sorry you had that experience Alexa. It seems to happen to many p.m. 'relationships'. Some p.m. friendships just seem to tail off. Hope you can find a new friend on here. I would be happy to get to know you.

Cheers,

John
 
Stillrandy said:
Sorry you had that experience Alexa. It seems to happen to many p.m. 'relationships'. Some p.m. friendships just seem to tail off. Hope you can find a new friend on here. I would be happy to get to know you.

Cheers,

John
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Why don't you people just file for a divorce?

sounds much more honest to me
 
sundries said:
Why don't you people just file for a divorce?

sounds much more honest to me
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I think what you're missing here is that my husband knows what goes on. The exact facts, No. But he knows I have friends I talk to. He has said he does not want more sexually. And we are both otherwise happy in our life together. Why break up what is working?
Also, in our situation, we have an international marriage. So sitting and custody is hard.
 
bbwAlexa said:
I think what you're missing here is that my husband knows what goes on. The exact facts, No. But he knows I have friends I talk to. He has said he does not want more sexually. And we are both otherwise happy in our life together. Why break up what is working?
Also, in our situation, we have an international marriage. So sitting and custody is hard.
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Sounds like a rationalization to me. If he doesn't know you're cyberboning, you aren't exactly being honest with him. :)
 
bbwAlexa said:
I think what you're missing here is that my husband knows what goes on. The exact facts, No. But he knows I have friends I talk to. He has said he does not want more sexually. And we are both otherwise happy in our life together. Why break up what is working?
Also, in our situation, we have an international marriage. So sitting and custody is hard.
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Obviously, you stick to PMs and that's great! Trying to debate these trolls, in a thread, on the GB is pointless. They are just jerking each other off at this point. Good luck!
 
bbwAlexa said:
I think what you're missing here is that my husband knows what goes on. The exact facts, No. But he knows I have friends I talk to. He has said he does not want more sexually. And we are both otherwise happy in our life together. Why break up what is working?
Also, in our situation, we have an international marriage. So sitting and custody is hard.
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yes, I get all the me's.
but are the wives whose husbands you're cybering with, aware of it?

Your initial post makes me think that you are aware the men are cheating,
their wives - question mark
 
juttjaw said:
Obviously, you stick to PMs and that's great! Trying to debate these trolls, in a thread, on the GB is pointless. They are just jerking each other off at this point. Good luck!
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Just because this is an adult forum doesn't mean we all condone cheating. Apparently, you do. :)
 
bbwAlexa said:
He hasn't even tried to give me an orgasm in 5 years.
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You are responsible for your own orgasm.

Set a schedule and stick to it. For example, I gift myself an orgasm every other day. I skip major holidays.
 
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