name ten characteristics in men you want to fuck

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Thought it would only be fair to see what the ladies of Lit would respond with. If there's already a thread out there that I just missed, ignore this one and I'll go sit in the corner of shame :eek:

name ten characteristics you find attractive in men you want to fuck.

in order of preference
 
This is a great idea for a thread. I can’t wait to read the answers.

All credit goes to DomJane - just mirrored her thread which I thought was a brilliant idea as well. Glad I'm not the only guy here curious what the ladies may respond with.
 
All credit goes to DomJane - just mirrored her thread which I thought was a brilliant idea as well. Glad I'm not the only guy here curious what the ladies may respond with.

I’m still curious. Maybe they’re intimidated by having to name 10 characteristics?

I’ll settle for one.
 
Ok ten is a lot but I'll try.

1. Humor (funny is different for everyone but the ability to find humor is hot - also laughing at my jokes is vital)
2. Intelligence (nonpretentious common sense)
3. A sense of adventure
4. Thoughtfulness/introspection
5. Kindness (it's hot when your guy treats others well)
6. Curiousity
7. Strength (not physical strength but inner strength)
8. Morals/ethical code
9. The ability to be silly
10. A large vocabulary
 
I'm in
1. Humor. From the inane to the witty. If you can make me laugh, you have already made it through the door.(PS..it is an indication also of high intelligence. Big plus)
2. Handsome. By that I mean, pleasing to the eye, which can come from having a beautiful inside. It's true. You may think you are an ogre, but if your personality is lovely, it oozes through your skin, and I'll see it, I promise.
3. Confidence. Believe in your abilities, without slipping into arrogance.
3. Humility. Show me your kindness and caring for others by doing and not bragging. No need to broadcast it, that just makes you look very self serving. Big turn off.
4. Kinky. Oh you better be able to go toe to toe with me. And blow my ever loving mind but with a level of control and sophistication that leaves me spinning until next time.remember, I have 1 button. Press that, and you are totally in.
5. Brave and creative. Be willing to do things, not stuck in the mud. I like adventure and surprises. Let fear be your motivator! Match that and more points to you.
6.Clean. I like clean teeth, skin and hair. Clothing too. It just is more pleasing to me, and shows me you care for yourself, which in turn shows me you would care for me.
7. Considerate and self giving. Of others. From your mom, to the checkout lady. A class act in and out of the bedroom. Give me more reasons to admire you. It makes me happy.
8. Determined. When you set yourself to do something, do it. And not give up, because you believe it is not an option until absolutely necessary. And that displays...
9. Sound judgement. Be logical in decision making. Because this is wrapped up in one character trait that encompasses all of the above...
10. Dominant. Yup. I said it. I want to look up at and to you, always. Literally and figuratively.
It is just what I prefer.



ETA:

Agree with Fara .
Don't fucking shave!!!! For godssake. Manfur is the best fur.❤️

Remember...this is all just my opinion, and preference.
:)
 
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Agree with Fara .
Don't fucking shave!!!! For godssake. Manfur is the best fur.❤️

Remember...this is all just my opinion, and preference.
:)

Where are you likeminded ladies in reality? Everyone tells me to get rid of my fur...
 
Where are you likeminded ladies in reality? Everyone tells me to get rid of my fur...

We're real... maybe you're just only looking skin deep? ;)

I like to comb my fingers thru it... I think I've said too much. lol

1. Humor/Wit
2. Intelligence
3. Adventurous
4. Spontaneous
5. Selfless
6.Charming
7. Romantic
8. Sexy
9. Confident
10. Kind
 
Oh! I read the question wrong! You wanna know 10 characteristics of a guy I'd wanna fuck?
Well, not to have high standards but, really there is only one.
Don't be a dick.

Do you mean all the time? :eek:

Fuck my life :mad:

lol :D
 
Oh! I read the question wrong! You wanna know 10 characteristics of a guy I'd wanna fuck?
Well, not to have high standards but, really there is only one.



Don't be a dick.

Sigh. I was so close...
 
Don't be a dick..check.

Also, I am shocked at the fur comments. I keep hearing ladies want a guy to be clean-shaven at extremely short. [aka the Buzzed Ball Cut] hear women out there are down for the sasquatch is kinda uplifting.
 
1. Clean - showered, teeth brushed. Both fairly recently.
2. Smelling decent - coincides with #1, but deodorant, fresh clothes, socks, clean shoes, etc. (although if you have been working out or are in that kind of setting, that can be equally as hot to. As long as you are usually clean. ;) )

3. Treats me well before hitting the bedroom - opens doors, polite. Dirty talk excluded.
4. Smiles. There's nothing better than a man who looks you in the eyes and smiles at you. Pays attention to you, and even more kudos if he ignores another pretty girl when you are in the room.

5. Able to appreciate himself without being cocky. Confidence. I love a well educated man, whether it be from schooling or life learned. If he is confident in himself it will show. But full of himself - no.
6. Takes care of himself. If he takes care of himself both physically and mentally. Doesn't have to be perfect by any means, but this is usually a sign of healthier individual.

7. A man who knows how to subtly place his hand on a woman letting them know "you are mine, even though we haven't had sex yet." Seriously.. shivers.
8. Someone who wants a balance of sensual and down and dirty

9. The men who gain my attention are the ones who watch me. Not in a creepy way, but who I catch looking maybe more often than normal, or that extra long gaze, smile, and then try to spend extra time with me. Don't underestimate flirting.
10. Sarcastic humor. If I can't laugh, forget it.
 
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Is this thread for real? 10 things? This is just too much to worry about goddamnit. This is why I only date strippers and hostesses from Mugs and Jugs.
 
So...not sure I have 10 for guys I want to fuck. As in no commitment. Don't leave any of your shit at my house when I see you out type.

1. Clean
2. Smell nice
3. Big dick, but dont BE a dick (If you're over for a booty call I'm being choosy about the first part.)
4. Can mix casual conversation, sexy conversation and be able to make me laugh while trying to get in my pants.
5. Must find attractive in looks or a personality that totally sucks me in.

6-10 will have to be added later if I think of anything else.
 
Can bi men play as well? Yeah, not going to wait gor an answer 😝

1-Shorter than me
2-funny
3-long eye lashes
4-big brown eyes
5-smart
6-clean shaven
7-fit
8-full head of hair long enough to pull
9-cuddler
10-great kisser
 
Applebees waitresses dont give a fuck if you’re a good cuddler They just wanna do some blow and give you a beej after their shift ends. I’ve been told it’s the best part of their day. Then it’s off to pick up their kids from grandmas.
 
Applebees waitresses dont give a fuck if you’re a good cuddler They just wanna do some blow and give you a beej after their shift ends. I’ve been told it’s the best part of their day. Then it’s off to pick up their kids from grandmas.

Man and I was gonna suggest we cuddle and listen to old Dolly Parton tunes. Dreams dashed!
 
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