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Hello, and welcome. I need to bend your ear. I am a mostly submissive woman and little, but my boyfriend has submissive fantasies. I want to encourage those fantasies and help him any way I can. We are both "learning to switch". I am currently writing a story for him based on some of his fantasies. (He wants Femdom, CBT, humiliation, lingerie, strap-on use.) And I am hoping to add elements that will turn him on that would also surprise him, per se. That's where you come in. I would love to hear the fantasies of other submissive men. Perhaps things you've "kept secret", things you wish your wife would do or support? And, also opinions on my writing style as I develop this story.

Please feel free to write back here or PM me. Thank you. :)
 
Hello,
I cant help with fantasies but do have real experiences to share.
I never had gay or bi thoughts, but was seduced by an older man as a teen. He was my boss at the time. He owned a lake house and woild take several of us who worked for him there on weekends. There were 6 cabins, After a day of fun he came into my cabin as I was in bed. He sat next to me and chatted. before I knew it, he had his hand on my cock, but talking to me in a friendly, reassuring way, not sexual. I felt my self getting harder and he just smiled and assured me that he could show me ways my girlfriend could please me, he would teach me. He left the cabin, and I was so confused, my raging hard on, what happened?
I was ashamed, but went back with him the following week. Therre were a couple other employees there but they left after friday nights cookout. I now realize why they didn't stay. I was uncomfortable with that, but in his suave demeanor, he had asked if he could come talk with me before bed. He sat on the bed, rubbing my back, then sides, arms, thighs, and ran his thumb up and down my crotch. I was embarrassed that my cock got hard, but he explained that it was normal, and that sharing and touching with a man was a way to explore how the body reacts and how what he would do with me i could have my girlfriend do also. He put his leg over mine and held it spread wide as he reached under my swim trunks and held my cock, firmly. I almost came. He kissed my neck, and asked me if he could take my pants off. I don't actually remember what I said but the next thing I remember was him lowering me on the bed as he knelt over me and began kissing my cock. He stopped frequently, since I know he knew I was about to blow, and would tell me this was how my girlfriend should do it. He gently pinched my breast, and pulled my hips upward as he swallowed my cock, and I erupted like a volcano.
He asked how that felt?
As I lay there wondering what I had done, he moved my hand to his penis. It was huge, rock hard, cut. He slowly thrust back and forth. I could see him tensing, and he told me how much I was learning , and how proud he was. He then straddled me as I lay on the bunk bed, His cock was inches away from my mouth, I could smell musk, not pleasant I remember. He asked me if I would try doing what he did. I couldn't. I felt bad but just couldn't. He was so gentle, told me it was ok, and that we could explore other things another time.
It was several weeks, towards the end of the summer, when he invited me to a friends home, on the other side of the lake. They were a married couple. We water-skied, had a cook out, the hit the pool. The wife, Lydia, was hot. They were in their late 30's early 40's. The guys were drinking, and she asked me if I wanted to smoke, I said sure, but I didn't drink. She started coming on to me in the pool. The guys were watching. We got out of the pool and went into a large entertainment room. She guided my hands to her tits, then pussy, she was rubbing my cock. She pulled off my shorts, laid on her back and told me to fuck her.
I heard someone enter the room it was her husband and my boss. Her husband was kneeling on the carpet, and kissed Lydia, he told me it was ok to have sex with her, not to worry, and to let her teach me about sex, sharing each others bodies. She began taking off his trunks, and in no time there was a full grown cock inches from our faces. He placed a pillow inder her head, then She began sucking his cock. She told me to watch closely so I could help my girlfriend be as good as she was. Each time she spoke, she would stop me from thrusting into her, knowing I was on the brink. Lydia told me she would really like it if I would just taste her husbands penis. She motioned for him to put it near my mouth. I was on my knees, the perfect height to his crotch. I did as she asked, I was helpless, they knew it! It was salty, cut, curved upward, and rock hard. He put his hands on my back. Lydia instructed me to relax my jaw, tilt my head back, and try to take a little more each time. She started panting, telling me how hot is was to watch me please her husband, and how proud she was that at my young age I was learning what few others knew. The pace quickened, I could only take in a little more than half the length of his manhood, his hands now holding my head gently, his wife under me bucking ferverently, and I came , the Lydia, the her husband. She tried to coach me to swallow his pearl juices, but i could not. I almost felt like I disappointed her. All the while my boss was watching the whole thing. It was amazing. I had no idea how that night would change my view on sexuality, taboos cast to the side, and a desire to learn more.
This was all part of a carefully plot by my boss. I struggled with what to tell my girlfriend, I never told her about the men but did about Lydia. That ended that relationship.
After that evening there were many more. I was shared with them as I learned to please my boss, Lydias husband, as she coached me, often being taken by both simultaneously. I was then advanced to bondage and roleplaying. I continue to enjoy bi sex as well as heterosex. Ones boundaries are mostly limited by social norms, yet to go outside those norms one may find far more opportunities.
I doubt you enjoyed it as much as I did! Haha
Let me know your fantasies, experiences.
later
 
Wow. Thanks for sharing, tsbone.

I'll go check, MysteriousRyu!
 
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Pansexul

Submissive man here
I have been hiding it for years
but my current wife :) knows
 
So, I have a question and I would love to hear other people's opinions. In writing, proper English dictates that when a petname, or even a word, replaces someone's name it should be capitalized. Such as, "I spoke to Mom the other day" versus "I spoke to my mom the other day". However, commonly in the BDSM world words to describe (or name) a submissive may remain lower cased to "show their place".

Here's where I would like other opinions. In a story, should a sub's name be capitalized (because of English grammar) or lower cased because of D/s? For example, replacing a sub's real name with "slut"... I would like that to be a character's name in the story I'm working on. :)
 
So let me start by saying that I am DarkPleasures' boyfriend/Dom/Daddy/sub/slut (I know, that's a LOT of hats that I wear!). For the sake of this thread, I will be referring to Her as Mistress to help keep everything simple. Now Mistress has informed me that She has had quite a few requests to go into detail about the dream She had. With Her permission, I am going to save Her the trouble of replying to everyone individually and tell Her dream from my perspective. The wording was done by Her, but I changed it to my point of view as directed by Mistress. Without further ado, here is Her dream:

Mistress took me to a porn shop with a theater called Romantix. I was placed on all fours in a dark corner on the theater floor; head down ass up. My black skirt was pulled up over my ass and rested at the small of my back. I was wearing black fishnet stockings and no shoes. My black panties had been pulled down and around my knees and the fabric was stretched because of my spread legs. my legs, ass, balls, and sluthole were shaved bare. Such a pretty sight! my pathetic clitty was straining against its steel-ring cage, purplish-red in color, and leaking out of the head.

On my ass Mistress had written "Fuck my sluthole" with arrows to my gaping hole and "25¢ ea". There were several quarters on the ground already and my hole looked stretched and well used. I had several men's juices leaking out of my sluthole and onto my balls and eventually onto the floor. Mistress was most pleased with what a cheap whore I was.
 
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Good boy, lil joey, for sharing your first post on Lit. After 29 more we'll celebrate the popping of your cherry. 😉
 
Well done. Im sure we all look forward to hearing more. Hopefully some real life action as well.
 
Maybe (hopefully) one day when I’m ready to take that step (and my slut hole is loose enough to take man cock). We’re just now starting our journey into Femdom together so it might take a while.
 
Hang in there and enjoy the ride. I think you will both learn new things about each other and have fun doing it.
 
Giving this thread a *bump*! Male submissives are still welcome.
 
I do like that he wants some CBT. start off slow with tying up the balls and using them for a leash. I have also enjoyed some Chasity. being teased and used while locked up. being kept naked as much as possible
 
I do like that he wants some CBT. start off slow with tying up the balls and using them for a leash. I have also enjoyed some Chasity. being teased and used while locked up. being kept naked as much as possible

Those are some good ideas.
 
2 things ...

following up on @9to5 I love the constant control she has when here is a leash on my balls. Litle, and some times hard tugs on that leash to lead me around or quicly put me on my knees keeps the scene very hot.

The other thing, one of my favorite fetishes is her panties. She knows how much I love them that in any time I'm getting pegged she will stuff them in my mouth. It's even better when she makes me beg for them. Dangling them in front of my face, a slap on my cheek as she laughs and says, "No."
 
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