Cucked by Culture

[CuckoldWittol]

Let me first clarify some Indian Hindu traditions we still follow. In marriage, we give importance to the below things (High Priority starts from first)
1) Horoscope
2) Virginity of Bride
3) Family Status
4) Virginity of Groom. (OPTIONAL)

Some guys and girls save their virginity till marriage fearing society and family.
Even today some people’s mentality is “VIRGIN BOY SHOULD GET VIRGIN GIRL”. Even my mentality is this.
MY WEIRD FANTASY BELOW.
My family is searching for a suitable bride for my marriage. Being a self-control and God fearing person in my teenage I never had a girlfriend. So being a virgin myself I am highly expecting a virgin bride. After months of searching we find a girl.
Our horoscopes match perfectly. We liked each other and she promises she herself is a virgin. We were not allowed to meet until marriage due to our tradition. We exchange mails and whatsapp messages. Our engagement function was celebrated very grandly in the presence of many VIP’s in society. My family is so proud of her. Everything goes fine until 1 month before marriage I receive an email from her. It was wrongly sent to me.
I see a nude selfie of her and another guy in her bed taken recently with the email subject “LOVE YOU HONEY”
Extremely devastated and cheated I plan to stop the marriage. Being a virgin I should be the one to see her naked. I should be the one to take her virginity.
I expected a big fight between our families and everyone blaming the girl for her character. But fate had other plans.
It seems everyone in our families except me knew about this. They tell me to calm down and tell me is common in 2020 and I should accept it.
Everyone brainwash me be like, “C’mon it’s just sex. She loves you more” and other stuff. Finally I get married to her

 

[davion2308]

Intriguing

I could see this being an interesting build to a story. What's the next step?

1. The bride now knows how to have sex and she can teach you what to do?

2. You go out and have sex with some other random woman so you can also be non-virgin when the marriage happens?

3. PLOT TWIST - The other family is concerned that you will deny their daughter marriage, since your family is socially and financially strong. They are so concerned, the Mother in Law (or other family member) has sex with you as a way to "even things up" so you will both be non-virgins.

4. You stand by your moral high ground so strongly you make the bride go through a number of scenarios to prove how much she wants to be with you, setting her up for all kinds of sexual shenanigans.

I'm curious what happens next

 

[CuckoldWittol]

I could see this being an interesting build to a story. What's the next step?

1. The bride now knows how to have sex and she can teach you what to do?

2. You go out and have sex with some other random woman so you can also be non-virgin when the marriage happens?

3. PLOT TWIST - The other family is concerned that you will deny their daughter marriage, since your family is socially and financially strong. They are so concerned, the Mother in Law (or other family member) has sex with you as a way to "even things up" so you will both be non-virgins.

4. You stand by your moral high ground so strongly you make the bride go through a number of scenarios to prove how much she wants to be with you, setting her up for all kinds of sexual shenanigans.

I'm curious what happens next

Both families are socially and financially strong. Since Horoscope, Family Status and Virginity of Groom are satisfied in this case and calling off the marriage after engagement may create shame/disgrace among both families. So they proceed to ignore the virginity of bride.

Both family along with close family circles and friends gather for a meeting on how to proceed with this further.
1) I stand by my moral
2) Bride and her lover explains the whole family how they loved each other, their first kiss and so on

The family feels so moved by their love story. They even give permission to continue their love making session

Everyone starts advising me and try to change me.

 

[SteelPoint]

Let me first clarify some Indian Hindu traditions we still follow. In marriage, we give importance to the below things (High Priority starts from first)
1) Horoscope
2) Virginity of Bride
3) Family Status
4) Virginity of Groom. (OPTIONAL)

Hilarious.

Yes, I know all about Hindu priorities in wedding matches and you've forgotten priority 1++: wealth...

 

[SimonDoom]

Sounds like an interesting and promising premise. My suggestion would be to really think through what the main character's story is going to be. What turns you on? Do you want him to come to terms with and accept his societally-approved cuckold status, or do you want him to rebel against it and triumph over it? Both are completely different but legitimate paths the story might take and they present completely different types of erotic fascination.

What makes it interesting is what the groom/husband is experiencing. So think that through and you'll have a good story.

 

[CuckoldWittol]

Hilarious.

Yes, I know all about Hindu priorities in wedding matches and you've forgotten priority 1++: wealth...

It comes under Family Status

 

[CuckoldWittol]

Sounds like an interesting and promising premise. My suggestion would be to really think through what the main character's story is going to be. What turns you on? Do you want him to come to terms with and accept his societally-approved cuckold status, or do you want him to rebel against it and triumph over it? Both are completely different but legitimate paths the story might take and they present completely different types of erotic fascination.

What makes it interesting is what the groom/husband is experiencing. So think that through and you'll have a good story.

He comes in terms with and accepts after a long battle. Its like he has no other way out. He experiences Jealousy, betrayal, fooled, being played upon.

 

[subliminalmassage]

I would be really curious to read a story like this. Only you know how it should play out, but I would do it like this:

The more you/the protagonist try to appeal to reason or take the moral high ground, the more power you lose. The two families are openly negotiating away your dignity - perhaps your patriarch sees this as an opportunity to gain concessions from his new in laws. Or perhaps the women in your family are smitten and a little jealous of your fiance's situation. Either way you are shushed and humiliated - the only way you can see to 'get even' is to go through with the wedding and finally lose your virginity on your wedding night...

... when that night comes, you and your new bride in the honeymoon suite, you nervously take a shower, preparing for the big moment. When you come out, your love rival is there - and your wife is telling you to watch or get out.

 

[CuckoldWittol]

I would be really curious to read a story like this. Only you know how it should play out, but I would do it like this:

The more you/the protagonist try to appeal to reason or take the moral high ground, the more power you lose. The two families are openly negotiating away your dignity - perhaps your patriarch sees this as an opportunity to gain concessions from his new in laws. Or perhaps the women in your family are smitten and a little jealous of your fiance's situation. Either way you are shushed and humiliated - the only way you can see to 'get even' is to go through with the wedding and finally lose your virginity on your wedding night...

... when that night comes, you and your new bride in the honeymoon suite, you nervously take a shower, preparing for the big moment. When you come out, your love rival is there - and your wife is telling you to watch or get out.

It doesn't end there. Her lover's family is also involved. He is from another religion and they have their own formalities.

By their tradition only him and her go for Honeymoon ..

 

[CuckoldWittol]

I am also looking for authors to continue this story. anyone interested. I suck in writing.

 

[LupusDei]

I am also looking for authors to continue this story. anyone interested. I suck in writing.

Unfortunately, nobody outside the culture has a hope to convincingly catch the little, but all important details, save for massive, massive research or extremely close and potentially painful collaboration. Further, only you know the tone and goal...

I don't say it can't be done in principle, but it's hard work.

 

[CuckoldWittol]

Unfortunately, nobody outside the culture has a hope to convincingly catch the little, but all important details, save for massive, massive research or extremely close and potentially painful collaboration. Further, only you know the tone and goal...

I don't say it can't be done in principle, but it's hard work.

Yes I understand. If I get anyone I can guide them completely

 

[Ginlover]

Yes I understand. If I get anyone I can guide them completely

If you guide them completely you are writing the story.
Why dont you have a go at writing the first section then ask for some feedback or an editor, let them guide you in story writing styles while you tell the story you want to tell

 

[CuckoldWittol]

If you guide them completely you are writing the story.
Why dont you have a go at writing the first section then ask for some feedback or an editor, let them guide you in story writing styles while you tell the story you want to tell

Where can i find someone on feedback or an editor?

 

[yukonnights]

If you guide them completely you are writing the story.
Why dont you have a go at writing the first section then ask for some feedback or an editor, let them guide you in story writing styles while you tell the story you want to tell

Ginlover beat me to it, but this is good advice. As to where to find someone to help; You could try here again. If you draft your story then once you have more for them to work from, there might be someone more interested. There's also the Editor's Forum — although that seems to be more difficult to make a contact on. Ideally, you would find another Indian who is maybe more fluent in english — and also have an understanding of the culture you're writing. (and you could edit your post on the Authors Hangout about having a rough draft.)

 

[CuckoldWittol]

Ginlover beat me to it, but this is good advice. As to where to find someone to help; You could try here again. If you draft your story then once you have more for them to work from, there might be someone more interested. There's also the Editor's Forum — although that seems to be more difficult to make a contact on. Ideally, you would find another Indian who is maybe more fluent in english — and also have an understanding of the culture you're writing. (and you could edit your post on the Authors Hangout about having a rough draft.)

Thank you

 

[docgbrown]

Let me first clarify some Indian Hindu traditions we still follow. In marriage, we give importance to the below things (High Priority starts from first)
1) Horoscope
2) Virginity of Bride
3) Family Status
4) Virginity of Groom. (OPTIONAL)

Some guys and girls save their virginity till marriage fearing society and family.
Even today some people’s mentality is “VIRGIN BOY SHOULD GET VIRGIN GIRL”. Even my mentality is this.
MY WEIRD FANTASY BELOW.
My family is searching for a suitable bride for my marriage. Being a self-control and God fearing person in my teenage I never had a girlfriend. So being a virgin myself I am highly expecting a virgin bride. After months of searching we find a girl.
Our horoscopes match perfectly. We liked each other and she promises she herself is a virgin. We were not allowed to meet until marriage due to our tradition. We exchange mails and whatsapp messages. Our engagement function was celebrated very grandly in the presence of many VIP’s in society. My family is so proud of her. Everything goes fine until 1 month before marriage I receive an email from her. It was wrongly sent to me.
I see a nude selfie of her and another guy in her bed taken recently with the email subject “LOVE YOU HONEY”
Extremely devastated and cheated I plan to stop the marriage. Being a virgin I should be the one to see her naked. I should be the one to take her virginity.
I expected a big fight between our families and everyone blaming the girl for her character. But fate had other plans.
It seems everyone in our families except me knew about this. They tell me to calm down and tell me is common in 2020 and I should accept it.
Everyone brainwash me be like, “C’mon it’s just sex. She loves you more” and other stuff. Finally I get married to her

I'm sure stuff not too different than this happens. While in military medicine my unit treated women that needed hymen reconstruction to avoid cultural rejection/ honor killing. A few of these women returned for the same procedure a second time before we transferred away.

Returning to college I met, studied with, and got to know a Persian woman in a few classes we shared. She was a virgin and believed men only wanted to marry virgins but at the same time she didn't want to miss out on college foolish fun. I told her about this aspect of my time in Iraq. She feared rumors getting back to her culture. I advised only men not of her culture until she was done having fun. I wasn't her first or any number for her but she did take my advise and before marriage two years later, she got a hymenorrhaphy. Her husband has no idea of her wayward college oats.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

It is certainly an intriguing story. However, I cannot imagine any groom's mother, mother in-law to be, accepting a "slut" for a daughter in-law! It is unlikely the groom's family knew about the girl's premarital activities. When the father goes to the girl's family to break off the wedding, he is somehow forced or bribed into accepting the arrangement, including that the girl will continue seeing her lover. As a token they offer the younger daughter to fuck the groom so that he at least has the opportunity of having sex with a virgin.

the groom isn't happy, but his father talks him into accepting the terms of the marriage. Once married he is initially disturbed by his wife's visits to her lover. At first, she has her sister come over and keep her husband company. As he is fucking his sister in-law of course he can't help but think of his wife being fucked, making him even more aroused. The sister in-law senses how he gets off being cuckold and tells her sister.

then one evening when he returns from work at the family business, he finds that his wife and her lover are there. Once there they start making out in the sitting room and he is shocked and stunned by her brazen behavior, and his cock is hard as ever...

 

[CuckoldWittol]

I'm sure stuff not too different than this happens. While in military medicine my unit treated women that needed hymen reconstruction to avoid cultural rejection/ honor killing. A few of these women returned for the same procedure a second time before we transferred away.

Returning to college I met, studied with, and got to know a Persian woman in a few classes we shared. She was a virgin and believed men only wanted to marry virgins but at the same time she didn't want to miss out on college foolish fun. I told her about this aspect of my time in Iraq. She feared rumors getting back to her culture. I advised only men not of her culture until she was done having fun. I wasn't her first or any number for her but she did take my advise and before marriage two years later, she got a hymenorrhaphy. Her husband has no idea of her wayward college oats.

Happy to hear this happens in real life too..Let women have fun

 

[AnnieLit]

I'm sure stuff not too different than this happens. While in military medicine my unit treated women that needed hymen reconstruction to avoid cultural rejection/ honor killing. A few of these women returned for the same procedure a second time before we transferred away.

Returning to college I met, studied with, and got to know a Persian woman in a few classes we shared. She was a virgin and believed men only wanted to marry virgins but at the same time she didn't want to miss out on college foolish fun. I told her about this aspect of my time in Iraq. She feared rumors getting back to her culture. I advised only men not of her culture until she was done having fun. I wasn't her first or any number for her but she did take my advise and before marriage two years later, she got a hymenorrhaphy. Her husband has no idea of her wayward college oats.

Fascinating! Neither you, nor your Persian friend ever heard of ways to have sex without breaking the hymen? Since when did PIV become the only possible way to have college foolish fun? For centuries women managed to stay technically virgins while having as much sex as they wanted and now you are saying that the only way to achieve this is by going through a surgery.

 

[AnnieLit]

Let me first clarify some Indian Hindu traditions we still follow. In marriage, we give importance to the below things (High Priority starts from first)
1) Horoscope
2) Virginity of Bride
3) Family Status
4) Virginity of Groom. (OPTIONAL)

I know close to nothing about Hindu culture, but I would think virginity of the bride would be not the only problem in your scenario. She did not have sex a year ago, she is having it NOW, a month before her wedding. To me this sounds as a forced marriage: she met somebody, fell in love, but her family would never approve him because of his family status or whatever else. Then her parents find you and think that this marriage might solve all their problems. She does not want it, she does not want YOU, but she does not really have any choice. So she pretends, gets to know you a bit with all the emails, but she still does not love you. She is terrified at the idea of her wedding night -- not because you will find out that she is not a virgin, that can be faked if needed, but because she will have to have sex with you, while loving somebody else. An ultimate consensual non-consent.

 

[hardleo]

Some ideas, or background to the marriage.

Put the two families in America. The groom's father really tried to instill traditional beliefs in his son in this foreign land. He didn't want want his son to end up like him, a cuck. The father hates how much he loves hearing his wife's sexual adventures. He loves hearing her talk about much the white men in America loves her. And he feels humiliated, but can't stop the feeling anymore. The only thing he could do make sure his son does not end up as shameful as him.

The mother of the groom has Hindu friends who share similar lifestyle. One of her friends have a daughter, and she convinces the groom's mother that her daughter and her son should wed. She knew her daughter liked white guys and was no virgin, but if father like son is anything, the marriage would work out for everyone.

To the outside world, none the wiser, just a two close families joined together. And the groom would have to adapt. The text was the first step.

 

[CuckoldWittol]

Thank you everyone for your support and ideas. But sorry I really suck at writing.
I guess this story idea will also be buried like my other story ideas.

 

[DarkPleasures]

Thank you everyone for your support and ideas. But sorry I really suck at writing.
I guess this story idea will also be buried like my other story ideas.

Have you considered contacting an active author that has written cuckold stories you like?

 

[CuckoldWittol]

Have you considered contacting an active author that has written cuckold stories you like?

Sorry I havent. WIll try. Do you recommend/know someone?