she probably knows

Not sure if my wife knows i look at galleries like this or watch some mmf style videos I would think she suspects it,
but she does know I have this craving to suck a nice cock....

I got a nice cock that loves to be sucked.
 
Not sure if my wife knows i look at galleries like this or watch some mmf style videos I would think she suspects it,
but she does know I have this craving to suck a nice cock....

and have you done anything about it?
 
I sometimes wonder if women can tell that i am bi-curious and submissive. I've only had one woman that I knew that had asked me if i was gay. I don't know why tho, I dont look or act feminine - i don't think. I just don't cuss much, i am soft spoken, not very confident, and i don't like sports and i do tend to let others lead.
 
I sometimes wonder if women can tell that i am bi-curious and submissive. I've only had one woman that I knew that had asked me if i was gay. I don't know why tho, I dont look or act feminine - i don't think. I just don't cuss much, i am soft spoken, not very confident, and i don't like sports and i do tend to let others lead.

I'm not sure that gay men necessarily come off as being feminine. I've heard that some gay men don't even like feminine men because they prefer men. So, you wouldn't necessarily have to come off as feminine to be assumed gay. Maybe she picked up on other traits that she has experienced with straight men. Your lack of need to be an alpha male could possibly be an indicator for her.
 
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I'm lucky in that I am able to share my feelings and fantasies with my wife. She is well aware the kinds of videos I watch, and I even share some of them with her if I really enjoy them. I do not announce to her every time I masturbate to one of them but when sharing one with her, I will let her know if it turned me on that much and why.
 
I sometimes wonder if women can tell that i am bi-curious and submissive. I've only had one woman that I knew that had asked me if i was gay. I don't know why tho, I dont look or act feminine - i don't think. I just don't cuss much, i am soft spoken, not very confident, and i don't like sports and i do tend to let others lead.

I told my life long female friend after I had my first MM experience. She said she was surprised it took me so long Although I'm a fairly masculine guy I have had two gay guys basically ask me outright if I was Gay/Bi.
 
I sometimes wonder if women can tell that i am bi-curious and submissive. I've only had one woman that I knew that had asked me if i was gay. I don't know why tho, I dont look or act feminine - i don't think. I just don't cuss much, i am soft spoken, not very confident, and i don't like sports and i do tend to let others lead.



This was the situation with my first wife. She did not know for certain, only suspected this about our good friend and me.
Neither of us was feminine or submissive in any way, we did all the “masculine” things together; hunted, fished, worked on our cars and we worked in heavy industry. And lusted after each others wives.:cattail:
She could comprehend some of the hints he gave over the years that just went right over my head. Had I understood those hints, our first time together would have been years earlier.
It was also her that gave us the push to go from curious to bi. Bi might not be the correct term. Maybe “sexually opportune”.
 
I guess it would really be kind of a turn on if i thought women could sense the submissiveness and feminine nature in me. And by "feminine nature" i don't mean "effeminate" , i guess I really mean that I prefer to follow rather than lead, and i am more concerned about pleasing others. Like i said , there was 1 woman I was friends with and she really seemed to think I was gay and I really didn't mind it so much. She even had a pet name for me - "Muffin" , and I must say that I really liked being her "Muffin".
 
My wife knows that I'm bi-curious. I don't think she knows that when I jack off to porn its often gay porn. Regular porn also has big dicks and cum shots, so I've just cut out the objectification of women. ;)

I wish I could find porn that would hit my sweet spot. Masculine men wearing lingerie bottoming for masculine men. Doesn't need to be violent or anything. Just good looking and hung men in sexy panties servicing and being serviced. I do watch a lot of trans porn because that gets closer.
 
over the years

a few women have asked me if I was gay. why....because I am neat and clean.
 
The sexual innuendo iI utter out of left field... My wife knows. I think she chose to ignore it
 
My problem is that this virus has screwed things up, about finding someone.
My wife is on board in seeing me suck cock.
 
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