What do you look for when cruising?

[2wayroad]

Maybe it’s just the time we live in. It’s been tough on the cruising front.

I look for eye contact, especially a second glance. Then I gravitate their way easily. I lick my lips to convey my desire then look for a nod or a touch of the crotch or some sign to follow. This is what I’m used to doing and has often led to an encounter without a spoken word and me with a load in my mouth.

Recently, even before COVID19, I’ve noticed guys sitting in their car, sunglasses on. Maybe with the door open. No eye contact, nothing inviting. Some sit on picnic tables the same way. Sunglasses on seeming to notice nothing around them. Even if I watch for awhile, these type of guys don’t seem to take notice of anything.

Maybe I’m missing some new cues or approaches. Maybe I need to take my phone and be on an app. I like to cruise with empty pockets, so I don’t loose anything if or when I drop my pants.

Thoughts anyone?

 

[carln3346]

It's been a few years since I cruised. We have a park not too far away that's known to be safe, and there is a section during certain parts of the day you can safely cruise. It's mostly more mature guys, both gay and bi married.
I don't know if there was ever necessarily a sign. We all knew why we were there, so just saying hello usually got things started if there was interest on both sides.
I went there maybe 10 times over the course of a few years and hooked up 4 times, once with the same guy.

 

[klippert]

Maybe it’s just the time we live in. It’s been tough on the cruising front.

I look for eye contact, especially a second glance. Then I gravitate their way easily. I lick my lips to convey my desire then look for a nod or a touch of the crotch or some sign to follow. This is what I’m used to doing and has often led to an encounter without a spoken word and me with a load in my mouth.

Recently, even before COVID19, I’ve noticed guys sitting in their car, sunglasses on. Maybe with the door open. No eye contact, nothing inviting. Some sit on picnic tables the same way. Sunglasses on seeming to notice nothing around them. Even if I watch for awhile, these type of guys don’t seem to take notice of anything.

Maybe I’m missing some new cues or approaches. Maybe I need to take my phone and be on an app. I like to cruise with empty pockets, so I don’t loose anything if or when I drop my pants.

Thoughts anyone?

Maybe I need to take my phone and be on an app...

that is the key these days....there use to be signals...red bandanna in the back pocket...college the trails you would sit on a bench or stump...if a single guy came thru....you would spread your legs... book store stand near the booths..****b your cock....

 

[carln3346]

Maybe I need to take my phone and be on an app...

that is the key these days....there use to be signals...red bandanna in the back pocket...college the trails you would sit on a bench or stump...if a single guy came thru....you would spread your legs... book store stand near the booths..****b your cock....

Now I'm wondering if there is an app?

 

[NbTexas]

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Now I'm wondering if there is an app?

Would like to get it as a backup!

 

[Iwanttwo]

Maybe it’s just the time we live in. It’s been tough on the cruising front.

I look for eye contact, especially a second glance. Then I gravitate their way easily. I lick my lips to convey my desire then look for a nod or a touch of the crotch or some sign to follow. This is what I’m used to doing and has often led to an encounter without a spoken word and me with a load in my mouth.

Recently, even before COVID19, I’ve noticed guys sitting in their car, sunglasses on. Maybe with the door open. No eye contact, nothing inviting. Some sit on picnic tables the same way. Sunglasses on seeming to notice nothing around them. Even if I watch for awhile, these type of guys don’t seem to take notice of anything.

Maybe I’m missing some new cues or approaches. Maybe I need to take my phone and be on an app. I like to cruise with empty pockets, so I don’t loose anything if or when I drop my pants.

Thoughts anyone?

I too wish there were some signs. Holding eye contact, licking my lips, eyeing his crotch and grabbing mine seems to work. The biggest challenge is finding a hot man that will hold your gaze.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

Or--, you could do like this fella from Texas did at this one park I hung out before the covid; he cruised up where I was sitting said he was looking to give a blow job and would I be interested (?)

 

[2wayroad]

If that was you at Olmos Park, it was me. Thought I would try being direct, even that didn’t work.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

If that was you at Olmos Park, it was me. Thought I would try being direct, even that didn’t work.

Maaaan, I ain't been home since 1982.
But you could bet on the fact that if you come to me asking if I want a blow job --,
I'd be sitting in your shotgun seat before you realized I had moved.
Nah, I park I was talking about is Nike Park, up here in "this Place of Fishes", the fighting glove of the nation, Michoacan--, or Michigan... they both mean the same thing.

 

[Retnuhkcoc2020]

I had a guy reach over and grab my cock standing at the urinal once, caught me off guard but i let him stroke me off.

 

[OlderBtm4U]

I had a guy reach over and grab my cock standing at the urinal once, caught me off guard but i let him stroke me off.

Some guys have all the luck.

 

[Trainer550]

Cruise

Gosh I havent done that in years as the parks I went to were teaming with undercover cops (I probably went to the same parks as 2wayroad as we live in the same city) but I do vividly remember being new in this an not really knowing what was going on as I was actually a runner and would run in these parks (mostly McAlister) and see all these single guys just sitting in cars or alone on a picnic table. At first I had no idea and I was barely accepting the fact that I loved guys, but then I would get excited and trust me, having a hard on with running shorts gets noticed. There are lots of trails in the trees and bushes, and I came around one, one time, and there were two guys engaged in a BJ. They were startled and started to scurry away and I said "no its ok" and took out my cock and the one went down on both of us. SO hot wow.

 

[Miss_Sasha_P]

Fear.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

Maybe it’s just the time we live in. It’s been tough on the cruising front.

I look for eye contact, especially a second glance. Then I gravitate their way easily. I lick my lips to convey my desire then look for a nod or a touch of the crotch or some sign to follow. This is what I’m used to doing and has often led to an encounter without a spoken word and me with a load in my mouth.

Recently, even before COVID19, I’ve noticed guys sitting in their car, sunglasses on. Maybe with the door open. No eye contact, nothing inviting. Some sit on picnic tables the same way. Sunglasses on seeming to notice nothing around them. Even if I watch for awhile, these type of guys don’t seem to take notice of anything.

Maybe I’m missing some new cues or approaches. Maybe I need to take my phone and be on an app. I like to cruise with empty pockets, so I don’t loose anything if or when I drop my pants.

Thoughts anyone?

I'm one of those guys with the sunglasses. I can't be in full sunlight without becuz of a head injury back in the early 70's. Even though it seems as if I'm not paying attention, anything happening in my front 180 degrees of sight I am taking notice .
If someone cruises by me and all they do is stare or look hard at me all they do is activate my hyper-vigilant state. If they cruise by and nod or wave, I give it back to them and smile or laugh at their apprehension. I'm not one of those guys that starts grabbing at his junk just cuz someone looks at me... I not a person who will wave someone over just becuz some looks got passed back and forth.
i look at it like this, if I am somewhere and someone is cruising for action then the onus is on them to make contact. A "hi, how are ya?", "eh how's it going?"
"nice weather, ya want a blow job?" something--, I mean hey when I'm hunting for some cock and I need to nut--, I'm talking, I'm personable, I'm smiling...
I guess, I probably don't look-, on the outside, what people think of when they need to approach someone when they want to suck a dick.

 

[SissySalina]

A cruse director!

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

A cruse director!

I think you should put the 'I' back in there BUT--,
I think you have just discovered a new revenue source for your self.
Now that's "out of the box thinking" .