Litiquette VI

[Lord Pmann]

Anyone else ever have a fantasy go awry and wind up with a good ole fashioned sex-cry? *facepalm*

Sex cry... I hear that. Pepper spray hurts like a motherfucker.

 

[Lord Pmann]

So no one admits to being super weird and dressing up in cat suits or anything. Liars.

Anyway...

Lit is an escape for many. It’s where you can come and be whatever you want. You have complete control over how you’re perceived here. I believe we all probably enjoy being less filtered or being thought of as a sex object or having the ability to be something you aren’t in real life. It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re being fake or untruthful. It just means you might portray that part of your personality a bit more.

Do you feel like you’re completely yourself here? Or do you want to be someone else? What percentage of your personality is everyday you versus Lit you? What differences are there?

And my god... if any of you say, “I’m just me” or “I’m exactly the same” I’m going to steal candy from a child. Don’t give that lame fucking answer. We all have something here that’s a little different. Don’t be a lame wad.

Girl Crush by Little Big Town

https://youtu.be/JYZMT8otKdI

 

[Trekka]

Hey! I readily admit to dressing up like a cat!
Or a bunny. Whatever I’m in the mood for.

<—-see the av?

But no full furry action if that’s what youre lookin for. Sorry to disappoint. It’s too hot down here for that nonsense!

I think how I behave on the boards is one facet of my personality. Not fake at all, but just a sliver of the big picture.
How I behave in PMs is yet another.
How I behave once I get to know someone here fairly well is yet another.
And then there’s day-to-day me: The sum of all these parts, plus the pressures of real actual life.

Honestly I get so much rough and tumble, kinky, ass slapping, humiliating, utter filth at home that sometimes my PM inbox is all humor and mush. Soft, sensual, give ya goosebumps kinda sweet talk.
...It’s what I crave.

Some might even call it... vanilla!
But with a cherry on top.

So, correct, on-the-boards Trekka is much tougher and louder than PM Box Trekka. At home Trekka is 100% a mix of the two. Plus a mortgage and three unruly children.


^That’s the answer you were looking for, yes? There: I said it! I feel naked now!

 

[Orchidea73]

Do you feel like you’re completely yourself here?

Partially. I think in real life as well there is a dualism. The public and the private, and LIT is no different. On the contrary, sometimes it might enhance it. I'm not sure you can always be "completely yourself" in real life either. There are many things, like people (family, friends, colleagues etc.) places and context that affect your behaviour. I try to be as open as I can, but certain things I keep for myself or share with very few people.

Or do you want to be someone else?

No. That I don't want.

What percentage of your personality is everyday you versus Lit you?

50/50. As I said, some things I keep for myself.

What differences are there?

Few, but essential. I'm honest about the things I choose to say. But I don't always say everything I feel or think. Sometimes I suppress it and hold myself. Sometimes is better to ignore and let go, and sometimes is worth fighting back.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

So no one admits to being super weird and dressing up in cat suits or anything. Liars.

Anyway...

Lit is an escape for many. It’s where you can come and be whatever you want. You have complete control over how you’re perceived here. I believe we all probably enjoy being less filtered or being thought of as a sex object or having the ability to be something you aren’t in real life. It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re being fake or untruthful. It just means you might portray that part of your personality a bit more.

Do you feel like you’re completely yourself here? Or do you want to be someone else? What percentage of your personality is everyday you versus Lit you? What differences are there?

And my god... if any of you say, “I’m just me” or “I’m exactly the same” I’m going to steal candy from a child. Don’t give that lame fucking answer. We all have something here that’s a little different. Don’t be a lame wad.

Girl Crush by Little Big Town

https://youtu.be/JYZMT8otKdI

I’m the same guy, except for some caveats. I flirt where I might not in real life. I’m I not afraid to shoot my shot with a beautiful lady here, whereas I’m a bit more protective in everyday life until someone gets to know me. I don’t mind the rejection here. It’s fun. It’s not that I’m different, I just think parts of me that want to become normalized feel liberty here. I mean, I’ve been on Lit in various forms long enough to be a founder.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Hey! I readily admit to dressing up like a cat!
Or a bunny. Whatever I’m in the mood for.

<—-see the av?

But no full furry action if that’s what youre lookin for. Sorry to disappoint. It’s too hot down here for that nonsense!

I think how I behave on the boards is one facet of my personality. Not fake at all, but just a sliver of the big picture.
How I behave in PMs is yet another.
How I behave once I get to know someone here fairly well is yet another.
And then there’s day-to-day me: The sum of all these parts, plus the pressures of real actual life.

Honestly I get so much rough and tumble, kinky, ass slapping, humiliating, utter filth at home that sometimes my PM inbox is all humor and mush. Soft, sensual, give ya goosebumps kinda sweet talk.
...It’s what I crave.

Some might even call it... vanilla!
But with a cherry on top.

So, correct, on-the-boards Trekka is much tougher and louder than PM Box Trekka. At home Trekka is 100% a mix of the two. Plus a mortgage and three unruly children.


^That’s the answer you were looking for, yes? There: I said it! I feel naked now!

Is it a vanilla cherry????

You know what, Trek? We’ve had convos over the years and I’ve always been impressed at just how constant you are. We can have rowdy fun on the boards and have a complete convo via Pm. That kind of stability is refreshing and exciting. You’re a catch, chica. We dig your brand of crazy.

 

[Rapha1979]

I’m the same guy, except for some caveats. I flirt where I might not in real life. I’m I not afraid to shoot my shot with a beautiful lady here, whereas I’m a bit more protective in everyday life until someone gets to know me. I don’t mind the rejection here. It’s fun. It’s not that I’m different, I just think parts of me that want to become normalized feel liberty here. I mean, I’ve been on Lit in various forms long enough to be a founder.

I’d agree with this. I’m honest and truthful about who I am and what I like on here, to an extent that I’m not in real life. I guess the anonymity makes that much easier. So basically, I’m me, but in high definition. It’s definitely easier to see the flaws!

 

[parker77]

Monday poems? I thought that was my job description?!

then get yer ass in gear, bro!

 

[Pervy_Sage]

then get yer ass in gear, bro!

Nah. You take the mantle. I’m retired.

 

[SassySheDevil]

So no one admits to being super weird and dressing up in cat suits or anything. Liars.

Anyway...

Lit is an escape for many. It’s where you can come and be whatever you want. You have complete control over how you’re perceived here. I believe we all probably enjoy being less filtered or being thought of as a sex object or having the ability to be something you aren’t in real life. It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re being fake or untruthful. It just means you might portray that part of your personality a bit more.

Do you feel like you’re completely yourself here? Or do you want to be someone else? What percentage of your personality is everyday you versus Lit you? What differences are there?

And my god... if any of you say, “I’m just me” or “I’m exactly the same” I’m going to steal candy from a child. Don’t give that lame fucking answer. We all have something here that’s a little different. Don’t be a lame wad.

Girl Crush by Little Big Town

https://youtu.be/JYZMT8otKdI

Like Trekka. I have plenty of cat stuff. But also not anything involving fur (other than the tails)

I think I am pretty close to myself. I am more outgoing here. I'm pretty shy until I get to know someone.
I'm open sexually here and offline. Sex doesn't scare me. Talking about it, being open about it. I'm the same here and there.
In real life, I can't hide the flaws. Here I sort of can.
But considering I've met so many people in person. I try to be the same. I don't want any big surprises.

 

[parker77]

i not going to say that i'm not super weird, but i have never dressed up in a catsuit or anything else. i have worn one of these hats before

https://di2ponv0v5otw.cloudfront.net/posts/2019/07/14/5d2be53d8d6f1a51b572084a/s_5d390200138e18336b8a4f83.jpg

but that's a different story.

Lit is an escape for me. however, it's not so I can be somebody else, rather so i can express the things that would get me in trouble in RL if i did so there. if i expressed in RL the infusion nurse fantasy i wrote about, i'd probably be incarcerated. here, i'm not even unusual for doing that. i don't want to be anybody else and don't have a Lit persona. i'm not smart enough to pull that off. i like plenty of people who do that, and think they are way fun, but it's not what i'm doing. what you get here is pretty much me, jus saying the perverted stuff that i hold back in reality.

oh, and in case you were wondering, i employ proper use of capitalization in RL.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I couldn't get passed the acting/ shitty giggles.

It was a little unpleasant, but I found that rubbing my dick and concentrating on her boobs really really helped

She isn’t going to win an Oscar, that’s for sure. Watching with the sound off is the way to go. And yes, rubbing your dick makes everything better. Maybe, I should rub it while watching Avatar and it won’t suck so much!

 

[Pervy_Sage]

i not going to say that i'm not super weird, but i have never dressed up in a catsuit or anything else. i have worn one of these hats before

https://di2ponv0v5otw.cloudfront.net/posts/2019/07/14/5d2be53d8d6f1a51b572084a/s_5d390200138e18336b8a4f83.jpg

but that's a different story.

Lit is an escape for me. however, it's not so I can be somebody else, rather so i can express the things that would get me in trouble in RL if i did so there. if i expressed in RL the infusion nurse fantasy i wrote about, i'd probably be incarcerated. here, i'm not even unusual for doing that. i don't want to be anybody else and don't have a Lit persona. i'm not smart enough to pull that off. i like plenty of people who do that, and think they are way fun, but it's not what i'm doing. what you get here is pretty much me, jus saying the perverted stuff that i hold back in reality.

oh, and in case you were wondering, i employ proper use of capitalization in RL.

This entire post is you sending out the Corb-signal.

 

[Booboobear84]

I'm more and less of my self. I am way less political here. In general I am less ranty here. No one wants to read my rant, we're here for recreation and escape, which I don't associate with ranting. I'm more flirty here, but only a little more than I am with my regular dance partners in real life. ONTH a casual dance partner in RL you need to be restrained. There are lots of real world pervs who make dances less pleasant for women. I do not want to be thought of as one of those guys. Lit's safer that way, though apparently lots of guys still find a way to go over the line. I'm probably a bit better than in RL because I can edit and contemplate before clicking the post button. My intentions are pretty similar, it's just easier here to prevent screw ups here. And shocking no one, here I might have something hot and steamy, but I sure won't cross that line in RL.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I am just a version of myself here.
My sense of humor doesn’t always translate into the written word. Without my facial expressions, tone of voice and nuance, my words can very easily be taken the wrong way, so I am a little cautious with what I say (believe it or not) .

I also don’t like to get into super serious conversations here because the format just doesn’t work for that, but in real life I enjoy a good debate and thought provoking ideas riddled with inappropriate sexual innuendo.

In real life, I am more shy; I stick to the shadows and observe more than take part in things. It takes me a long time to be comfortable with people to open up, where here, I just announce embarrassing things about myself with total abandon.

Like Sexybritches, I have experienced people thinking I’m fake when I’m being genuine and thinking I’m sincere when I’m just being a knucklehead—both here and real life.

I’m also 12% more attractive than you think.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

I will echo what everyone else said about being multifaceted, and showing certain parts of my personality more openly here than other parts. Once I get to know people on a more personal level, obviously different parts of my personality would be highlighted. It’s ironic that when I allowed myself to be the most genuine and real with someone, I was called a fake—it was the exact opposite of the truth.

My point is, sometimes people don’t like all the layers that are revealed—it isn’t convenient for them or it doesn’t match with their idea of who you are to them. But really, that reveals more about them than it does about you.

I’m a huge fan of who you are.

 

[parker77]

This entire post is you sending out the Corb-signal.

it is entirely possible that you are reading WAY too much into this.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I’m a huge fan of who you are.

SexyBritches is the best!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I was also thinking, if my friends were here they would recognize which one of us I am immediately, but my family wouldn’t.

That’s kind of interesting and confirms that I am a version of myself here, but not entirely me.

I guess I don’t make as many dick references at the Thanksgiving table as I do with my friends.

 

[Suz_anne]

I guess I don’t make as many dick references at the Thanksgiving table as I do with my friends.

What's the max number of dick references for Thanksgiving dinner?

#curious

 

[Rawhide_101]

This is becoming somewhat Freudian . . .

Id
Ego
Supergo.

Looks too much like work for me.

 

[Orchidea73]

My point is, sometimes people don’t like all the layers that are revealed—it isn’t convenient for them or it doesn’t match with their idea of who you are to them. But really, that reveals more about them than it does about you.

Well said.

This is becoming somewhat Freudian . . .

Id
Ego
Supergo.

Looks too much like work for me.

You have a point. lol

 

[Rawhide_101]

What's the max number of dick references for Thanksgiving dinner?

#curious

LOL

Considering I have a relative we call "Dick" (Richard his is name but no one calls him that), that number is off the chart!

For all the reasons you think!

 

[hotwords229_A]

What's the max number of dick references for Thanksgiving dinner?

#curious

There has to be at least one meat thermometer joke.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

it is entirely possible that you are reading WAY too much into this.

maybe if we forgo all punctuation she will show herself