Showing My Love Of Older Men...take II

[hard1here]

I am a 61yo married man and I very much enjoy chatting with younger women! And I don’t only mean young women in their 20’s although I do enjoy them as well! But women in their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s! PM me please, if you are wanting to chat! I also have Kik and my username is hard1h. I use Hangouts as well!

 

[justdamhorny]

I'm also 61 and married. My wife is 8 years younger. She says sometimes that the age difference gets in the way. I try not to look my age and still have fun. Don't write us older guys off just yet!!!

 

[MascaraRuns]

I'm also 61 and married. My wife is 8 years younger. She says sometimes that the age difference gets in the way. I try not to look my age and still have fun. Don't write us older guys off just yet!!!

My fwb is older than his wife too but she is the one that acts older. She says he is but trust me, he dont act old when I'm around

 

[Thicklittlebaby]

Older men

I have only recently involved myself with an older man. I am 22 and he just turned 55. Hes very beautiful, but also very emotional. He's a very sexual creature. He's done things to me I've never thought I wanted.. but the age difference is kind of hard. At times I feel like I'm back in my preteens and trying not to get in trouble.. it's hard to explain. I love him, and we both want a future together.. anyone else ever experience this feeling? How did you work through it. Advice maybe? Thank you!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I’m a married 61 yr old man. My current lover is 36. Age difference isn’t an issue for us. In fact, it adds to the chemistry. She loves my wisdom, maturity and experience, while I adore her vitality, sexual inexperience and of course, sexy young body. It’s pretty fuckng electric.
I seem to be drawn to much younger women because they seem to be drawn to me.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I have only recently involved myself with an older man. I am 22 and he just turned 55. Hes very beautiful, but also very emotional. He's a very sexual creature. He's done things to me I've never thought I wanted.. but the age difference is kind of hard. At times I feel like I'm back in my preteens and trying not to get in trouble.. it's hard to explain. I love him, and we both want a future together.. anyone else ever experience this feeling? How did you work through it. Advice maybe? Thank you!

With that kind of age difference, it can be awkward. I was 35 years older than my lover and when we did go out, we both felt it - but what we felt was in our head, attempting to read/interpret what others thought of us being together. It wasn't that often actually as I'm married so we had a different dynamic going on.

There are always going to be people who have nothing better to do with there mental capabilities than to judge and try to police others. The problem is theirs, not yours - don't let them get into your head. You know the joys, the passion, the love you two share and that is what binds you together, not others.

Of course the real challenge is your own family and finding ways for them to accept and celebrate your relationship is something you have to work on. Each family, each family member is different, but people have been so indoctrinated of thinking of relationships based on age differences as exploitative, just sexual, even abusive. You have to show them that yours is normal, based on love, attraction, desire - like so many other relationships.

Good luck!

 

[Lost_Yonder]

by way of a bump...

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[deafjeff]

I'm a 63 year old white guy and currently talking to a gorgeous 37 year old black bbw. She's married but separated, divorce pending, bi, and wants a poly throuple. Things are moving along well and I really feel that this might actually go somewhere. Not all the way to the throuple, my luck isn't that good, but I enjoy imagining the looks we would would get when we went out to dinner- a May/December inter-racial couple and our lover. I'm being real about this and not a silly old fool. Hopefully I'll have a story to share with y'all someday.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I'm a 63 year old white guy and currently talking to a gorgeous 37 year old black bbw. She's married but separated, divorce pending, bi, and wants a poly throuple. Things are moving along well and I really feel that this might actually go somewhere. Not all the way to the throuple, my luck isn't that good, but I enjoy imagining the looks we would would get when we went out to dinner- a May/December inter-racial couple and our lover. I'm being real about this and not a silly old fool. Hopefully I'll have a story to share with y'all someday.

Hope you two find everything you both desire!

good luck

 

[Bbwlonghairedlover]

As a 33 year old BBW, I love older men. But I just don't understand that concept that their families would think that we are "gold diggers". Yes, I know where that stereotype came from. I am not naive enough to believe that there aren't women out there who enjoy the company, wisdom, compassion, intimacy, and over all virility of an older man. Why are we written off, so easily? Maybe I am just over thinking this, I don't know. Any way that is where my head is.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

As a 33 year old BBW, I love older men. But I just don't understand that concept that their families would think that we are "gold diggers". Yes, I know where that stereotype came from. I am not naive enough to believe that there aren't women out there who enjoy the company, wisdom, compassion, intimacy, and over all virility of an older man. Why are we written off, so easily? Maybe I am just over thinking this, I don't know. Any way that is where my head is.

Of course the "good digger" stereotype assumes all us old men have gold to begin with!

Fortunately, not in all parts of the world are age differences between loving partners looked down upon as they seem to be in the US. Even parts of Europe it is much more acceptable. Not sure whey so many Americans have this built in aversion for age differences in a loving, nurturing relationship???

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I'm also 61 and married. My wife is 8 years younger. She says sometimes that the age difference gets in the way. I try not to look my age and still have fun. Don't write us older guys off just yet!!!

yeah...I never look at my age either --, unless I catch sight of myself in a mirror.
Even then, I sometimes wonder why my Grandpa is watching me.

 

[beachguyinflorida]

This older gentleman loves younger women! Especially younger women that love older men ! I’m happy to know that you’re out there! Although I’m older, I don’t feel it. Still have hair and teeth, lol

 

[FGB]

I am told I don't act like I am in my sixties...in or out of bed.

I don't feel like I will be 64 next month and I am pretty confident I can handle a woman at least ten to twenty years or more younger than I am.

Me and my horny perverted nature + Cialis = C4 when it comes to sex

I have been told that I am addictive, dangerous,outrageous and that I fuck like a porn star.

Meh.

I am just a shy sexaholic that indulges himself if possible when I am in a relationship of some kind.

 

[rockhardrick]

Good day fellow isolated perverts. I'm 63 and quite simply adore women. I was married to a wonderful nymphomaniac for over 40 years. She died very suddenly just a couple months ago. I've never been without the intimacy and sharing amazing sex. So, I'm looking for women, your or my age or even older. God I miss making a woman cum....

 

[FGB]

Good day fellow isolated perverts. I'm 63 and quite simply adore women. I was married to a wonderful nymphomaniac for over 40 years. She died very suddenly just a couple months ago. I've never been without the intimacy and sharing amazing sex. So, I'm looking for women, your or my age or even older. God I miss making a woman cum....

Word!

and sorry for your lost!

 

[ace195008]

YeH, don’t forget older men or ladies we are still human, emotional beings and like connections of all types.

 

[Bbwlonghairedlover]

Of course the "good digger" stereotype assumes all us old men have gold to begin with!

Fortunately, not in all parts of the world are age differences between loving partners looked down upon as they seem to be in the US. Even parts of Europe it is much more acceptable. Not sure whey so many Americans have this built in aversion for age differences in a loving, nurturing relationship???

I am not sure either, the way most of the US, is so sexually repressed just amazes me. I am surprised most people here, don't combust from sexual frustration. I don't understand why any healthy, nurturing, respecting, loving relationship is so demonized, weather it be older men and younger women, or older women and younger men, or gay relationships, or any other type of relationship. But as westernized as the US is, it seems to me that we have a lot to learn about respect and love, and simple kindness. But that is solely my opinion.

 

[ef_oh_ex]

I'm a 63 year old white guy and currently talking to a gorgeous 37 year old black bbw. She's married but separated, divorce pending, bi, and wants a poly throuple. Things are moving along well and I really feel that this might actually go somewhere. Not all the way to the throuple, my luck isn't that good, but I enjoy imagining the looks we would would get when we went out to dinner- a May/December inter-racial couple and our lover. I'm being real about this and not a silly old fool. Hopefully I'll have a story to share with y'all someday.

Several things about this come immediately to mind:
First, I hope that you can establish that connection, or both if possible.
Second, I've found that the setting you choose for your night out is really important.
There are venues whose patrons are noticeably more open-minded than others, if that is what you seek: e.g. there is a spot near me where younger & older freely mix without judgement.
Good luck...

 

[sailgolf]

Same. During the Great Lockdown, I have been doing all of my regular routines, but exercise has been one that I’ve really focused on more than usual. I’m 50 and am in the best shape I’ve been in since my early 20s. Lost 40lbs and toned up. I wish there was a young woman out there I could tease, play, and flirt with - one who felt a special warmth for an older man... any takers?

I am another one. Turned 59 under lockdown. Recently lost 25 lbs and have added fitness while stuck at home. In best shape in my life really. Use to like older women and had an affair with one who was 15 years olded than me. It was on and off for 20 years. Now I would like to reverse that and find a women in her thirties od forties that I can spoil with attention

 

[BenDover4]

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[melimelissa]

For me, older minds
have experience and such
understanding

A casual exchange
can lead to warm affection,
disregarding age.

Méli

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the joys, the passion, the love you two share and that is what binds you together, not others.

 

[Maturelickr]

It took me 71 yrs to grow into a 'dirty ole man'; and I am not changing. So, any 'young' ladies care to communicate?

 

[ScottishLass74]

I'm 45f and have always preferred older men my first was 31 years older than me and it last 10 till he took a job overseas. I have a current long term hookup partner who is 76 and I'm looking for anyone in the UK around the same age. We are a bit naughty and kinky when we get together but I wouldn't have it any other way.

 

[Mtnmike]

I'm 45f and have always preferred older men my first was 31 years older than me and it last 10 till he took a job overseas. I have a current long term hookup partner who is 76 and I'm looking for anyone in the UK around the same age. We are a bit naughty and kinky when we get together but I wouldn't have it any other way.

On behalf of us old men, I want to thank you for your appreciation.