Affection between men

[GentlemanJedi63]

As a man, I enjoy watching girl on girl, and love to watch them kiss passionately. However, when I watch gay porn, I enjoy watching men kiss as well, and believe that men kissing is fine, and essential to a the intimacy that makes a sexual encounter more passionate. How do feel about men kissing?Would you kiss a man if you were having sex?

 

[peter49parker]

As a man, I enjoy watching girl on girl, and love to watch them kiss passionately. However, when I watch gay porn, I enjoy watching men kiss as well, and believe that men kissing is fine, and essential to a the intimacy that makes a sexual encounter more passionate. How do feel about men kissing?Would you kiss a man if you were having sex?

An interesting question. Like you, I have enjoyed watching girl on girl sex with plenty of kissing, cuddling and passion. When it comes to sex with men, I used to be quite turned off by any of that, until I became a cocksucker at 65. The first guy I was sucking, suddenly and without warning kissed me. While it surprised me, I wasn't offended or turned off by it. Instead I found it increased the intimacy and passion of the experience.

Since then I have met with guys that vehemently object to any such activity like kissing and cuddling, while others encourage it. If given the choice, I would prefer to kiss, touch, feel, nibble and whatever makes the encounter more passionate. So, my answer is "Yes!"

 

[carln3346]

As a man, I enjoy watching girl on girl, and love to watch them kiss passionately. However, when I watch gay porn, I enjoy watching men kiss as well, and believe that men kissing is fine, and essential to a the intimacy that makes a sexual encounter more passionate. How do feel about men kissing?Would you kiss a man if you were having sex?

I have, and I enjoy it. Never thought it would happen, and at first it was clumsy . . . but once I accepted the fact that I liked it, it feels very natural

 

[Vafunman42]

Kiss

I have kissed men before but I prefer the soft touch of a woman's lips. Nothing like kissing lips as I'm being sucked.

 

[cuck72]

As a man, I enjoy watching girl on girl, and love to watch them kiss passionately. However, when I watch gay porn, I enjoy watching men kiss as well, and believe that men kissing is fine, and essential to a the intimacy that makes a sexual encounter more passionate. How do feel about men kissing?Would you kiss a man if you were having sex?

I like the kissing because in my mind set I'd be thinking I'm his girl friend. I really get off thinking of being a guys GF, in my sissy thoughts. So yes I have guys I think of kissing and being like their Gf, or wife.

 

[Sunnyade]

I find kissing very arousing. Taken aback the 1st time a guy kissed me but it was immediately enjoyable and lustful.

 

[jerrythelad]

I was initially very reluctant to kiss another guy for a long time but eventually during one erotic encounter when we were both naked it happened naturally and it really felt wonderful. I have enjoyed it ever since then.

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

I like the kissing because in my mind set I'd be thinking I'm his girl friend. I really get off thinking of being a guys GF, in my sissy thoughts. So yes I have guys I think of kissing and being like their Gf, or wife.

I understand that feeling. If I am going to be with a man, then I want to go the full way. I am not the versatile bottom nor am I just the bottom. I want to be the girl. I love the idea of being an older, married man's side pussy.

 

[Eighty6ed]

Wouldn’t say no

I think the situation dictates what happens...anything is a go in the heat of passion. I don’t seek out kissing, but would be open to it in the moment. Some guys have told me kissing just drives them crazy, more so than kissing a girl. Personally, I think it’s very sexy and erotic and would add to the whole experience.

 

[Eighty6ed]

Same

I understand that feeling. If I am going to be with a man, then I want to go the full way. I am not the versatile bottom nor am I just the bottom. I want to be the girl. I love the idea of being an older, married man's side pussy.

Me too. The thought of being another married man’s side pussy is so very hot!

 

[Jerseyshore]

As a man, I enjoy watching girl on girl, and love to watch them kiss passionately. However, when I watch gay porn, I enjoy watching men kiss as well, and believe that men kissing is fine, and essential to a the intimacy that makes a sexual encounter more passionate. How do feel about men kissing?Would you kiss a man if you were having sex?

I have always loved affection and kissing, particularly in foreplay. I envy women and their natural tenderness, and like yourself like female love scenes. Men often have trouble being affectionate with each other, especially if one or more are still insecure in their sexuality and fear to be less than masculine. Part of coming out (a lifetime process) is learning to put aside these insecurities and enjoy the full spectrum of gay sexuality.

Gay tenderness is usually something that has to learned as gay men realize that they can act on their own desire and not meet heterosexual norms. If a gay man accepts himself and gains pride and learns to love what he was created as, then he is free to be himself and enjoy the life he has been gifted with. We are different than straight people, and we should embrace that difference, realize that we are special, and enjoy all of our sexuality. This is a different journey for each gay man, and our coming out can take many different paths. Hopefully, they all end in self-acceptance and pride, and the understanding that we are free to be ourselves in every way. This is true liberation.

I love each of you that is on this journey.

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

I have always loved affection and kissing, particularly in foreplay. I envy women and their natural tenderness, and like yourself like female love scenes. Men often have trouble being affectionate with each other, especially if one or more are still insecure in their sexuality and fear to be less than masculine. Part of coming out (a lifetime process) is learning to put aside these insecurities and enjoy the full spectrum of gay sexuality.

Gay tenderness is usually something that has to learned as gay men realize that they can act on their own desire and not meet heterosexual norms. If a gay man accepts himself and gains pride and learns to love what he was created as, then he is free to be himself and enjoy the life he has been gifted with. We are different than straight people, and we should embrace that difference, realize that we are special, and enjoy all of our sexuality. This is a different journey for each gay man, and our coming out can take many different paths. Hopefully, they all end in self-acceptance and pride, and the understanding that we are free to be ourselves in every way.

I love each of you that is on this journey.

This is one of the most tender and loving things I have ever read. No, I do not consider myself as gay since I prefer women, but I cannot deny that I have gay desires which I fought and denied for so long. My journey has taken me from becoming aware of my gay desires to admission of my gay desires to acceptance of my gay desires. This feeling of self acceptance is exhilarating and liberating as I finally allowed myself to enjoy the pleasure of those feelings. I think we (by "we", I mean our society) get so hung upon labels, their meanings, and arbitrarily assigning positive or negative connotations that we miss out on fully being the person we were meant to be.

 

[Jerseyshore]

This is one of the most tender and loving things I have ever read. No, I do not consider myself as gay since I prefer women, but I cannot deny that I have gay desires which I fought and denied for so long. My journey has taken me from becoming aware of my gay desires to admission of my gay desires to acceptance of my gay desires. This feeling of self acceptance is exhilarating and liberating as I finally allowed myself to enjoy the pleasure of those feelings. I think we (by "we", I mean our society) get so hung upon labels, their meanings, and arbitrarily assigning positive or negative connotations that we miss out on fully being the person we were meant to be.

Thank you very much. I am so proud of you.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

As a man, I enjoy watching girl on girl, and love to watch them kiss passionately. However, when I watch gay porn, I enjoy watching men kiss as well, and believe that men kissing is fine, and essential to a the intimacy that makes a sexual encounter more passionate. How do feel about men kissing?Would you kiss a man if you were having sex?

If I were meeting a guy for sex and then found out that there would be no kissing, a second later he would be finding out that there would be no sex with me. Unless of course, the intent of our meet was just a blow and go.

 

[Jaime1493]

Male Affection

I love making out with another guy. It make love making so much more wonderful.

 

[PG564E]

As a man, I enjoy watching girl on girl, and love to watch them kiss passionately. However, when I watch gay porn, I enjoy watching men kiss as well, and believe that men kissing is fine, and essential to a the intimacy that makes a sexual encounter more passionate. How do feel about men kissing?Would you kiss a man if you were having sex?

In real homosexual life, I have kissed men, and they have kissed me. The first time I was kissed it unnerved me, but I kissed him back but held back. I had just swallowed his creamy semen, and it was sexy. On the first time in my life when I had man on man sex, I went crazy with cock lust. I had desired gay sex for many years, and I lost my oral and anal virginity on the same day, and kissed and been kissed by other men. It was fantastic, I will never forget it.

I cum so hard now "seeing" kissing while I am being fucked in the ass while another man kisses me passionately. Riding a cock and lowering my mouth to his and gripping his hard dick with my warm smooth ass. Or "see" me blowing two men who are standing, kissing each other, and I suck their cocks until both cum in my mouth.

I've never cum kissed yet, but that would probably be seriously hot.

This thread stirs my erotic imagination. I "see" myself kissing men I have blown while they give it to me up my ass and cum warm and deep inside me. This thread makes it so easy to get sex crazed!

 

[sultrysandy]

In real homosexual life, I have kissed men, and they have kissed me. The first time I was kissed it unnerved me, but I kissed him back but held back. I had just swallowed his creamy semen, and it was sexy. On the first time in my life when I had man on man sex, I went crazy with cock lust. I had desired gay sex for many years, and I lost my oral and anal virginity on the same day, and kissed and been kissed by other men. It was fantastic, I will never forget it.

I cum so hard now "seeing" kissing while I am being fucked in the ass while another man kisses me passionately. Riding a cock and lowering my mouth to his and gripping his hard dick with my warm smooth ass. Or "see" me blowing two men who are standing, kissing each other, and I suck their cocks until both cum in my mouth.

I've never cum kissed yet, but that would probably be seriously hot.

This thread stirs my erotic imagination. I "see" myself kissing men I have blown while they give it to me up my ass and cum warm and deep inside me. This thread makes it so easy to get sex crazed!

Hey PG564E!

Instead of making yourself look like a good guy, why don't you be honest and post how you trolled my lesbian thread wanting to give another troll a blowjob and waiting lesbians to watch" And how you don't care about anyone else but only about yourself.
.

 

[none2_none2]

I have always loved affection and kissing, particularly in foreplay. I envy women and their natural tenderness, and like yourself like female love scenes. Men often have trouble being affectionate with each other, especially if one or more are still insecure in their sexuality and fear to be less than masculine. Part of coming out (a lifetime process) is learning to put aside these insecurities and enjoy the full spectrum of gay sexuality.

Gay tenderness is usually something that has to learned as gay men realize that they can act on their own desire and not meet heterosexual norms. If a gay man accepts himself and gains pride and learns to love what he was created as, then he is free to be himself and enjoy the life he has been gifted with. We are different than straight people, and we should embrace that difference, realize that we are special, and enjoy all of our sexuality. This is a different journey for each gay man, and our coming out can take many different paths. Hopefully, they all end in self-acceptance and pride, and the understanding that we are free to be ourselves in every way. This is true liberation.

I love each of you that is on this journey.

Jerseyshore, I know you mean well in what you wrote. However, some of the things you wrote I just cannot relate to. Mainly, I don't see any difference worth mentioning between gay men, bi men, and str8 men. Yes, the gender of our preferred partners may vary, but the desire to love someone to be loved by someone, to be part of some family unit does not vary because of the gender of one's significant other. Yes life is more difficult for non-str8 men, but it isn't because of what is in there heads, but rather how the rest of the world tried to dictate what it means to be a man. It isn't just religions, but str8 society as a whole tries to pigeon-hole our behaviors down to a "T". "Normal" is what is pounded in our heads even as babies, and that is what is hard to overcome.

The older I get the more I realize it is just plain BS that we have absorbed from society that we simply need to throw out. Sadly, it is so much easier to recycle it and have to deal with it much longer as a result of not simply throwing it out of our heads -- which of course is not easy to do.

For myself, I am a top. It is my nature. I'm NOT more masculine than the partners I have had. My partner of 17+ years if put up on a stereotype scale of society's grading of masculinity would rank higher than me. It doesn't bother me. I love the man, not the image. Yes at my deepest level I wish I could literally breed a man. That isn't about envisioning the feminization of my partner, but the natural desire to want to create life with the person you love. To have some part of you live beyond your own mortal life.

I would also add that I don't associate with many gay men in real life. It isn't about internalized homophobia, but because I just cannot relate in many ways. I admit that I have never married my partner (legal and some other issues I don't want to divulge), in my heart all those vows that we all as human beings have heard in our lives applies to how I feel: Love cherish, etc in sickness or in health as long as you both can live applies to how I feel about my man. My body literally aches at times to touch him. I miss so very much being able to be inside him due to my ED. I wish I could simply put my entire body inside him to become one. (Not all the time, like after he has gone outside for a smoke! )

To other non-str8 men, I have a hard time understanding their sexuality. For instance, I would agree that men may seem more masculine in some costumes. However, I think leather actually looks better on the cow. I also have ZERO interest in a guy wearing feminine attire. I have no desire for a partner to wear makeup, wigs, panties, hose, etc. If I wanted too have sex with a woman, I'd get the real deal. I want to get NAKED with my man how he is. Sure I want us to be clean, but otherwise, I want to feel his hairy body against mine and to feel his warmness, I want to smell him, I want to hear his breathing, I want to see him and his body as God made him.

Anyway, I don't see any of what I wrote different than what any non-gay man who is a lover. might write about his loves. Real sex is about wanting, needing another human being to cherish. It isn't about genitals as much as it is about hearts, minds, and souls.

 

[yukonnights]

I have always loved affection and kissing, particularly in foreplay. I envy women and their natural tenderness, and like yourself like female love scenes. Men often have trouble being affectionate with each other, especially if one or more are still insecure in their sexuality and fear to be less than masculine. Part of coming out (a lifetime process) is learning to put aside these insecurities and enjoy the full spectrum of gay sexuality.

Gay tenderness is usually something that has to learned as gay men realize that they can act on their own desire and not meet heterosexual norms. If a gay man accepts himself and gains pride and learns to love what he was created as, then he is free to be himself and enjoy the life he has been gifted with. We are different than straight people, and we should embrace that difference, realize that we are special, and enjoy all of our sexuality. This is a different journey for each gay man, and our coming out can take many different paths. Hopefully, they all end in self-acceptance and pride, and the understanding that we are free to be ourselves in every way. This is true liberation.

I love each of you that is on this journey.

Well said.

But your thoughts prompted me to think that it isn't that some men just have trouble being affectionate with other men — a lot of men have trouble showing true affection to their wife or girlfriend. It's an inborn affliction which I'm not certain can be changed. And, there are also a lot of such 'afflicted men' who do participate in gay sex. The beauty of tenderness and the ability to experience/share affection resides on the inside and no doubt varies with each of us.

 

[stargame]

Well said.

But your thoughts prompted me to think that it isn't that some men just have trouble being affectionate with other men — a lot of men have trouble showing true affection to their wife or girlfriend. It's an inborn affliction which I'm not certain can be changed. And, there are also a lot of such 'afflicted men' who do participate in gay sex. The beauty of tenderness and the ability to experience/share affection resides on the inside and no doubt varies with each of us.

I love the beauty of tenderness and sometime just want to be touched and held.

 

[Jaime1493]

I love kissing as a part of making love, or getting in the mood for making love, between guys.

 

[Jaime1493]

I'd like touching you, holding you, getting you in the mood to make love with me.

 

[t1m1d1]

Yes, I just love kissing men as much as women. It’s a real turn on for me.

 

[LoftyCraig]

i'd love to find a man who enjoys kissing before and after sex.

 

[stargame]

PM me if you want to hold me.