More or Less

[THROBBS]

I wonder how the various levels of quarantine are affecting LIT interactions.

I imagine that many are on-line much more.

I also imagine that quite a few have to be stealthy as they are now at home and with other folk.

I am on, at least as much, but I now have company pretty much all the time, so it's "different".

 

[Chillygirl]

I’m online all the time....way too much.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I have noticed a lot less sexiness here. People are talking more, playing less.

 

[THROBBS]

I’m online all the time....way too much.

likewise.
it's an "escape", though, I cannot get as far these days.

I have noticed a lot less sexiness here. People are talking more, playing less.

Health and finance worries weighing more heavily is also a buzz-kill.

Though talking is not a "bad" thing.

 

[MaybeMae]

I have noticed a lot less sexiness here. People are talking more, playing less.

I agree with that.
I mean sure, I've played some
sent out a few pictures of my tits and all that jazz
but I am longing for more connection
to hear stories
to talk about sex as a subject rather than a means to an end.

 

[THROBBS]

I agree with that.
I mean sure, I've played some
sent out a few pictures of my tits and all that jazz
but I am longing for more connection
to hear stories
to talk about sex as a subject rather than a means to an end.

That's crazy talk!






heehee

 

[redsoxlv]

I agree with that.
I mean sure, I've played some
sent out a few pictures of my tits and all that jazz
but I am longing for more connection
to hear stories
to talk about sex as a subject rather than a means to an end.

I’ve seen a tick more posts and threads by people looking to chat, but not by a large amount.

IF you ever feel like chatting, shoot me a PM. Sex is fun to chat about but I’m more interested in hearing about what turns people on and what they like and are into.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I'm guessing a lot less playing going on due to the fact that all the "single" folks aren't as single with spouses and significant others around to cramp their style.

In all seriousness though, times like this have me more interested in actually connecting and less interested in entertaining. But that's just me.

 

[NotYourKnight]

I'm on more, though I'm not single and not alone at home.

 

[LadyJS]

Although I've been online probably more than say the start of the year, the last couple of days I unplugged from most online activity just because I got tired of it. I spent more time reading, watching movies from my Blu-ray and DVD backlog, and spending more time outdoors. For me, I see this as more of a trend I'll be following, at least for the short run.

 

[THROBBS]

I'd like to squeeze in a bit of "me time" and make some new erotic works. Though actually posting them is less of a motivation. As I dig out the basement studio, this is getting more likely.

 

[nicklucas]

I agree with that.
I mean sure, I've played some
sent out a few pictures of my tits and all that jazz
but I am longing for more connection
to hear stories
to talk about sex as a subject rather than a means to an end.

Hi, Mae. My perspective may be a little different. I've started prowling these threads since the pandemic. It's part of what drove me here. (Other part ... well, long story.)

I don't know the level of play/sexiness on Lit before the self-isolating, but it seems pretty high now. The flirty banter and private correspondences I've engaged in over the last month are so much sexier than the conversations I've had while isolated with my wife--or for many years prior (long story, part one).

A happy surprise has been that not all topics of conversation on the site or in PMs are sexy, even when they're sex-related or -adjacent. I enjoy that. It helps to fill in some of the the genuine human connection gaps in my life right now (part two). I've swapped stories, shared jokes, argued, commiserated, and yes, traded sexy talk.

Is that different from what Lit interactions were like before COVID-19? Since? I'm sorry you're not finding what you seek here. I wish you the best of luck and success. But I've been very pleased. Even the inconvenience of having to keep another tab open for quick switching is much simpler than erasing electronic footprints.

Maybe I'm superficial. I'm satisfied with flirting/fleeting online connections, at least in the interim. For now, though, I'm both happy with and grateful for Lit and the people who comprise it.