Sexless Marriages

[horniestmanaliv]

So, a sexless marriage constitutes getting laid about 7 times a year or less. but what if your spouse lets you jack off in front of them, with some physical contact included and lets you say all the dirty things you fantasize about without fear of repercussion?

For example, my wife rarely fucks me because she has a low to no sex drive, but she knows that I'm DTF constantly. If I want to, every morning or night when we're in bed together, I can get her to come lay with me, let me rub my cock all over her big beautiful ass and cup her plump titties while telling her how bad I want to suck cock, that I want her to share one with me, that I want her sucking me off while I'm getting my tight little asshole fucked while wearing a pair of her panties, that I want a fat cock to explode in my mouth so we can share cum... and she participates in the dirty talk, sometimes with enthusiasm, sometimes with trepidation.

Sounds hot right... but is it sexless? If it were up to me, I'd be a lot happier just being able to make love to her. Could be worse, I guess.

And truth be told, I look at beautiful women constantly, always fantasizing about amazing sex with them, heavy on the oral / anal play. The bi talk is fantasy, and much less important to my needs in reality. MAYBE

 

[hulmule]

Not sure if there is a exact number that qualifies for sexless marriage. I understand you want to love. We all want some type of interaction. But YOU should be really happy you get to do what you do. Cause others like me don't even get anything close to that FYI. Not sure if your a member of the sexless marriage club. lol

 

[Samday]

How about zero times in 7 years - does that count as sexless marriage?

 

[horniestmanaliv]

How about zero times in 7 years - does that count as sexless marriage?

Not sure if your a member of the sexless marriage club. lol

This is why I asked. I bet some would have different takes on the matter. Looking forward to all serious replies.

 

[BeatMan]

a sexless marriage is grounds for divorce

 

[hulmule]

yea Samday qualifies !! It's sad that the wifes don't have an interest. But I understand medical reasons. I'm sure there are woman in the same boat. But I think the men out number them. Would love to hear from women who can give us some insight on ways to improve, change our relationships etc. I guess there is a lot of variables.

 

[BeatMan]

https://globalnews.ca/news/5987613/sex-refusal-annulment-ontario-court-rules/

TORONTO – A bride’s refusal to have sex with her new husband apparently due to crippling anxiety is reason enough to grant his request for a rare marriage annulment, an Ontario court has ruled.

In his judgment, Ontario Superior Court Justice Douglas Gray noted the high legal bar to undo a marriage, which goes beyond a spouse simply saying no to sex.

“This is a rather rare proceeding today with the ready availability of divorce,” Gray said in this week’s ruling. (“But) it is clear from the authorities that non-consummation must be as a result of an incapacity or inability to consummate rather than a refusal to do so.”

 

[bicuriousinnnj]

Next...

Why stay in a sexless or fairly sexless marriage? I would rather be single and exercising my options.

 

[Easyvirtue]

I had to go elsewhere and so glad I have!

 

[anniebaby10]

So, a sexless marriage constitutes getting laid about 7 times a year or less. but what if your spouse lets you jack off in front of them, with some physical contact included and lets you say all the dirty things you fantasize about without fear of repercussion?

For example, my wife rarely fucks me because she has a low to no sex drive, but she knows that I'm DTF constantly. If I want to, every morning or night when we're in bed together, I can get her to come lay with me, let me rub my cock all over her big beautiful ass and cup her plump titties while telling her how bad I want to suck cock, that I want her to share one with me, that I want her sucking me off while I'm getting my tight little asshole fucked while wearing a pair of her panties, that I want a fat cock to explode in my mouth so we can share cum... and she participates in the dirty talk, sometimes with enthusiasm, sometimes with trepidation.

Sounds hot right... but is it sexless? If it were up to me, I'd be a lot happier just being able to make love to her. Could be worse, I guess.


And truth be told, I look at beautiful women constantly, always fantasizing about amazing sex with them, heavy on the oral / anal play. The bi talk is fantasy, and much less important to my needs in reality. MAYBE

SO are you gay? Or bi? Cuz your dirty talk sounds like you want a cock in your life someway somehow.

 

[FL30]

So, a sexless marriage constitutes getting laid about 7 times a year or less. but what if your spouse lets you jack off in front of them, with some physical contact included and lets you say all the dirty things you fantasize about without fear of repercussion?

For example, my wife rarely fucks me because she has a low to no sex drive, but she knows that I'm DTF constantly. If I want to, every morning or night when we're in bed together, I can get her to come lay with me, let me rub my cock all over her big beautiful ass and cup her plump titties while telling her how bad I want to suck cock, that I want her to share one with me, that I want her sucking me off while I'm getting my tight little asshole fucked while wearing a pair of her panties, that I want a fat cock to explode in my mouth so we can share cum... and she participates in the dirty talk, sometimes with enthusiasm, sometimes with trepidation.

Sounds hot right... but is it sexless? If it were up to me, I'd be a lot happier just being able to make love to her. Could be worse, I guess.

And truth be told, I look at beautiful women constantly, always fantasizing about amazing sex with them, heavy on the oral / anal play. The bi talk is fantasy, and much less important to my needs in reality. MAYBE

roommates with some small benefits - no longer a marriage

 

[FL30]

SO are you gay? Or bi? Cuz your dirty talk sounds like you want a cock in your life someway somehow.

Annie, here is what he wrote on the last line in case you missed it:

"The bi talk is fantasy, and much less important to my needs in reality. MAYBE "

 

[FL30]

Not sure if there is a exact number that qualifies for sexless marriage. I understand you want to love. We all want some type of interaction. But YOU should be really happy you get to do what you do. Cause others like me don't even get anything close to that FYI. Not sure if your a member of the sexless marriage club. lol

roommates - why stay together?

 

[FL30]

How about zero times in 7 years - does that count as sexless marriage?

serious roommates - why are you still together?

 

[rickdickerson]

My Sexless Marriage Made Me Bi / Gay.

How about zero times in 7 years - does that count as sexless marriage?

This is about where I am at these days - 0 times in almost 4 years. I've grown to be slightly resentful of women while developing a strong preference and attraction to Men and Cock as a result.

 

[Samday]

why are you still there

serious roommates - why are you still together?

Because there are other people to think about - aged parents who live with us etc etc

 

[horniestmanaliv]

SO are you gay? Or bi?

I don't consider myself either or anything. My attitude is that all sex between any consenting adults is sexy, and I consider myself to be a very sexy man. And I could never be in a romantic relationship with another man, but would love to have sexual encounters with other men. That's not the point here though. I'm just looking for people to weigh in on if they consider my situation to be sexless.

 

[justdamhorny]

Neither one of us can afford to live on our own so we stay together and live more like friends that sleep in the same bed!!! She goes without and I get it where I can.