Sexless Marriages

[sallycee]

::: peeks around the door at fave thread family:::

Anyone figured out who I left out the back door with yet?

Clues... he’s opinionated, fit, sexy AF, glasses & an Alt

Glad you’re all ok

Someone fun I’m sure.... is he a legend? .....mythical?
Always love a good mystery.....

 

[monique1971]

I was in one for 15 years. I wanted sex, he didn't. Eventually he got tired of me being sad about it, and he left.

He has dated some since the marriage ended, so I guess he did want sex after all.

Just not with me.

Funny thing is, now at this point in my life, no one else wants me either.

I don't really care much about any of it any more. I probably never will have sex again. It doesn't matter. Life goes on. I'm reasonably useful and happy in my life.

Don't let what happened to me, happen to you (not sure who I am addressing here). One day he woke up and realized he had never been in love with me. He walked out the door like he was walking to the corner store and never looked back. It was quite a shocker. I wish I'd been the one to wake up and leave so I could have started a new life while there was still time.

 

[AnnieLit]

I was in one for 15 years. I wanted sex, he didn't. Eventually he got tired of me being sad about it, and he left.

He has dated some since the marriage ended, so I guess he did want sex after all.

Just not with me.

Funny thing is, now at this point in my life, no one else wants me either.

I don't really care much about any of it any more. I probably never will have sex again. It doesn't matter. Life goes on. I'm reasonably useful and happy in my life.

Don't let what happened to me, happen to you (not sure who I am addressing here). One day he woke up and realized he had never been in love with me. He walked out the door like he was walking to the corner store and never looked back. It was quite a shocker. I wish I'd been the one to wake up and leave so I could have started a new life while there was still time.

Is 1971 the year you were born? If so, we are the same age. I wouldn't say that dating is easy, but it is not impossible. At least if you are OK with dating a married guy in a sexless marriage.

 

[monique1971]

Is 1971 the year you were born? If so, we are the same age. I wouldn't say that dating is easy, but it is not impossible. At least if you are OK with dating a married guy in a sexless marriage.

Not judging anyone who does---one thing I know for sure is that life can be complicated--but married men are not for me at this point in my life.

Age is just one variable in the dating game, sure. Looks, location, health, time...all those things are factors too. So I wouldn't say that it's over for everyone who is my (our!) age. It's over for me, though.

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Not judging anyone who does---one thing I know for sure is that life can be complicated--but married men are not for me at this point in my life.

Age is just one variable in the dating game, sure. Looks, location, health, time...all those things are factors too. So I wouldn't say that it's over for everyone who is my (our!) age. It's over for me, though.

I hate this for you and appreciate the warning... but I’m 53 and so I consider you young still. Don’t give up yet, you have potentially 30 years to come!

 

[MatureChattyMan]

Not judging anyone who does---one thing I know for sure is that life can be complicated--but married men are not for me at this point in my life.

Age is just one variable in the dating game, sure. Looks, location, health, time...all those things are factors too. So I wouldn't say that it's over for everyone who is my (our!) age. It's over for me, though.

Life, in and out of marriage, can deal some pretty unhelpful cards, and staying hopeful or positive can feel impossible. Sometimes just taking each day, even each minute, at a time is all that works, and finding and accepting, comfort, understanding and connection from wherever it arises, will enrich some minutes, days, or more.

Yeh, I know, i sound like an old man, I wonder why!

 

[KeenVoyeur]

So sorry ...

I was in one for 15 years. I wanted sex, he didn't. Eventually he got tired of me being sad about it, and he left.

He has dated some since the marriage ended, so I guess he did want sex after all.

Just not with me.

Funny thing is, now at this point in my life, no one else wants me either.

I don't really care much about any of it any more. I probably never will have sex again. It doesn't matter. Life goes on. I'm reasonably useful and happy in my life.

Don't let what happened to me, happen to you (not sure who I am addressing here). One day he woke up and realized he had never been in love with me. He walked out the door like he was walking to the corner store and never looked back. It was quite a shocker. I wish I'd been the one to wake up and leave so I could have started a new life while there was still time.

Not judging anyone who does---one thing I know for sure is that life can be complicated--but married men are not for me at this point in my life.

Age is just one variable in the dating game, sure. Looks, location, health, time...all those things are factors too. So I wouldn't say that it's over for everyone who is my (our!) age. It's over for me, though.

… to read your posts but to just assume "It's over for me though" has to be the wrong attitude surely? At your age, I'm sure you still have a lot to offer to the right person - and there will be many guys out there for you to get to know and perhaps find that special one - so my advice (for what it's worth) would be to get out there, maybe treat yourself to a makeover if you think you need one - or just do it anyway! - and take yourself off to some of the better places in town, have fun, flirt a little and who knows?

Hopefully you will find someone who isn't married and just looking for a bit on the side and who does want you "at this point in your life"! I do hope you are pleasantly surprised by the amount of interest you get … age is just a number and there is still plenty of time!

 

[ccs29745]

Not judging anyone who does---one thing I know for sure is that life can be complicated--but married men are not for me at this point in my life.

Age is just one variable in the dating game, sure. Looks, location, health, time...all those things are factors too. So I wouldn't say that it's over for everyone who is my (our!) age. It's over for me, though.

You'll find someone, probably when you least suspect it

 

[DDBustyBrit]

You'll find someone, probably when you least suspect it

This

Proven to me twice over in succession now... literally when you least expect it and sometimes with whom you least expect it too

 

[ccs29745]

This

Proven to me twice over in succession now... literally when you least expect it and sometimes with whom you least expect it too

Hope this one lasts forever

 

[ccs29745]

Virus vs sex

Besides me, who else had a better chance of catching the Corona virus before having sex again.?

I wad tested and they found no Corona, but did find a case of Budweiser. Damn it

 

[DDBustyBrit]

I may be gone awhile, my hours working for the world’s largest online retailer just went back to the same level as Peak season (60/week). I don’t see that changing for a good few weeks

However, I also am very aware of how blessed I am to be working from home for them right now.

Stay safe everyone.... & no we don’t have any toilet paper

 

[Mr_BadExample]

I may be gone awhile, my hours working for the world’s largest online retailer just went back to the same level as Peak season (60/week). I don’t see that changing for a good few weeks

However, I also am very aware of how blessed I am to be working from home for them right now.

Stay safe everyone.... & no we don’t have any toilet paper

Good luck dealing with the craziness; hopefully it will be relatively short-lived. Take care yourself.

 

[ccs29745]

I may be gone awhile, my hours working for the world’s largest online retailer just went back to the same level as Peak season (60/week). I don’t see that changing for a good few weeks

However, I also am very aware of how blessed I am to be working from home for them right now.

Stay safe everyone.... & no we don’t have any toilet paper

Be careful, don't burn yourself out. No water or toilet paper here. Contractors bought all the Gatorade. Stay safe kiddo

 

[ccs29745]

Virus

Where'd everyone go? Damn, everyone get lucky but me?

 

[The_gladiator]

Where'd everyone go? Damn, everyone get lucky but me?

you know there used to be a thread killers anonomous that you might be able to join

 

[ccs29745]

you know there used to be a thread killers anonomous that you might be able to join

With that being said, I shall take my leave of this thread so it shall be a better one without me.

 

[Glorygirl78]

Not everybody

 

[secondchances42]

Definitely not everybody

 

[AttractiveButLonely]

Not married but sex less

For a few years, various factors lead to it but not
lack of interest from anyone.

Remained loyal thoughout but now splitting up.

I am male btw

 

[The_gladiator]

With that being said, I shall take my leave of this thread so it shall be a better one without me.

That was a joke. I was only kidding...

 

[Lost_Yonder]

With that being said, I shall take my leave of this thread so it shall be a better one without me.

You aren't allowed to leave till your wife accepts your amorous advances and gives you a blowjob to die for...

 

[philos]

Anyone else finding this whole shelter in place thing with their withholding spouse extremely difficult or is it just me?

 

[StarGazer58]

Anyone else finding this whole shelter in place thing with their withholding spouse extremely difficult or is it just me?

All of this extra time together but no sex. It is a shame.

Wonder if there will be a baby boom come around Christmas time though?

 

[chuckypip69]

Mpls

Living in the 952 area code PM me married women!