Todger65
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No, it was neither implied nor nessesery -- it was a different part of the belly (sides, not the middle, where the main surgery was, or the bottom, where was all the extra skin) and he made a point of saying that it was something extra he threw in to make me like my body better.
Your lasts sentence is the only reason I am even considering doing it as obviously he can't undo it for me. But I highly doubt he will understand what I am unhappy about. If he could, he would not do it in the first place.
It should have been a red flag when his most repeated phrase during the initial consultation was not what he was going to do, how, or why, but "you are going to love the result." The fact that I already loved the result and from the cosmetic standpoint wanted very minimal changes was kind of lost on him. Sure, what woman in her right mind could possibly like herself if she looks like me, right?
Sorry to say then, but he was the wrong surgeon for the job. Sound very like the old school. “No point in telling the patient what will happen as they won’t understand it, and I’ve been doing this long enough to know what a woman wants. You don’t know what you want until you see how good I can make you look afterwards.”
You were right red flags were waving but you probably weren’t really concentrating on that, just the surgical repair that was needed and causing you problems.