Sexless Marriages

My sex drive has never gone away, and the longer I go without, the worse it gets … I know the original "ban" was imposed for my indiscretions but given the opportunity I know I'm very likely to stray again!

Not staying has been very hard for me. I've yet to do so, then again, I do procrastinate sometimes. Lol
 
Just found this...

I'm in a similar situation... not completely sexless... but passionless... only occasional sex... but she's a pillow princess... no passion... no kissing... almost like a blow up doll... This seems like an interesting place to vent a little and chat...
 
I'm in a similar situation... not completely sexless... but passionless... only occasional sex... but she's a pillow princess... no passion... no kissing... almost like a blow up doll... This seems like an interesting place to vent a little and chat...

Welcome to group. Vent, talk, help, pout. We do it all
 
I'm in a similar situation... not completely sexless... but passionless... only occasional sex... but she's a pillow princess... no passion... no kissing... almost like a blow up doll... This seems like an interesting place to vent a little and chat...




Not sure we define pillow princess in the same way...
 
My sex drive has never gone away, and the longer I go without, the worse it gets … I know the original "ban" was imposed for my indiscretions but given the opportunity I know I'm very likely to stray again!



I intolectually understand why a partner would not want to have sex with them for cheating. But as far as a punishment or deterant it’s a really stupid method. Since for most people presumably the withholding of affection in the first place is why they cheated. It to me feels like someone saying, I’m going to punish you for going on a hunger strike, but starving you.
If the reason is I can’t stand to touch you now that you cheated ok that seems like one thing, but because I’m punishing you just doesn’t make sense to me. It sure makes it more likely that you would stray again. If you’re continuously going to be punished for it eventually your mind might be like well you know if I’m going to suffer constantly for it anyway I might as well go get a blow job and at least I’ll have that. But just some of my thoughts.
 
It's been a very, very long time now... not my choice. But he's a wonderful husband in every other way, including showing non-sexual affection, and I love him very much. As I grow older, I am very appreciative of what I have.
Huh! - so you've kind of given up (??)
 
Had to look that one up. Never heard of that term before. Interesting definition.

It's a different world with it's own language, so it is not surprising that you did not. Look at my userpic -- obviously roles are reversed there, she is no princess, but he might be quite a pillow prince.
 
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Don't know what happened, but I think the forums went nuts. I had to make a new account to get back in. Unless my wife changed my stuff again. Btw, this is ccs
 
I'm back

Thank goodness for back door entrances. Got my stuff back, but have to take longer route in.
 
Hey Sexless family... just sticking my head in to catch up and tell you all have a great weekend. I’d wish y’all lots of sex, but I’d hate the group to be wiped out if we all hold our breath waiting on some!

:rose:
 
Thank goodness for back door entrances. Got my stuff back, but have to take longer route in.

LOL!
I first read this post and was like WOW!!!, that sure was a change of pace. I guess congratulations are in order, no matter who's back door that was... But then I scrolled up and realised you were talking about your Lit account. Oops.
 
LOL!
I first read this post and was like WOW!!!, that sure was a change of pace. I guess congratulations are in order, no matter who's back door that was... But then I scrolled up and realised you were talking about your Lit account. Oops.

Backdoor play... now we’re getting interesting ;)
Please and thank you? :p
 
Hey Sexless family... just sticking my head in to catch up and tell you all have a great weekend. I’d wish y’all lots of sex, but I’d hate the group to be wiped out if we all hold our breath waiting on some!

:rose:

Online orgy count as sex?
 
LOL!
I first read this post and was like WOW!!!, that sure was a change of pace. I guess congratulations are in order, no matter who's back door that was... But then I scrolled up and realised you were talking about your Lit account. Oops.

Lol, got to log in to every section for some reason. I do like back door, front door, top door, as long as im doing the knocking. Got a whole new look for literotica on my phone.
 
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