Hello, World

I have posted this picture in the ABC thread and forgot to put it here.

And another take on badass Annie:

There is a lot of great stuff in those pics, the hot woman in a nipple bra and fishnets is a good start. The flogger is a nice touch and the boots are the unexpected bit of creativity. Anyone can be a Domme in spike heels. (One of my dozens of kinks is hiking boots).

Very nicely done Annie.
 
There is a lot of great stuff in those pics, the hot woman in a nipple bra and fishnets is a good start. The flogger is a nice touch and the boots are the unexpected bit of creativity. Anyone can be a Domme in spike heels. (One of my dozens of kinks is hiking boots).

Very nicely done Annie.

Thank you, Tan.
Crazy heels are good for taking pictures or for laying pretty in bed, but I would never ever attempt to use a crop or a flogger wearing them. I need to have a very sure footing so that I know exactly where my hit will land and stilettos are not a good choice for that.
 
Thank you, Tan.
Crazy heels are good for taking pictures or for laying pretty in bed, but I would never ever attempt to use a crop or a flogger wearing them. I need to have a very sure footing so that I know exactly where my hit will land and stilettos are not a good choice for that.

Hmm. Sexy and smart. :D
 
little bit of bitching

This thread was supposed to be about pictures, but I don't want to post this under Annie's name, so it will have to go here.

There is a new user here that is driving me mad :(
She posts on BDSM board and everything she posts is so much against what I think on whatever subject is at hand. I had to quit following couple of threads there because I can't argue with her and stay more or less civil, but as a result now if I open a thread there and see that she had commented (and probably subscribed), I more likely than not to close it and not say anything at all, even I do have something to say on the subject. Given that we have very similar interests, she happen to be in almost all the threads that catch my eye.

I don't now why I react to her this way, but I do. Pictures are fun and all, but my main reason of being on Lit boards is to talk to people, not just post pictures. And now i can't do that :( :mad: :confused:
 
Not the sexiest look, but this is me at the moment. The pretty little thing sticking out of my side takes a reading of blood sugar every 5 min and sends it to the receiver that is hanging on my chest. I need to wear this set-up for a full week and hopefully this will give my doctor enough data to confirm that my diabetes is indeed in remission.
 
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Not the sexiest look, but this is me at the moment. The pretty little thing sticking out of my side takes a reading of blood sugar every 5 min and sends it to the receiver that is hanging on my chest. I need to wear this set-up for a full week and hopefully this will give my doctor enough data to confirm that my diabetes is indeed in remission.

Hoping it turns out ok, diabetes sucks.
 
Hoping it turns out ok, diabetes sucks.

Thank you, Mike.

In my case it is not such a big deal by now. I was lucky to catch it early and stuck to the diet and exercise routine, so there was only one year of regularly pricking my fingers. I am one of those success stories they like to post on the sites of every new diet pill. But of course there are no magic pills, being scared of the consequences was a very good motivator on it's own.

Now it is more about figuring out if my test results are good because I eat right, or because I really can process carbs. But since I am not planning to change my diet, it does not really matter much.
 
Not the sexiest look, but this is me at the moment. The pretty little thing sticking out of my side takes a reading of blood sugar every 5 min and sends it to the receiver that is hanging on my chest. I need to wear this set-up for a full week and hopefully this will give my doctor enough data to confirm that my diabetes is indeed in remission.

Hope it works out for you the way you want.
 
Not the sexiest look, but this is me at the moment. The pretty little thing sticking out of my side takes a reading of blood sugar every 5 min and sends it to the receiver that is hanging on my chest. I need to wear this set-up for a full week and hopefully this will give my doctor enough data to confirm that my diabetes is indeed in remission.

I hope you get good news from it. Love those sexy breasts btw.
 
Not the sexiest look, but this is me at the moment. The pretty little thing sticking out of my side takes a reading of blood sugar every 5 min and sends it to the receiver that is hanging on my chest. I need to wear this set-up for a full week and hopefully this will give my doctor enough data to confirm that my diabetes is indeed in remission.

You've got to dress like that for a week? You're going to make lots of new friends :D

Best of luck Annie.
 
#metoo

A long rant on body image, consent, and the male dominated world.

As it is obvious from my pictures, I had a surgery. It was a massive abdominal hernia that needed to be fixed. When I talked to the surgent about it, we discussed how it all worked, what will go where inside of me, how long I will have to stay in the hospital, recovery time after that, etc.

For the diabetes management reasons by that time I lost about 80 lbs, which meant there was some extra skin on my belly. So, I asked the doctor to take care of that, since I was going under his knife anyway. "Sure, no problem", he said.

After the surgery, when I came to my one week check-up, he asked some questions, looked at the scar, and then pointed out two small marks on my sides: "This is where I did a little liposuction, when all the swelling goes down, you'll love the result."

It did not fully register at the moment as I was taking heavy pain meds, otherwise I could not walk yet, but in a few days, when the pain became more tolerable, I realised what he did. He changed me to make me look better!! Better according to who?! Did I ask for it? No. Did he tell me he was going to do it? No. But he had an idea of what an ideal woman should look like and all on his own decided to bring me a bit closer to that.

My weight loss was not the goal in itself, it was more of a side effect, but still I was rather proud of it. Proud that I did it and proud that I did on my own - no meds, no tricks, just diet and exercise. But he took that away from me. Now every time I look in the mirror I am left wandering what is the result of my efforts and what comes from him.

It is 9 months since surgery and next week I will have the final appointment with him. Should I tell him how I feel about what he did? That no matter what his intentions were, this was no less of a violation of my body than any other rape? That the fact that I was laying sedated and my belly was cut open on his operating table did not give him a right to do whatever he wanted?

Or there is no point as he will not understand a word of it?
For the warriors out there: I am not making any official complaints, have absolutely no interest in that.
 
I think a lot depends on what was said around the point of ‘taking care of the extra skin on your belly’.

I’m not saying you gave him carte blanche to do as he wished but he could have interpreted it that way. However, he should have explained what he intended to do and included the things that he may have to do to get the lay smooth or whatever the end result you wanted was. If he thought that liposuction would be on that list of possibilities then you should have been informed that it could happen.

Unfortunately there are still some doctors and surgeons who think they know what you want and decide there is no point in discussing it as that’s what will happen anyway. There are still a few anyway, that don’t like talking procedures with patients because, “what do you know about it anyway”

Sometimes ‘extras’ to what you have agreed to, become necessary once they get a look inside because of a specific medical need, but removing bits cosmetically without prior discussion, isn’t a medical necessity.

I think he needs to be informed, in the hope he will take it on board for future patients.
 
I think a lot depends on what was said around the point of ‘taking care of the extra skin on your belly’.

I’m not saying you gave him carte blanche to do as he wished but he could have interpreted it that way. However, he should have explained what he intended to do and included the things that he may have to do to get the lay smooth or whatever the end result you wanted was. If he thought that liposuction would be on that list of possibilities then you should have been informed that it could happen.

Unfortunately there are still some doctors and surgeons who think they know what you want and decide there is no point in discussing it as that’s what will happen anyway. There are still a few anyway, that don’t like talking procedures with patients because, “what do you know about it anyway”

Sometimes ‘extras’ to what you have agreed to, become necessary once they get a look inside because of a specific medical need, but removing bits cosmetically without prior discussion, isn’t a medical necessity.

I think he needs to be informed, in the hope he will take it on board for future patients.

No, it was neither implied nor nessesery -- it was a different part of the belly (sides, not the middle, where the main surgery was, or the bottom, where was all the extra skin) and he made a point of saying that it was something extra he threw in to make me like my body better.

Your lasts sentence is the only reason I am even considering doing it as obviously he can't undo it for me. But I highly doubt he will understand what I am unhappy about. If he could, he would not do it in the first place.

It should have been a red flag when his most repeated phrase during the initial consultation was not what he was going to do, how, or why, but "you are going to love the result." The fact that I already loved the result and from the cosmetic standpoint wanted very minimal changes was kind of lost on him. Sure, what woman in her right mind could possibly like herself if she looks like me, right?
 
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