Female-Led Relationships

I'd describe my wife as a "strong" woman. In daily life, she is fearlessly assertive sometimes bordering on controlling. But in bed, she hardly ever takes the initiative. It's a lovely surprise on the rare occasion when she does. On the other hand, she never shows any inclination to be a submissive
 
As I had posted earlier, my wife is also a beautiful, strong, successful, and gregarious woman who is the more active - I prefer this word to "dominant' - in our relationship.

But our marriage is very organic, in the sense that both contribute to each other within the framework of the fundamental dynamic.

I should also mention that I think it's a mistake to concentrate too much on the sexual aspect, as though there is a binary of only two dimensions viz. sex and not-sex. (Despite this being a Lit thread !!!).

There are many many many dimensions to such relationships, in my view. It's never a binary. Even within the purely sexual, there are many dimensions and shades. They wax and wane unceasingly.

Which is what the good life is all about, I guess. Embracing as much and as many experiences as possible, and unceasingly contributing in the process to other people.
 
As I had posted earlier, my wife is also a beautiful, strong, successful, and gregarious woman who is the more active - I prefer this word to "dominant' - in our relationship.

But our marriage is very organic, in the sense that both contribute to each other within the framework of the fundamental dynamic.

I should also mention that I think it's a mistake to concentrate too much on the sexual aspect, as though there is a binary of only two dimensions viz. sex and not-sex. (Despite this being a Lit thread !!!).

There are many many many dimensions to such relationships, in my view. It's never a binary. Even within the purely sexual, there are many dimensions and shades. They wax and wane unceasingly.

Which is what the good life is all about, I guess. Embracing as much and as many experiences as possible, and unceasingly contributing in the process to other people.

Thank you :rose:
 
my former partner is a very confident woman, it was the part of her personality that I loved the most. It fed into every part of both hers and our lives.
 
I don't have much to contribute apart from completely being in favour of playing second fiddle to a strong, assertive and confident woman who I'd love to please to Her heart's content.
 
Comments/PMs have been supportive, encouraging and appreciated.

Hopefully, if not immediately, the subject of this thread will plant a seed and generate sincere interest in the future.
 
Comments/PMs have been supportive, encouraging and appreciated.

Hopefully, if not immediately, the subject of this thread will plant a seed and generate sincere interest in the future.

Oh, Lady...there is serious sincere interest now, the dreams are never-ending. I think your lovely thread here is proof of that. There are many men, many 'manly' men, who would delight in a loving female-led relationship. We just need to keep talking about it and not let it degrade into abuse, that killer of loving care.
:rose::rose::rose:
:kiss:
 
Oh, Lady...there is serious sincere interest now, the dreams are never-ending. I think your lovely thread here is proof of that. There are many men, many 'manly' men, who would delight in a loving female-led relationship. We just need to keep talking about it and not let it degrade into abuse, that killer of loving care.
:rose::rose::rose:
:kiss:

Always so eloquent Kitschshaman :rose:
 
So many images portray the strong woman as one dressed in leather holding a whip or other tool...i was just using that as an example and agree with you!
For myself, I much prefer that a woman wears what is comfortable to her, be it leather or sweatpants! It is her confidence that is really hot :)

Shawn, my cub tells me a smart confident woman is sexy as fuck. And that I am sexyvaa fuck. I asked my husband and he didn't agree that I fit the description.
If anyone questions, that is why I have a cub.
LOL
 
Just finding this thread today, as a man who enjoys strong assertive women, it’s a wonderful read.
 
my wife leads our relationship we have been married 48 years and she has always been the one to make decisions she even decides what I wear as far as i'm concerned its the best thing that ever happened to me.
 
Always so eloquent Kitschshaman :rose:

You are too kind. My expression simply follows what's in my heart, that lovemaking and the expression of it here, should be as beautiful as we can make it. We should share with as much kindness and care as we can, no matter how unconventional the desires may be. After all, we are sharing such things as dreams are made of when we are at our most naked, our most vulnerable both physically and emotionally. The need to share in that way is the most powerful (and most secret) common thread of our humanity. There are those who do not share the secret places of their hearts even in the most private of intimacies, even though it is their most fervent wish, because of fear of being having their heart sliced and diced and burned to a crisp. That's a very real fear, especially if the desires (such as fem led relationships) are not as a rule admired in the very loud and generally crude society of ugly politics and reality shows. But there are such lovely enclaves, such as your thread here, where one can be open about those unconventional desires and be accepted, nay welcomed. It's a beautiful thing.
:rose::rose::rose:
 
You are too kind. My expression simply follows what's in my heart, that lovemaking and the expression of it here, should be as beautiful as we can make it. We should share with as much kindness and care as we can, no matter how unconventional the desires may be. After all, we are sharing such things as dreams are made of when we are at our most naked, our most vulnerable both physically and emotionally. The need to share in that way is the most powerful (and most secret) common thread of our humanity. There are those who do not share the secret places of their hearts even in the most private of intimacies, even though it is their most fervent wish, because of fear of being having their heart sliced and diced and burned to a crisp. That's a very real fear, especially if the desires (such as fem led relationships) are not as a rule admired in the very loud and generally crude society of ugly politics and reality shows. But there are such lovely enclaves, such as your thread here, where one can be open about those unconventional desires and be accepted, nay welcomed. It's a beautiful thing.
:rose::rose::rose:

Thank you ❤💜💜
 
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