Disability and sexual needs

[Jimmorison47]

Disability and sex – what is the extent of your disability and how do you deal with your sexual needs? Men and women, please relate.

I am confined to a wheelchair. I have no use of my left hand and limited use of my right hand. I live in a long-term care home.

I am allowed to have masturbation time. I need help to get started. Sometimes I'm successful, sometimes not.

I've had 3 occasions when staff completed my masturbation for me.

 

[LauraWilling]

I am very sorry for your situation. My passed husband lost a leg and in later life issues with it made it necessary to amputate the upper portion of that leg at the hip. As he got older he was confined to a wheel chair. He loved sharing me with others and watching, but I also masturbated him and gave him oral sex. I understand this would not work for you being in a long term care home. I sure wish I knew of something more to suggest as the desire for sexual release does not go away because of a disability. As we all know the mind is the most erotic organ in our bodies. I wish you well and hope some staff knows of something and is willing to help you get off when needed.

 

[Jimmorison47]

To be honest, your reply has aroused me. I find that opening and closing my legs pulls my condom catheter and creates an erection. I can also push my bottom and balls back and forth as I slide forward and backwards in my seat. I have not ejaculated yet. This way.

 

[Jcam1980s]

Apologies if this sounds to the point, but would you be able to be sat on a chair with no sides, and if possible have a woman lower onto your cock if you weren't in the care home?

 

[Jimmorison47]

Yes, she would be able to set on me. The arms of the chair would not be a bother. The foot rests on the chair are very strong so she could stand and turn and set. What an image!

 

[Jcam1980s]

Yes, she would be able to set on me. The arms of the chair would not be a bother. The foot rests on the chair are very strong so she could stand and turn and set. What an image!

Indeed!

 

[mba_25]

Where there is a will, there is a way!

 

[whynottommorrow]

Foreplay then a hand job followed by my wife jumping on at the end works for us.