I feel this is the best male audience to pose a question to.
Would a female led relationship appeal to you and, if so, what would it look like? I realize there are many variances to this particular theme and the 2 people involved can make it whatever they choose, but are there key components that would draw you to this particular dynamic?
My question extends beyond the sexual component, of course. Being a strong woman with a slightly "sub" man is nothing new of course...but I am not speaking of a D/s type interaction. Ordering someone around and expecting your bidding to be done without question isn't my thing. I prefer a much more cerebral, gentle dynamic where my strength isn't used to wield punishment, moreso guidance and nurturing.
Any of you out there currently enjoying such a dynamic? Hoping to or actively searching for such a thing? Would love to discuss the ins and outs and get a real life feel of how this manifests in your day-to-day lives.
As always, PM's are not only welcome, but encouraged
This is complicated, because as mentioned there are several types of Female Led relationships, and not all of them are what you might first think of. There are several relationships that devolve into a FLR when the female partner becomes domineering, condescending, vindictive and manipulative in a bad way- and the male partner did not sign up for that. There is no joy in such an arrangement, and sadly, I have known a few friends/acquaintences whose relationships ended up like this. It was not a happy or fulfilling relationship for either of them.
But then, there are loving relationships based on mutual respect where the husband/boyfriend submits to the female partner willingly because he trusts her judgement, strength, and life experience, and admires her for her dominant traits. There is far less vindictiveness or petty manipulation in these type of relationships. Sometimes, but not necessarily, there may even be some type of kink play involving the usual female domination fantasies you read about in this forum. Sadly, this type of female led relationship seems to be quite rare, or at least, far less common than the first type. And even still, the loving, respecting, caring Female Led Relationship is still far more likely to be "vanilla" in the bedroom (as in, no kink or femdom fetish type play) than not. Which is fine; I suspect this may be what you are talking about.
I obviously would prefer this type of FLR, but lets just say...I wouldn't mind a little kink now and again. Although, it would have to be the right chemistry between both of us- because I would not want to be in a joyless relationship like the first type I described.
