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Open question for everyone. How do you plan to celebrate Valentine’s Day in your sexless marriage?
 
Pelau1956 said:
I have the same issue as well. Although I am older than you, I still wish to have sex. I'm not talking about a lot of sex, maybe once a week would make me happy.
My wife has absolutely no interest in sex in any way at all. She won't even change in front of me anymore.
She in 57 and has gone through menopause, but even before that we were not hot sex machines.
I had prostate cancer when I turned 50 and as a result have ED. But I use to give her oral where she'd cum every time. But she seems not to care about that anymore!
Its a sad situation!!!!!!
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so what have you decided to do about not having sex?
 
However, we were one of the lucky couples and it didn't curb her desire, nor ability for full sexual expressions of our love and intimacy....And I held her as she cried and tried to reassure her that she was still a woman, that she was still THE woman for me.
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As someone coming from your wife's side of the coin, I understand this completely. These words, are touching, poignant, and oh, so familiar.

My condolences on your loss.
 
Yerkiddin said:
I had a talk with my counselor about our marriage, and her suggestion was to shake things up and see what happened. We're now looking at maybe opening our marriage a bit. She was able to have fun with a bf without me getting jealous, so we're waiting on me to have fun with a gf to make sure she doesn't come unglued at that before we go public.
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I hope things continue to progress for you and it all works out! Seems like you both are being truly honest with one another and have a willingness to explore and experiment!

It seems that in situations like this, the main thing to remember, even when you are connecting with a gf and she with a bf separate from one another, is that ultimately it is about your marriage, your relationship with one another.

Good luck!
 
Lost_Yonder said:
I hope things continue to progress for you and it all works out! Seems like you both are being truly honest with one another and have a willingness to explore and experiment!

It seems that in situations like this, the main thing to remember, even when you are connecting with a gf and she with a bf separate from one another, is that ultimately it is about your marriage, your relationship with one another.

Good luck!
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It does kinda blow my mind. She was a virgin when we met, and hadn't been intimate with anyone else. A friend of ours actually typed that he wanted her to peg him, but didn't think I would allow that. She was interested, so we set up boundaries and she gave it a shot. They had fun, and I was able to be around them after without getting jealous. If I can have a date with another woman without her having issues, we plan to go openly poly with our marriage. The current issue is that I didn't start this with anyone lined up. There is a woman interested, but not yet available, and while I don't think she'll be jealous of my wife or my wife jealous of her, this potential-but-not-yet-available gf would veto anyone other than my wife. (Poly can get confusing *quickly*!)

Since starting this, my wife and I are closer. It is really bizarre to have a conversation with your spouse about your outside partners.
 
Yerkiddin said:
It does kinda blow my mind. She was a virgin when we met, and hadn't been intimate with anyone else. A friend of ours actually typed that he wanted her to peg him, but didn't think I would allow that. She was interested, so we set up boundaries and she gave it a shot. They had fun, and I was able to be around them after without getting jealous. If I can have a date with another woman without her having issues, we plan to go openly poly with our marriage. The current issue is that I didn't start this with anyone lined up. There is a woman interested, but not yet available, and while I don't think she'll be jealous of my wife or my wife jealous of her, this potential-but-not-yet-available gf would veto anyone other than my wife. (Poly can get confusing *quickly*!)

Since starting this, my wife and I are closer. It is really bizarre to have a conversation with your spouse about your outside partners.
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To me, it seems so much more natural than monogamy - which is quite un-human if you really think about it. Not to mention it doesn't really serve any purpose any more, particularly given it's primary purpose is to control and limit the sexuality of women to protect and guarantee pure-blood progeny of men...
 
photobuff56 said:
It's a work day for me so I will be working, perhaps a card and flowers.
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Me too. I just find it so difficult. Valentines is all about love and passion and eroticism but that is just completely missing in my marriage. Just picking out a card can feel like a stab in the heart.
 
IASFPWTF said:
Is it just me or has this gone kind of weird as of late?
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If you are talking about the idiot that posts the same thing in every thread he can find, hopefully he will either get bored and go away, or will start talking like a normal person. I am not sure he can do it, but there is some hope -- all caps in his signature are gone, he figured out that truth or dare is only one specific thread, not the whole Lit. Maybe in another month or two he will understand the rest of it too :)
 
IASFPWTF said:
Is it just me or has this gone kind of weird as of late?
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Define weird. I can't talk about sex or foreplay, not getting allowed to have either.lol the weirdo is blocked on my end so i don't see what it's typing.

Has anyone heard from brits??? New year, wondering if she a new Canadian yet.
 
Close but denied again

Got to touch a little boob this morning!!! Then got hand slapped away. Oh well, perhaps another day. Lol
 
AnnieLit said:
If you are talking about the idiot that posts the same thing in every thread he can find, hopefully he will either get bored and go away, or will start talking like a normal person. I am not sure he can do it, but there is some hope -- all caps in his signature are gone, he figured out that truth or dare is only one specific thread, not the whole Lit. Maybe in another month or two he will understand the rest of it too :)
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Feel like this is directed at me. Sorry if I offended
 
Mtnmike said:
At least you got a touch lol.
I'm not allowed to touch or even see her without clothes. :(
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My wife doesn't like to be seen without clothes, but I find her nudity sexy. She just sees a fat body. Hardly ever goes without a bra in the house, even after kid is in bed
 
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