Does it make her really upset?

[carnal47]

When a guy shows lack of intelligence or wisdom does it make the girl that likes him a lot, very upset?

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Women are not all identical...we are different people with differing desires and preferences.

 

[carnal47]

Women are not all identical...we are different people with differing desires and preferences.

but are there women who do get upset with the guy they like for his lack of intellect or common sense?

 

[PapaDan]

but are there women who do get upset with the guy they like for his lack of intellect or common sense?

I think the answer to that would be: nobody likes a dumbass, particularly a woman.

 

[Nezhul]

When a guy shows lack of intelligence or wisdom does it make the girl that likes him a lot, very upset?

Depends on a girl.
Some of them really like smart men. Others are prepared to ignore certain level of childishness.
It will also depend on a level of stupidity and how it affects her or reflects on her. If she gets hurt in any way because of it - she'll be more upset. And by "hurt" I also mean stuff like embarrassment.

I don't think it depends on gender as it depends on a person. So I think you should ask the girl herself that question.

All I can say that NOT acting stupid or unwise - is the safest bet. You don't meet a lot of people who get upset about THAT (unless you act like a smart-ass and ruin their fun)

 

[Conager]

but are there women who do get upset with the guy they like for his lack of intellect or common sense?

If she "likes" him (and is otherwise bright) she will imagine he is brighter than he actually is. If she is none too bright, she probably cannot discern that he isn't.

We all filter with rose-colored glasses to be able to tolerate the foibles of whomever we have settled for.

I think the answer to that would be: nobody likes a dumbass, particularly a woman.

Darwinian Evolution says you are wrong. Human beings are getting dumber, not smarter, so obviously plenty-o-women are enthusiastically having unprotected sex with dumb men.

It goes without saying that lots of men will engage in sexual congress with a dumb woman.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

but are there women who do get upset with the guy they like for his lack of intellect or common sense?

Probably... * I don’t know and can’t speak for all women, which is why I answered that women are different.

 

[Dandum1570]

Let's put it this way. Be thankful you are young and fit. At least you have that going for you....

 

[NightL]

I thought we had been all through this with your "Do I still have to have a real conversation with her?" thread.

After looking at your post history here I am curious as to what area of her body you were looking at when you spoke to her and what exactly you said?

 

[Jada59]

Alot isn't a word so your post makes me very upset. We all do idiotic things sometimes. I can excuse things sometimes. But if he's a true Dimbo Wally, then I won't like him to begin with.

 

[Maureen01]

In my own experience, if I really like a man a lot, I tend not to see it at first if he's lacking in intelligence or wisdom. That realization usually rises to the surface only later, after repeated indications of it. When it finally does, though, yes, it does take the glow off the relationship, and usually leads to it's demise.

 

[PapaDan]

After thinking about, when it comes to intellect and wisdom in a man, I wonder if there are women out there who prefer a walking dildo they don't have to talk to?

What does a woman want in a man today? A man she can use for sex, or a man she can carry on a conversation with? Both?

 

[juttjaw]

I've known a few stupid people to be very aware of their lack of intelligence. In my book, that makes them intelligent. Some douche bag, acting like an idio,t is a totally different bag of cats.

 

[Athalia]

I'm not sure what you're asking. When the woman finds him in such a way, is she upset at him for being that way, or upset at herself for cottoning to him?

I've found men who are charming despite being dumber than a box of rocks. I'm never upset at them, because that would mean that I've wanted them to conform to some sort of expectation that I have.

I have wondered "What did I ever see in him?" once I was away from him and his charm wore off. But I wasn't really down on myself for that. I think that I would be that way only if he were dead set on passing himself off as somebody he's not. That's dishonesty, and it always upsets me.

Is that clear enough?

 

[Sugartitties]

For me, there needs to be a meeting of the minds as far as intellect is concerned. I find intelligent conversation to be very stimulating, but I do not appreciate condescending attitudes from men who automatically assume they are intellectually superior....huge turn off.

 

[Notmyfirsttimehere]

Honestly, an attraction to a woman’s mind is a necessity for me. I have never been a wham, bam, thank you ma’am kind of guy. I want the conversation. I want to know about your day. I want to know your hopes, dreams, and fantasies. I think that kind of connection builds a level of comfort and trust. And trust, real trust, is the basis for a lasting bond and amazing sex that can go along with it.

I know that I gave a man’s perspective, but I would expect the same from a woman.

 

[AutumnBennett]

When a guy shows lack of intelligence or wisdom does it make the girl that likes him a lot, very upset?

Everyone can be intelligent in their own way. Not being smart in one way or subject could be more of an issue of connection versus someone actually getting upset over a lack of intelligence. Now a lack of common sense could be irritating to deal with.