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Not sure why. The excuse is she just doesn’t like sex anymore since a few years after our last kid. First it was “it hurts”. Then it was “I just have no desire”. So I pretty much gave up trying. I mean I think she really doesn’t even like me anymore. No hugs, no kisses, nothing. In fact, the less I engage the happier she seems to be.
I pretty mature, nice way of saying old, but I still love life, thinking of an adventure to check out, musuc, cooking, travel, art, and of course Navy Football.

So now I wonder if there might be someone interested in getting to know me?
 
Mackattack57 said:
Not sure why. The excuse is she just doesn’t like sex anymore since a few years after our last kid. First it was “it hurts”. Then it was “I just have no desire”. So I pretty much gave up trying. I mean I think she really doesn’t even like me anymore. No hugs, no kisses, nothing. In fact, the less I engage the happier she seems to be.
I pretty mature, nice way of saying old, but I still love life, thinking of an adventure to check out, musuc, cooking, travel, art, and of course Navy Football.

So now I wonder if there might be someone interested in getting to know me?
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Wishing you luck in your search.
I'm in a very similar situation and it's been tough to find anyone.
 
Mackattack57 said:
Not sure why. The excuse is she just doesn’t like sex anymore since a few years after our last kid. First it was “it hurts”. Then it was “I just have no desire”. So I pretty much gave up trying. I mean I think she really doesn’t even like me anymore. No hugs, no kisses, nothing. In fact, the less I engage the happier she seems to be.
I pretty mature, nice way of saying old, but I still love life, thinking of an adventure to check out, musuc, cooking, travel, art, and of course Navy Football.

So now I wonder if there might be someone interested in getting to know me?
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Pretty much in the same boat. Thank goodness for Lit! I'm here if you want to talk. Hope you find a sympatico lady.
 
Pretty much came along with the abuse. Over time, we went to once or twice a month to nothing. If I didn’t approach her, I must be cheating and I didn’t want her; if I did approach her, I was an idiot for wanting to have sex with her. It was easier to do nothing if it meant the same result. Finally, I said fuck it. While I may never find another partner as a divorced man, I knew things were never going to get better. So, I am now free.
 
shorthappylife said:
Pretty much came along with the abuse. Over time, we went to once or twice a month to nothing. If I didn’t approach her, I must be cheating and I didn’t want her; if I did approach her, I was an idiot for wanting to have sex with her. It was easier to do nothing if it meant the same result. Finally, I said fuck it. While I may never find another partner as a divorced man, I knew things were never going to get better. So, I am now free.
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down the line you will find a good lady!trust me!
 
Sex and Lack of it, all screwed up

I'm an older guy who still has an interest, however, age has started to turn against me and I can no longer perform to ED. My situation has come about by an Enlarged Prostate and the medication I have to take which has diminished my libido.

This doesn't need to stop sexual activity but in my case it has. My wife is no longer interested and my life is a drudge.

I used to have a very high sex drive and in the 20-40 age liked sex 3 times a day, then 50 - 60 once a day and after 65 about 2 or 3 times a week. My problem began when the prostate medication was needed at 72. and I gradually lost my desire to fuck. This suited my wife as she was uninterested in anything sexual and was far more interested in religion and family, kids,/ grandkids. We used to always go to bed nude and then she started putting on her suit of armor eg nickers "T" shirts.

We also used to enjoy MFM and this was hit on the head also. My wife still has a sexy figure, small, thin and sexy but it all seems a waste of time. I have encouraged her to find another stud in the hope it may rekindle her interest but she will have none of it. So at 78 I join the sexless club of people who live without the joy of erotic action! Help!
 
Ray Roberts said:
I'm an older guy who still has an interest, however, age has started to turn against me and I can no longer perform to ED. My situation has come about by an Enlarged Prostate and the medication I have to take which has diminished my libido.

This doesn't need to stop sexual activity but in my case it has. My wife is no longer interested and my life is a drudge.

I used to have a very high sex drive and in the 20-40 age liked sex 3 times a day, then 50 - 60 once a day and after 65 about 2 or 3 times a week. My problem began when the prostate medication was needed at 72. and I gradually lost my desire to fuck. This suited my wife as she was uninterested in anything sexual and was far more interested in religion and family, kids,/ grandkids. We used to always go to bed nude and then she started putting on her suit of armor eg nickers "T" shirts.

We also used to enjoy MFM and this was hit on the head also. My wife still has a sexy figure, small, thin and sexy but it all seems a waste of time. I have encouraged her to find another stud in the hope it may rekindle her interest but she will have none of it. So at 78 I join the sexless club of people who live without the joy of erotic action! Help!
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no disrespect to you, but if she don’t want you , find someone else, even younger!
 
slowandeasy103a said:
Thanks Ccs. Bach atcha' and to everyone else

Well, this is my 1st post and I'm in a sexless marriage myself. My wife is 9 years my senior and ever since menopause she's lost her libido and to make matters worse, intercourse is no longer possible for her due to extreme discomfort.
I'm a highly sexual individual. I fantasize and masturbate almost daily. My poor wife feels completely inadequate and appologizes way too often for this problem.
At first, i tried everything that I could think of to get her interested in sex but after more than 10 years of being shot down ive kinda' given up.
We love each other dearly and we take good care of each other in virtually every other way that a couple should.
She's given me the green light to get a girlfriend with the stipulation that she not know about it. I simply cannot allow myself to be so selfish as to take her up on her offer. I know that once I cross that line, I'd feel unworthy of her trust, her love and her respect. I need to feel deserving of the love that she feels for me. For me, if I had a sexual relationship with another woman I'd quickly develop feelings which would really interfere with my marriage.
On the other hand, I'm very bi curious and Ive come close to having sex with other men but I always stop myself. I don't see myself having romantic feelings for a man. Its a lust for cock and cum. As a matter of fact , the glory hole scene is very appealing to me because I don't have to put a face on the cock.
So my resolution is to keep jerking off and to stay faithful to my marriage unless something falls into my lap so to speak. I wish I could say that I was gonna suck some cock but it's probably never gonna' happen.
Sucks.....or should I say, doesn't suck....
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just get you some cock...lol
 
DADDYLOVER3 said:
down the line you will find a good lady!trust me!
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DADDYLOVER3 said:
no disrespect to you, but if she don’t want you , find someone else, even younger!
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DADDYLOVER3 said:
you can always let her watch you have sex with the other girl, she might enjoyed it and get comfortable and get naked and touch herself!
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I'm wondering - are you in a sexless marriage yourself? If not, and based on your posting history I assume you aren't, why are you posting such utterly unengaged, unreflective nonsense???
 
So close,still so far

Was laying in bed get ready to go to sleep when i rolled over and started caressing wife's breast. She was reading a book asst the time. I was able to get a handful and hold it. I took my other hand and rubbed her butt, but as soon as i slid my hand into her pj, she knocked my hand away and said stop.

I get to play,massage, feel for about 6 to 7 minutes and get shut down like a switch. Just another week of frustration.
 
ccs29745 said:
Was laying in bed get ready to go to sleep when i rolled over and started caressing wife's breast. She was reading a book asst the time. I was able to get a handful and hold it. I took my other hand and rubbed her butt, but as soon as i slid my hand into her pj, she knocked my hand away and said stop.

I get to play,massage, feel for about 6 to 7 minutes and get shut down like a switch. Just another week of frustration.
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if she don’t want to play than go find someone who will!
 
ccs29745 said:
Was laying in bed get ready to go to sleep when i rolled over and started caressing wife's breast. She was reading a book asst the time. I was able to get a handful and hold it. I took my other hand and rubbed her butt, but as soon as i slid my hand into her pj, she knocked my hand away and said stop.

I get to play,massage, feel for about 6 to 7 minutes and get shut down like a switch. Just another week of frustration.
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That's torture on her part. Do you ever wank openly after she does that and use her pj-ed arse to mop it up? Just an idea .
 
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