Private Messages

[Blackandstrong]

I admire the patience of all the women on here who must receive thousands of random PMs from often barely literate guys . I am starting to get a few and it is somewhat annoying. Presumably there is some way I can block them?

 

[5by5]

You can turn off pms as well as blocking the individual guys, there's an option on their profile to add them to your ignore list and then delete their pms, or go to options and untick 'enable private messenging' - sometimes it's just easier that way.

 

[Bramblethorn]

If only there was a way to set up a shared blocklist for creepy PM dudes.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Do you have your account set to invisible mode? That typically stops most of them. Seems many of the mouth-breather PMs come from men who just spam the female sounding usernames on the currently online list.

 

[Lothario1956]

Do you have your account set to invisible mode? That typically stops most of them. Seems many of the mouth-breather PMs come from men who just spam the female sounding usernames on the currently online list.

Invisible works well...as does setting to receive PMs only from those on your buddy list.

 

[Blackandstrong]

Do you have your account set to invisible mode? That typically stops most of them. Seems many of the mouth-breather PMs come from men who just spam the female sounding usernames on the currently online list.

Thanks I think I will do that. It tends to be guys with cuckold-type fantasies who spam me.

 

[Blackandstrong]

Your posting history show you to be both a dominant male and a submissive female.

If I correct you on that, will you have the good grace to apologise? Your call.

 

[Blackandstrong]

If I correct you on that, will you have the good grace to apologise? Your call.

Taps fingers waiting...

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Thanks I think I will do that. It tends to be guys with cuckold-type fantasies who spam me.

There’s no rhyme or reason. I think so many of these creepy guys just send PMs in mass quantities hoping for a response. I can’t imagine they get many responses; I’ve often wondered if they get off thinking about people just reading the message.

Your posting history show you to be both a dominant male and a submissive female.

I just scrolled through and don’t see this at all.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Invisible works well...as does setting to receive PMs only from those on your buddy list.

Sure, but that doesn’t really work for people trying to meet people.

 

[Sexpress0]

I've had a fair mix of PMs. A few good eggs but they seem to be flakey responding sometimes. Of course, so am I.

 

[Blackandstrong]

There’s no rhyme or reason. I think so many of these creepy guys just send PMs in mass quantities hoping for a response. I can’t imagine they get many responses; I’ve often wondered if they get off thinking about people just reading the message.



I just scrolled through and don’t see this at all.

It was quite a bizarre “fuck off the forum” post for two reasons. Firstly, I have absolutely no idea where the poster thought I had posted as a submissive female - and neither have you or anyone else by the sounds of it. The second slightly more interesting question is what if I had actually posted both as a Dominant male and a submissive female. It is perfectly possible to be legitimately both if you are gender fluid and shouldn’t this forum be a place where diversity such as that is welcomed rather than pitchfork posters trying to ostracise such individuals?