Online infidelity

[Fleurdelille]

I find myself back here fighting the same old urges. Trying to be a good husband, father, finding myself struggling to avoid the urge to flirt with other men’s wives. Drawn to the idea of seducing her, knocking her up, making her addicted to my touch. I would come over when her husband is away, I would keep send her inapproproate messages when she is busy at work or with her family, getting her all hot and bothered. Any like-minded wife out there struggling with similar urges? Are you feeling naughty? Hit me up

 

[NaughtyAmazon]

It's definitely something I crave, though I gave up fighting it

 

[coppaJChristo]

Isn’t it nice when we know ourselves

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

met many of those types of men lol

 

[Fleurdelille]

Getting more and more obsessed with this fantasy. I had the chance to indulge in it recently, ended by ravaging her with in her marital bed with her husband on a business weekend. Still makes me hard reimagining exploding inside her

 

[seeshelly]

Help your wife

Help your wife get past any sex hangups and start sharing her. Try some swinging. There is no reason to do things or even WANT things behind her back. I believe that most wives would consider being shared if it was presented the way my husband presented it. You feel like you do because by nature you crave sexual variety. Well, we do too. It is just that male dominated societies have spent thousands of years stifling female sexuality and making women feel cheap, dirty and nasty for enjoying sexual variety. The so called 'hotwife' experience is growing in popularity for a reason and in time I think it would become mainstream. It opens the door to swinging and all kinds of fun that most couples are missing out on.

 

[Fleurdelille]

Anyone feeling playful this morning / late night?

 

[Jacques_Corbin]

Help your wife get past any sex hangups and start sharing her. Try some swinging. There is no reason to do things or even WANT things behind her back. I believe that most wives would consider being shared if it was presented the way my husband presented it. You feel like you do because by nature you crave sexual variety. Well, we do too. It is just that male dominated societies have spent thousands of years stifling female sexuality and making women feel cheap, dirty and nasty for enjoying sexual variety. The so called 'hotwife' experience is growing in popularity for a reason and in time I think it would become mainstream. It opens the door to swinging and all kinds of fun that most couples are missing out on.

Actually, what makes swinging and sharing and the hotwife lifestyle possible is the advent of modern contraception. In ancient times, monogamy was developed for various reasons. One, they started noticing that incest and inbreeding caused children to be born with various conditions, and susceptible to infections and diseases they normally would not be. It used to be all to common for the Alpha male to fuck every woman in that territory, and impregnate most all of them. While it made the next generation or 2 strong, eventually it was discovered that as the population in that area became more inbred, there were health problems.

The second reason was for property ownership. Your family owned a mill, a farm, cattle, a mine, etc, you NEED clear linear descendants to pass that on to when you die. Polyamory, without birth control, throws that entire system of inheritance into disarray.

So, while those were the two main factors, women have historically bore more of the blame and burden. However, in modern times, in civilized nations, we are free to enjoy ourselves responsibly. However, some cultures we let into our nations bring archaic and brutal practices to oppress women with them. Some of the men from those groups form rape gangs, some cultures still perform female circumcision (removal of the clitoris), and there are entirely too many "missing" or "accidental deaths" young Arab women as a result of honor killings. Strange how you never hear feminists or SJWs decry any of that, or march and protest, or block intersections over that. Dumping bleach water on a guy who is "man-spreading" on a subway bench trying to relax after a hard day at work is easy, and bears little consequences, but gives a satisfied feeling. Standing up to, and demanding accountability from groups that enslave, rape, mutilate, and kill women, is much more dangerous, which is why it is rarely ever done. That, and often those groups are politically sympathetic, and/or wealthy enough to make large contributions to politicians.

It's just like when the animal rights groups started up years ago. Fur was a target before leather was. If you throw red paint on a rich old white lady in an expensive fur coat, she will scream and call for the cops, and threaten to sue. But, what happens if you throw red paint on a burly, leather-clad biker? You will get a very different result. Same thing. That is why the W in SJW offends me so much, because they only "fight" for their "convictions" when there is very little chance of reprisals, or when they can hide behind masks like criminals or terrorists. Not like the many wonderful men and women who proudly wore a uniform, and honorably served their country. Like I did in the US Army, and like many other heroes did in their nation's military, police, firefighters, and emergency medical professionals.

Sorry for the slightly off topic rant. Chilly, rainy weather yesterday, and I could not help noticing as I drove by Planned Parenthood, that their were no protesters. I guess some folks only have convictions when the weather is nice...

 

[Fleurdelille]

Bringing back the previous thread back to life. Back yet again, with the same things drawing my interest. Anyone up for a chat?

 

[IsItBad]

give in

sadly i have to support the position of just giving in and doing whatever it is you want to do.....
having been married for 35 years....what i can definitely report is....a person is not very likely to change how they really are....
most marriages are unequally matched in sexuality....
one or the other may cave and do things to satisfy the other
but eventually that becomes less satisfying as well
what a person most wants is to be wanted....to be needed.....to be craved....to be loved on every imaginable way ...from a place of pure love
that is so much different than....here....you can do x or y now......as if its a gift because you changed her oil or bought a new dining room set or something

so, my friend....just go and do whatever it is you need and want....you will be no less guilty for having done it ....than for lusting for it and fantasizing about it...******** all the time.....

obviously i am a fan of online....and have had many online liaisons over the years....some of which turned into real like affairs....

but....the conclusion is...***** is short.....there are no guarantees....and if you have been married any time at all you are fully aware of what your wife really thinks and feels about sexual things.....

just my 2 cents

 

[MarriedDsCouple]

Question for you related to this,...is it the secret behind her back that turns you on most? How would you react if it is consensual? Would something be lost? What about affairs- behind her back or something that she knows about and you share? I am having a crisis in my own situation right now and trying to understand. thanks

 

[NEOhio1972]

Question for you related to this,...is it the secret behind her back that turns you on most? How would you react if it is consensual? Would something be lost? What about affairs- behind her back or something that she knows about and you share? I am having a crisis in my own situation right now and trying to understand. thanks

I like is it bads post- and I will answer this.

There is definitely the excitement of behind her back. and that applies with affairs as well. It is part of the whole exciting thing. there would be something lost if it were consensual- I can admit it.

But there is some excitement and fun to be had in living life to its fullest. Take the dare. Do what feels Great!! Experience the thrill- on line or in an affair!!.... just don't get caught....lol

 

[Fleurdelille]

Question for you related to this,...is it the secret behind her back that turns you on most? How would you react if it is consensual? Would something be lost? What about affairs- behind her back or something that she knows about and you share? I am having a crisis in my own situation right now and trying to understand. thanks

For me it's more about claiming someone elses woman then going behind my own's back. I think it's extremely subjective though, for me, yes I think something would be lost if it was consensual but I know plenty of people that feels otherwise.

 

[Fleurdelille]

Honestly I think I have found my muse. Still don't mind chatting with others, but I think I got the needs covered quite well now

 

[Fleurdelille]

I was going to start a new thread until I realised that I'm looking for exactly the same thing now as back then. Anyone interested? Any lonely wife out there looking for some lovin?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

It’s the seduction....

 

[Ray Roberts]

Take everything that is on offer!

Hey, some really great opinions on m/f interaction and all I can add to that discussion is take what you can get when you get the chance.
When I was in my late 20's I was at a party with my wife and the hosts had a daughter who was a newly married model down for the weekend and party. Her husband was a journalist and stayed in London. I had a few dances with her and she was all over me which took me by surprise. About an hour later at midnight, my wife came up to me and asked a favour, would I take this girl back to the house she was staying at because she was not feeling well. I was only too pleased to help, she invited me in for coffee and I luckily knew how to work the machine. Then she left the kitchen, I'm not sure why but she came back into the room with the words "come and get me" I was gobsmacked and froze, this beautiful naked woman was standing there in her high heels and nothing else, beckoning me into the bedroom. I stupidly said I can't do this and turned to go, she was furious and started to hurl plates cups and anything else she could get her hands-on, so I cowered down to protect myself and ran out of the house. She remained at the front door still starkers shouting foul-mouthed insults at me as I drove away.

To make matter worse I returned to the party and later told the wife what had happened, christ was I young and dumb in those days. They met in the street the next day and ended up in a shouting match and physically slapping each other and pulling hair. My wife was an Irish red-head and easily won the battle. I, on the other hand, lived my life wishing I had not been so bloody stupid and taken what was on offer. Beware a "woman scorned" they can't cope with rejection! And never ever tell the wife especially if they are prone to jealousy.

 

[tnh_06]

Hey, some really great opinions on m/f interaction and all I can add to that discussion is take what you can get when you get the chance.
When I was in my late 20's I was at a party with my wife and the hosts had a daughter who was a newly married model down for the weekend and party. Her husband was a journalist and stayed in London. I had a few dances with her and she was all over me which took me by surprise. About an hour later at midnight, my wife came up to me and asked a favour, would I take this girl back to the house she was staying at because she was not feeling well. I was only too pleased to help, she invited me in for coffee and I luckily knew how to work the machine. Then she left the kitchen, I'm not sure why but she came back into the room with the words "come and get me" I was gobsmacked and froze, this beautiful naked woman was standing there in her high heels and nothing else, beckoning me into the bedroom. I stupidly said I can't do this and turned to go, she was furious and started to hurl plates cups and anything else she could get her hands-on, so I cowered down to protect myself and ran out of the house. She remained at the front door still starkers shouting foul-mouthed insults at me as I drove away.

To make matter worse I returned to the party and later told the wife what had happened, christ was I young and dumb in those days. They met in the street the next day and ended up in a shouting match and physically slapping each other and pulling hair. My wife was an Irish red-head and easily won the battle. I, on the other hand, lived my life wishing I had not been so bloody stupid and taken what was on offer. Beware a "woman scorned" they can't cope with rejection! And never ever tell the wife especially if they are prone to jealousy.

IMO you dodged a bullet, that little hottie would have haunted you until the end of your marriage, then your bank account!

It occurs to me that thoughts such as this may be why I don’t get laid outside my marriage lol

 

[Ray Roberts]

My comment refers to a long time ago

From your post "interests" I can see we have much in common, apart from the working out a bit. So I assume from your "It occurs to me that thoughts such as this may be why I don’t get laid outside my marriage lol" underpinned by "Everyone lies" is a tongue-in-cheek response and a dig at money-orientated females.

Personally from the above true story, I have moved on, been married three times have many children and even more grandchildren. I also have had many enjoyable fleeting sexual encounters. Currently, I have been with my present wife for 42 years and for much of that time enjoyed "wife sharing" MFM liaisons. I personally like the thrill of including others and it has worked out for us. Straight vanilla sex is not for me and my wife has indulged my tastes over the years.

You and I are the same height, although I am probably thinner, I have been blessed with good looks (I was always being told I could be a stand-in for Gregory Peck) However, having peaked at your profile I could never compete with your cock, your attribute is a picture of perfection that would have wooed many. So I hope you have taken advantage of your asset and shared yourself around!

 

[Fleurdelille]

Any wife out there feeling lonely tonight?

 

[Fleurdelille]

I was going to post a new thread but the words from my original post here ring so true this time too. Anyone interested in a chat ?