Guy seeking True Romance (and yes, some kink) in Northeast PA

RudyGardet

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Guy seeking True Romance (and yes, some kink)

I’m a dominant type, but don’t claim to be a ‘capital D’ Dom. That's mostly my resistance to labels and that it seems like a lot of dudes think that 'Dom' is just a sexier word for asshole and that's not me. Plus it sounds so serious and while I do take the lifestyle seriously, I also try not to take myself too seriously and it's extremely important to have fun along the way. Daddy Dom is probably closer because there is a huge caring component to the most powerful relationships I've had.

I prefer women who are real and strong enough to accept and embrace their inner desires. Women that are smart, imaginative, personable, and will laugh at my bad jokes. I’m educated, professional and relatively successful, but I’m not a snob and I can’t stand pretentious people. I’m a sexy motherfucker, charming as the devil, will make you wet with my worlds and melt with my touch. I’m also very humble 😊.

I know it’s a longshot in this fucked up world, but I’m not giving up on the possibility of finding love and kink together so I’m throwing this out there. I do have high standards because I’m looking for something real, but I’m open minded. My kinks don’t define me as I believe that my sexual nature is constantly evolving, and sometimes life and love isn’t about finding the absolute perfect match, but rather finding that person who you connect with well enough that even the places you don’t align become areas for opportunity, growth, and awesome conversation.

Real world would be amazing, so if this catches your eye and you live anywhere near Pennsylvania, who knows what might happen. But I also know how powerful online relationships can sometimes be so I'm open to that as well.
 
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Thanks a lot UgliestSon, that was supposed to be a reference that that special woman out there with good taste is 90s sexy crazy romantic movies would get. She was going to see my post someday and wonder if that was just the wording I happened to choose or if maybe I meant that movie that made her all hot for a slightly crazy Christian Slater in her teens. The thought would have bugged her until she just had to know and sent me the message that would be the start of our own True Romance (hopefully without all the death and violence).

But noooooooooo. You had to go and ruin it for everyone. Now I won't know if the dozens of messages that will come pouring in any minute now claiming to know and love the film will be my Cinderella with the perfect fit or her phony stepsisters trying to force a false match. Thanks a lot man...

(to be clear I'm being facetious,I'm just glad someone got it!)
 
I’m recently single for the first time in 20 years and I’m looking for an actual real world relationship, preferable relatively local, so I’m posting this in several of the Pennsylvania threads. Shitty thing about living in the country, you’ve got to cast a wide net to catch the right fish. I’m in the Bloomsburg area but I’m more than happy to travel to the Williamsport, Hazleton, and Wilkes-Barre/Scranton areas for the right woman.

I’m a dominant type, but don’t claim to be a ‘capital D’ Dom. That's mostly my resistance to labels and that it seems like a lot of dudes think that 'Dom' is just a sexier word for asshole and that's not me. Plus it sounds so serious and while I do take the lifestyle seriously, I also try not to take myself too seriously and it's extremely important to have fun along the way. Daddy Dom is probably closer because there is a huge caring component to the most powerful relationships I've had.

I prefer women who are real and strong enough to accept and embrace their inner desires and that are smart, imaginative, personable, and will laugh at my bad jokes. I’m educated, professional and relatively successful, but I’m not a snob and I can’t stand pretentious people. I’m a sexy motherfucker, charming as the devil, will make you wet with my worlds and melt with my touch. I’m also very humble 😊.

I know it’s a longshot in this fucked up world, but I’m not giving up on the possibility of finding love and kink together so I’m throwing this out there. I do have high standards because I’m looking for something real, but I’m open minded. My kinks and the groups I’m in don’t define me as I believe that my sexual nature is constantly evolving, and sometimes life and love isn’t about finding the absolute perfect match, but rather finding that person who you connect with well enough that even the places you don’t align become areas for opportunity, growth, and awesome conversation.

Northeast Pa also here , Lehigh Valley. Love your story but hard to find my friend!
43 married also.
 
good luck to you, Rudy!

Permit me to wish you all the luck you'll need, Rudy, for finding your soulmate.

Your rather exceptional post raises my confidence that every now and then, one can run into more than the typical Lit poster here on the Personals. I believe you deserve the luck you will need.
 
Permit me to wish you all the luck you'll need, Rudy, for finding your soulmate.

Your rather exceptional post raises my confidence that every now and then, one can run into more than the typical Lit poster here on the Personals. I believe you deserve the luck you will need.

Thanks for the support and for the bump. I hope she's out there...
 
Just passing through. I lived in PA briefly. I don't now. Sending you some good vibes!
 
I lived in Pennsylvania years ago, and my latest story is set there. It's one of the most beautiful places I've ever lived. Hope you find the conveniently located lady of your dreams!
 
I really hope you find what you're looking for.
 
Bumping an old ad as it is sadly relevant again. I hope I always believe in magic and love, but I'm starting to lose faith that she's out there...
 
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