Drunk wife.

[Portsmouthboy]

If your wife was passed out drunk a sleep, would you expose her to your mates.

I would all day long; pulling her top up and pants down showing off her landing strip to my mates would be joy of joy.

 

[Justfantasies]

If your wife was passed out drunk a sleep, would you expose her to your mates.

I would all day long; pulling her top up and pants down showing off her landing strip to my mates would be joy of joy.

Would you let them fuck her?

 

[twister947]

Disgusting.

 

[blowit]

Disgusting.

I'm with you on this. Disgusting. Talking rape if she's fucked!

 

[screwher]

If your wife was passed out drunk a sleep, would you expose her to your mates.

I would all day long; pulling her top up and pants down showing off her landing strip to my mates would be joy of joy.

It does sound like a pretty hot idea. But I would be betraying her trust. But if Mrs. Screwher was on board then I'd love to strip her down in front of a room full of horny men.

 

[screwher]

Would you let them fuck her?

My wife once confessed she has a fantasy of being raped by another man. Which in turn got me fantasizing about it. But honestly some things are just best kept in Fantasyland.

 

[goodolboy]

If your wife was passed out drunk a sleep, would you expose her to your mates.

I would all day long; pulling her top up and pants down showing off her landing strip to my mates would be joy of joy.

You, sir, are a disgusting individual.

 

[Dreamer110]

You, sir, are a disgusting individual.

Was thinking the same thing. Would never do that to my wife.

 

[cuck72]

My wife once confessed she has a fantasy of being raped by another man. Which in turn got me fantasizing about it. But honestly some things are just best kept in Fantasyland.

Spot on, That's one thing about your fantasies, nothing goes wrong. Funny how they all work out so good and exciting.

 

[seeshelly]

Really sick

You and people like you make me sick. In the first place you are an asshole just for letting your wife get drunk. It is a very foolish thing to get wasted on alcohol. But unless she says: "When I am out of it from being a stupid drunk bitch please show me off" then you are a rapist. To do that to ANYONE while they sleep is sick and sleazy. It shows no love or respect. You speak of your wife like she is property and just a piece of meat. If you did that to your wife with my husband in the room he would shove your head through the wall and call the cops on you. I hope you have some friends that help you wake up and I hope your wife divorces you and finds a man instead of a weak selfish dick head.

 

[Portsmouthboy]

So I take it that is a no then ?

 

[jharp]

So I take it that is a no then ?

You can most definitely take that as a No. Dude this is fucking disgusting. Sexual assault best case. Rape more than likely.

 

[Ltimmy82]

If your wife was passed out drunk a sleep, would you expose her to your mates.

I would all day long; pulling her top up and pants down showing off her landing strip to my mates would be joy of joy.

In the fantasy world I can see how this is hot. But in reality, no. I wouldn't do any of that. It's disrespectful, if not downright illegal.

 

[Ltimmy82]

To give OP the benefit of the doubt in some sense...

It's one thing to fantasize about this, i.e. "Hey, have you guys ever fantasized about your wife being humiliated while she's passed out," etc..

It's another thing to actually want to act on it in the real world. Your original post makes it seem like this is something that happens (your wife passing out drunk) and you're wondering if this is something you should do; or if it's normal to do this.

If that's the case then no. You should definitely not do this.

If you just find it hot to fantasize about your wife being "taken" or "used" in some way, I'd say that's a pretty common fantasy. The fact that she's unconscious, however, and presumably unaware of this, is what's getting people angry about it.

There's no shortage of guys who share pictures of their wives on here. In many ways this is no different than what you're describing as I'm sure there are many wives who are unaware that their photos are being shared on a sex forum. But... many are, and are right there next to their husband delighting in the drooling masses telling her how hot she looks.

Consent is the key element here. Many guys have fantasies about their wives being with other men or being in a compromising or humiliating position. However the key element here is that even in the fantasy

A. She's a willing participating in these occurrences
B. She's,... you know.. conscious for them

Even most "rape" fantasies that men have about their wives usually center around the wife resisting at first... but then giving in because she realizes she secretly loves it (see: every romance novel ever written). By the way: this doesn't really happen in the real world. In the real world, a crime gets committed.

Guys who *actually* fantasize about their wife being hurt, assaulted, or violated against her will; or who want to humiliate/exploit/embarrass her in some way where she is not a willing participant in the fantasy, mentally present and consenting to it....yeah, there's a problem there.

I know with a lot of the conversations that go on here this may seem like semantics but it's an important distinction to make. For example, you're talking to a guy who's sole purpose for being on Lit is to talk about how he lusts after his wife's daughters... but that's all in my head. I'd never actually do anything to them, and certainly not while they were passed out. Even if the fantasies touch these grey areas, there's an important line to draw between fantasy and reality.

You can have no repercussions or morality in your head. In the real-world there are many repercussions to your actions.

Just my two cents.

 

[richdon03]

Disgusting.

I agree.

 

[Feshta]

Of all the kinks in here this is considered disgusting? Incest is acceptable, swinging is acceptable, bdsm is acceptable, gang bangs-acceptable, but a guys fantasy of uncovering his wife while she’s drunk asleep isn’t?

We all seem to have some pretty “out there” kinks but this it the limit? It’s not like he’s ACTUALLY offering her to his mates. It’s a pondering, a musing. I’m sure you lot have had far more offensive thoughts running through your heads, but ok, just so we know where the line is drawn....

Fantasy isn’t actually reality. I think some of you need to remember that.

 

[Ltimmy82]

Of all the kinks in here this is considered disgusting? Incest is acceptable, swinging is acceptable, bdsm is acceptable, gang bangs-acceptable, but a guys fantasy of uncovering his wife while she’s drunk asleep isn’t?

We all seem to have some pretty “out there” kinks but this it the limit? It’s not like he’s ACTUALLY offering her to his mates. It’s a pondering, a musing. I’m sure you lot have had far more offensive thoughts running through your heads, but ok, just so we know where the line is drawn....

Fantasy isn’t actually reality. I think some of you need to remember that.

I think the outrage here is the "Would you do this? I would" part of it.

The OP isn't presenting a fantasy. It's a reality involving his wife and doing something that, by its nature, isn't consent-based. Moreover, he's saying he would do this.

The things you've mentioned, i.e. incest, swinging, bdsm, gangbangs, etc... there's sort of an implied value that all parties to the act are willing participants.

I think if the OP had phrased it as "I have this wild fantasy that my wife passes out and I expose her to my friends and they all love seeing her and it turns me on" it probably would not have generated the response it did.

There's a difference, however semantic it might seem when there's an implication that part of the thrill is the lack of consent. As I'd mentioned, even most people on here who have rape fantasies tend to not be thrilled by the violent, aggressive nature of it. And often it's in the context of "this happens... but then he/she consents because they realize they really want it and they love it"

... which is not how these things go in reality. But that's why it's fantasy. Perfect example, there's a difference between saying:

"I have this fantasy where my wife gets raped. I don't want this to happen to her but it turns me on thinking about her being taken like that"

and

"Hey, if your wife passed out would you let your friends rape her? I would."

Might seem like semantics but there's a biiiiiig difference.

 

[jharp]

Of all the kinks in here this is considered disgusting? Incest is acceptable, swinging is acceptable, bdsm is acceptable, gang bangs-acceptable, but a guys fantasy of uncovering his wife while she’s drunk asleep isn’t?

We all seem to have some pretty “out there” kinks but this it the limit? It’s not like he’s ACTUALLY offering her to his mates. It’s a pondering, a musing. I’m sure you lot have had far more offensive thoughts running through your heads, but ok, just so we know where the line is drawn....

Fantasy isn’t actually reality. I think some of you need to remember that.

I'm not a fan of some of these either but I think you're missing the big point. Consent. Now if the Wife was in on this and 'pretending' to be drunk then this wouldn't be an issue. Have fun to your hearts content. But if she's asleep then we don't know. And its better to assume that she wasn't in on this and likely would not have consented to being exposed when she is vulnerable by someone who is supposed to protect her.

That is the issue.

 

[DrDick125]

consent

I'm not a fan of some of these either but I think you're missing the big point. Consent. Now if the Wife was in on this and 'pretending' to be drunk then this wouldn't be an issue. Have fun to your hearts content. But if she's asleep then we don't know. And its better to assume that she wasn't in on this and likely would not have consented to being exposed when she is vulnerable by someone who is supposed to protect her.

That is the issue.

consent is definitely the issue, if she would want this,OK , if this would cause emotional trauma then, NOWAY!