Where are women of color

[roseburgsteve]

I am wondering why there are not many women of color on these adult websites. I live in the Pacific Northwest in washington state and I am realizing I never see any profiles of women of color. Not that skin color really matters to me but as far as women are concerned every woman I see is Caucasian. I was wondering why this is. Are women of color more reserved?

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

I am wondering why there are not many women of color on these adult websites. I live in the Pacific Northwest in washington state and I am realizing I never see any profiles of women of color. Not that skin color really matters to me but as far as women are concerned every woman I see is Caucasian. I was wondering why this is. Are women of color more reserved?

Possibly, but I'm more open. I play in the Playground mostly. There are quite a few. Sometimes they are here lurking.

 

[roseburgsteve]

Was wondering if there is a reason why, I love women of any kind, especially bbw women. I just never see or have talked to any women of color. It's a long shot but wouldn't mind talking to someone especially a woman of color about this. I know I am probably sounding pretty lame.

 

[roseburgsteve]

Possibly, but I'm more open. I play in the Playground mostly. There are quite a few. Sometimes they are here lurking.

Well maybe I am just not in the right circles to see. I would like to get the chance to talk to a few beautiful women of color. I have had lot's of conversation with men of color and even met some of them. Let's face it the female body no matter what size shape or color is wonderful.

 

[Brave Maximus]

Honestly, for a lot of women, particularly non-white women, there is a lot of fetishization that happens on sites like this. There are a lot of guys, particularly ones that never post on the boards, who see a woman's race and latch on. I have some friends on here who, the second they mention race, their inbox gets flooded. And most of it is rather... horrible.
Not trying to be mean, but think about what you said:

...especially bbw women. I just never see or have talked to any women of color...

I don't think you meant any harm by this, but there's an element of fetishization going on in this statement, and for a lot of women, it's a big red flag, so they're not going to risk the flood to the inbox by posting in here.

I happen to really be attracted to Asian and Desi women. It's because I grew up in an area that had a large Korean and Japanese population, and a good chunk of my family friends are South Asian. I happen to share a lot of interests and history, so that informs why I tend to lean that way.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to talk to women who aren't white, just... maybe explain why a bit better....

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

Honestly, for a lot of women, particularly non-white women, there is a lot of fetishization that happens on sites like this. There are a lot of guys, particularly ones that never post on the boards, who see a woman's race and latch on. I have some friends on here who, the second they mention race, their inbox gets flooded. And most of it is rather... horrible.
Not trying to be mean, but think about what you said:



I don't think you meant any harm by this, but there's an element of fetishization going on in this statement, and for a lot of women, it's a big red flag, so they're not going to risk the flood to the inbox by posting in here.

I happen to really be attracted to Asian and Desi women. It's because I grew up in an area that had a large Korean and Japanese population, and a good chunk of my family friends are South Asian. I happen to share a lot of interests and history, so that informs why I tend to lean that way.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to talk to women who aren't white, just... maybe explain why a bit better....

I must agree. I don't want to be treated as a fetish. I'm living, breathing, have a brain, feelings and can be friendly when approached. I am not an exotic sex queen. At least, I don't think I am. I'm a regular person with a darker hue than most Caucasian people.

 

[roseburgsteve]

I must agree. I don't want to be treated as a fetish. I'm living, breathing, have a brain, feelings and can be friendly when approached. I am not an exotic sex queen. At least, I don't think I am. I'm a regular person with a darker hue than most Caucasian people.

I don't mean my question to be mean or degrading in anyway. I know this is a adult site but I still totally respect women and men and their wishes no matter what race. I have only ever dated white women and I have a black male that I see from time to time. Race has never been a thing I think of when meeting someone. I always go from personality. I just find it odd that I never really see a woman of color talking or posting things. I will say I am not trying to just see pictures of women of color and such. I just was wondering if women of color were more reserved. Maybe I am out of mind for even asking this in the first place. I have seen women of color in person and on line that I find very attractive and I admire them. Just never seen them in a chat room to be able to talk to them. Ok I will stop now. I am sounding like a idiot

 

[barefootgirl69]

I must agree. I don't want to be treated as a fetish. I'm living, breathing, have a brain, feelings and can be friendly when approached. I am not an exotic sex queen. At least, I don't think I am. I'm a regular person with a darker hue than most Caucasian people.

Not to mention a big heart.

I know I wouldn't be the only one to say you're an amazing woman and very much admired...but, I don't want to steal his thread.

 

[Brave Maximus]

I am sounding like a idiot

Nah dude... Sounding more honest, if inexperienced. Just be honest/respectful/yourself, and it'll go far.
Just don't expect a lot of women to post here, but if you're lucky, they'll slide into the DM's

 

[roseburgsteve]

Nah dude... Sounding more honest, if inexperienced. Just be honest/respectful/yourself, and it'll go far.
Just don't expect a lot of women to post here, but if you're lucky, they'll slide into the DM's

Well I will talk to anyone, male or female. But thanks for all of the information from every who responds. I have never been a real fetish driven person I just like to talk with people male or female about a wide range of topics and with like minded people.

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

Not to mention a big heart.

I know I wouldn't be the only one to say you're an amazing woman and very much admired...but, I don't want to steal his thread.

BFG, you are such a sweetheart

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

I don't mean my question to be mean or degrading in anyway. I know this is a adult site but I still totally respect women and men and their wishes no matter what race. I have only ever dated white women and I have a black male that I see from time to time. Race has never been a thing I think of when meeting someone. I always go from personality. I just find it odd that I never really see a woman of color talking or posting things. I will say I am not trying to just see pictures of women of color and such. I just was wondering if women of color were more reserved. Maybe I am out of mind for even asking this in the first place. I have seen women of color in person and on line that I find very attractive and I admire them. Just never seen them in a chat room to be able to talk to them. Ok I will stop now. I am sounding like a idiot

No you aren't. When you don't know, ask, just like what you're doing now. I'm not one to be judgemental. I speak to any and every one. Even those who may not be seen in the best of light unless you come off as rude. Curiosities are just that. *Smiling*

 

[roseburgsteve]

No you aren't. When you don't know, ask, just like what you're doing now. I'm not one to be judgemental. I speak to any and every one. Even those who may not be seen in the best of light unless you come off as rude. Curiosities are just that. *Smiling*

Thank you very much BCC, I have always loved to get to know people with great personality. I say get to know but not meaning I am looking for hookups. Thank you for all your comments

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

Thank you very much BCC, I have always loved to get to know people with great personality. I say get to know but not meaning I am looking for hookups. Thank you for all your comments

You are most welcome.

 

[roseburgsteve]

Missed opportunity

When I was 21 I was skinny. I had a jo" driving cab in Oroville California. I had a call to go pick up a group of women at a night club. When I got there it was 5 women. I put 3 in the back and 2 up front with me. They all was going to a motel about three miles away. Well the woman sitting next to me was a 40 something woman of color. I noticed right away they all had been drinking. The woman next to me kinda started flirting with me. Saying how tall and sexy I was. I said I was not that sexy. I know she was married because she said she wishes she could take me home with her instead of going home to her worthless husband. All the other women laughed. Next thing I know she is rubbing my cock through my pants as I was driving. I got so hard but was so nervous. I never have had any thing like that. One of the other woman mentioned maybe he would go down on you sense your husband would not. She than asked me if I liked eating pussy. I told her yes I loved it. She said have I ever tasted a black pussy, I said no . She asked would I want to. I then told her I prefer to go down on a woman before I do anything else. She smiled and giggled to her friends. Meanwhile still holding my cock through my pants. When I pulled up to the motel room she kissed my cheek and asked if I wanted to come in with her. I had to turn her down because I had another call. But to this day I always wonder what I missed out on. She was a very beautiful woman about 5'5" bbw and what looked like a beautiful set of boobies. I would not say I have a fetish for a woman of color but will always remember that night and what I passed up on because I was to nervous to turn down the other call. Sorry just thought I would share this.

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

When I was 21 I was skinny. I had a jo" driving cab in Oroville California. I had a call to go pick up a group of women at a night club. When I got there it was 5 women. I put 3 in the back and 2 up front with me. They all was going to a motel about three miles away. Well the woman sitting next to me was a 40 something woman of color. I noticed right away they all had been drinking. The woman next to me kinda started flirting with me. Saying how tall and sexy I was. I said I was not that sexy. I know she was married because she said she wishes she could take me home with her instead of going home to her worthless husband. All the other women laughed. Next thing I know she is rubbing my cock through my pants as I was driving. I got so hard but was so nervous. I never have had any thing like that. One of the other woman mentioned maybe he would go down on you sense your husband would not. She than asked me if I liked eating pussy. I told her yes I loved it. She said have I ever tasted a black pussy, I said no . She asked would I want to. I then told her I prefer to go down on a woman before I do anything else. She smiled and giggled to her friends. Meanwhile still holding my cock through my pants. When I pulled up to the motel room she kissed my cheek and asked if I wanted to come in with her. I had to turn her down because I had another call. But to this day I always wonder what I missed out on. She was a very beautiful woman about 5'5" bbw and what looked like a beautiful set of boobies. I would not say I have a fetish for a woman of color but will always remember that night and what I passed up on because I was to nervous to turn down the other call. Sorry just thought I would share this.

It's alright. We've all had our share of what seems like awkward moments. You were honest enough to share it here. I commend you on your honesty. Thank you for sharing. You would not believe others may have somewhat similar adventures in their pasts.

 

[roseburgsteve]

It's alright. We've all had our share of what seems like awkward moments. You were honest enough to share it here. I commend you on your honesty. Thank you for sharing. You would not believe others may have somewhat similar adventures in their pasts.

Funny thing is, it was not her race that made me nervous. At the time I was married and was not sure I should have and the biggest part was that she was married as well and didn't know where her husband was or when he would be home. Her race had nothing to do with my nervousness really. I always wondered why her husband would not go down on her. She was beautiful in my opinion. She was pretty tipsy tho but I don't understand a man that will not perform oral on such a beautiful woman. Maybe I am just weird that way

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

Funny thing is, it was not her race that made me nervous. At the time I was married and was not sure I should have and the biggest part was that she was married as well and didn't know where her husband was or when he would be home. Her race had nothing to do with my nervousness really. I always wondered why her husband would not go down on her. She was beautiful in my opinion. She was pretty tipsy tho but I don't understand a man that will not perform oral on such a beautiful woman. Maybe I am just weird that way

There are many reasons why things happen in the lives of others. I'm not sure why that is, but life happens. It isn't my place to insert my opinion because there are many reasons why people male and female are in their positions in life.

 

[roseburgsteve]

There are many reasons why things happen in the lives of others. I'm not sure why that is, but life happens. It isn't my place to insert my opinion because there are many reasons why people male and female are in their positions in life.

i agree i should not try to either

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

What were you expecting when creating this thread? Curious....

 

[roseburgsteve]

What were you expecting when creating this thread? Curious....

tell you the truth not really sure, other than opening some dialog with some one about the topic. i am a guy that loves to chat and get to know people. but i will always respect people and their boundaries. does that help

 

[roseburgsteve]

What were you expecting when creating this thread? Curious....[/QUOT

i guess i would hope to find a wonderful woman of color to talk to one on one on chat. i am sure you see that i am bi, well i have a boyfriend he is a dark handsome stud. he became attracted to me when i first messaged him and started a conversation with him not about sex or his cock size or his race. now he is in love with me, i don't always see why though. i am a big guy out of shape and he is very athletic and handsome.

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

What were you expecting when creating this thread? Curious....[/QUOT

i guess i would hope to find a wonderful woman of color to talk to one on one on chat. i am sure you see that i am bi, well i have a boyfriend he is a dark handsome stud. he became attracted to me when i first messaged him and started a conversation with him not about sex or his cock size or his race. now he is in love with me, i don't always see why though. i am a big guy out of shape and he is very athletic and handsome.

Love finds you and sometimes it can't be explained. I have more platonic friendships though. I like to get to know people from all walks of life, young or old, male or female, just being friendly. I have no expectations other than to hopefully make a new friend and learn about someone new.