His fantasy of me fucking black men

[Kirstyandsam]

My hubby fantasises about me fucking black men.. we talk about 1 guy or gangbangs and have crzey sex

It wasnt a fantasy of mine at the start but now its all i can imagine... the thought of being used by black men with big black cocks sneds me crazey

We sent out first picture of me naked to a black guy last night who we met online... and oh boy he is big and black and so muscular

He lives the pictures and want to see more.. and i want to see more of him

 

[Feshta]

I’m sure you’ll make your husbands (and your) fantasy come true some time soon.

My wife and I have had some fun while she was doing this with a couple of my friends but that was a fair while ago. It was and still is my biggest fantasy/kink and I wish she’d do it again. She has shown some interest in black guys but hasn’t taken the next step. Ag the current moment I don’t think she’s interested in the lifestyle but I’m really hoping she changes her mind because our relationship was never hotter than when she was playing with my friends.

What do you think it is that sways a lady’s mind to playing away?

 

[blowit]

My hubby fantasises about me fucking black men.. we talk about 1 guy or gangbangs and have crzey sex

It wasnt a fantasy of mine at the start but now its all i can imagine... the thought of being used by black men with big black cocks sneds me crazey

We sent out first picture of me naked to a black guy last night who we met online... and oh boy he is big and black and so muscular

He lives the pictures and want to see more.. and i want to see more of him

Oh.........................apart from having a lesbian thing with your sister and the wife of your husbands best friend? Now all you can think about is BBC? Strange old world!

 

[ShagTimes]

Oh.........................apart from having a lesbian thing with your sister and the wife of your husbands best friend? Now all you can think about is BBC? Strange old world!

You're allowed to have more than one fantasy at a time you know.

 

[blowit]

You're allowed to have more than one fantasy at a time you know.

So long as they are obvious fantasies and not dressed up as requiring advice from an agony aunt then you're correct.

 

[blowit]

Interesting:

Husbands friends wife
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1512932

Sister
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=91549036#post91549036

 

[Kirstyandsam]

Yes congratulations that you have worked out we have more than 1 fantasy... i have finally found somehwere which i can talk about them and they are all coming out.. your not an over achiever by working out we have multiple fantasies...

However great work detective

 

[blowit]

Of course. If you say so.

 

[Kirstyandsam]

Ok cheif wigam

 

[blowit]

Ok cheif wigam

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Sorry?

 

[jharp]

If this is what you and your Husband want then go for it. But I assume you've both talked about it extensively before diving in.

I've seen how these can end badly. Had a buddy of mine and his wife get into this lifestyle. It ended with their marriage destroyed and him about to eat a gun. He said he saw all the warning signs the Marriage was dying despite his wife's assurances to the contrary. But he was so hooked on the erotic thrill he went along with it, willingly going to his doom.

For him it was so hot, and as he described it 'erotically painful' until suddenly it was just only painful and he tried to pull the plug on it. But the wife was in too deep with her lover and left him and their children to be with the guy. He dumped her 6 months later and she sorta woke up from that and tried to come back to her Husband and they tried to reconcile but he's back in shape, getting his confidence back and getting attention from younger and hotter women. Sp he's keen to upgrade.

He explained to me cuckolding more than any of these guys ever would. But I still don't understand it.

It's the man who takes all the risks and makes all the sacrifices in a cuckold or Hotwife relationship and gets virtually nothing for it except to watch a live action porno with his wife as the star. I call it erotic suicide.

 

[Feshta]

It's the man who takes all the risks and makes all the sacrifices in a cuckold or Hotwife relationship and gets virtually nothing for it except to watch a live action porno with his wife as the star. I call it erotic suicide.

While I agree that the man takes the majority of the emotional risk, I’d argue that he gets far more than you suggest. I know from experience.

True it’s not always going to turn out well but as long as you understand all possible outcomes it’s a calculated risk.

I’d equate it with adrenalin junkies who do daft stuff to get their natural high. Personally I’ve never got such a surge of adrenalin, erotic charge, positive jealousy (I don’t feel negative about it), sexual anguish, knowing your other half is having intimate fun with another man and excitement knowing you’re the one that will benefit when she returns and for days/weeks afterwards. There’s no other feeling I know of that gets me to that level of high, and I’ve done the chemicals! Even thinking about it now gets me higher than the chemicals.

It’s down to personal feelings and attitude about the situation. It’s definitely not for every couple but it is definitely for me.

 

[jharp]

While I agree that the man takes the majority of the emotional risk, I’d argue that he gets far more than you suggest. I know from experience.

True it’s not always going to turn out well but as long as you understand all possible outcomes it’s a calculated risk.

I’d equate it with adrenalin junkies who do daft stuff to get their natural high. Personally I’ve never got such a surge of adrenalin, erotic charge, positive jealousy (I don’t feel negative about it), sexual anguish, knowing your other half is having intimate fun with another man and excitement knowing you’re the one that will benefit when she returns and for days/weeks afterwards. There’s no other feeling I know of that gets me to that level of high, and I’ve done the chemicals! Even thinking about it now gets me higher than the chemicals.

It’s down to personal feelings and attitude about the situation. It’s definitely not for every couple but it is definitely for me.

You still into this lifestyle with the wife?

 

[screwher]

If you that you're both 110% on board then have fun. My wife and I have the same fantasy.

 

[Feshta]

You still into this lifestyle with the wife?

Not currently. The last time she was involved was a one night fling with my friend. Before that she had an 18 month relationship with another of my friends. We both enjoyed the situation until he found himself a steady girlfriend.

If the right opportunity came along I have no doubt she would go for it, and she has my blessing. She doesn’t show any interest right now though.

 

[OldFred65]

My hubby fantasises about me fucking black men.. we talk about 1 guy or gangbangs and have crzey sex

It wasnt a fantasy of mine at the start but now its all i can imagine... the thought of being used by black men with big black cocks sneds me crazey

We sent out first picture of me naked to a black guy last night who we met online... and oh boy he is big and black and so muscular

He lives the pictures and want to see more.. and i want to see more of him

Why do you both fantasize? I say go for it!

 

[Ltimmy82]

If this is what you and your Husband want then go for it. But I assume you've both talked about it extensively before diving in.

I've seen how these can end badly. Had a buddy of mine and his wife get into this lifestyle. It ended with their marriage destroyed and him about to eat a gun. He said he saw all the warning signs the Marriage was dying despite his wife's assurances to the contrary. But he was so hooked on the erotic thrill he went along with it, willingly going to his doom.

For him it was so hot, and as he described it 'erotically painful' until suddenly it was just only painful and he tried to pull the plug on it. But the wife was in too deep with her lover and left him and their children to be with the guy. He dumped her 6 months later and she sorta woke up from that and tried to come back to her Husband and they tried to reconcile but he's back in shape, getting his confidence back and getting attention from younger and hotter women. Sp he's keen to upgrade.

He explained to me cuckolding more than any of these guys ever would. But I still don't understand it.

It's the man who takes all the risks and makes all the sacrifices in a cuckold or Hotwife relationship and gets virtually nothing for it except to watch a live action porno with his wife as the star. I call it erotic suicide.

^ This.

It's all well and good as a fantasy until it becomes your reality. Then real people, real emotions, and real circumstances and consequences are present. Plenty of people get into this and it works well for them.... but for every couple that makes this work, there's 10 couples that get destroyed over it.

Might be an unpopular opinion, seeing as this is Literotica and all, but just be careful and make sure you go into any fantasy with a clear understanding of the risks involved. There's lot of hot stories on here about this fantasy... but they're just that. Stories.

In real life, it usually doesn't end well. In my humble opinion and experience that is. Some things are better left as fantasies.

 

[abvt75]

In my opinion Kristy, if you want to eliminate the risk of jealousy or risk to hurting your husband and marriage , then a discreet affair is what you need or a hook up

85 percent of affairs are never caught

Ron

 

[SAILOR954]

Kristy,

It's so hot that your hubby's fantasy turns you on. Doesn't make a Damn bit of difference what the fantasy is so long as you're both into it.

Don't listen to these guys that are trying to over think this. It's just sex! You guys go meet your BBC. Fuck him! Have fun and get from the experience all that the two of you want.

If it turns out it's not for you guys, then turn the page and move on to the next fantasy.

My only advice is this. Whatever you do,,, do it together.

And you're right by the way. If your man is anything like me he is going to dig watching you take a black cock deep. My sub calls it the forbidden fruit.

Have fun baby.

Sailor