Hi all, I'm new here as a member but have been a lurker for a long time. I've always been straight but now later in life have had the urge to explore. Within the past year I had the urge to go to a men's bathhouse, for the first time. I finally gathered the courage to check one out. I guess it's a voyeur/exhibitionist thing. I've been several times over the course of a year. Anyone here also been to a men's bathhouse ? What are you're thoughts on them.
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UnderMyKilt
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I have been to Entourage Spa in Las Vegas twice over the last two years while traveling. On both occasions I paid for a private Deluxe Room and...on both occasions...I had my ass joyously reamed by partners with whom I had immediate chemistry. On one of those occasions, the chemistry was so hot that we returned to my hotel room where we spent most of the night, and into the early morning, in relaxed but frenetic sucking, fucking and ass play. I intentionally stayed at the SLS (now, once again, the Sahara) to be within walking distance of Entourage. Good thing since I was so high on 420 and endorphins that I knew I shouldn't be driving.
Maybe I was there on good nights, but on both times it seemed to me that there was something for everyone regardless of your particular flavor, bear, twink, soft, rough....and yes...I was, if not scared, apprehensive as fuck the first time I went.
Though you can be into the "voyeur/exhibitionist thing" as the OP mentions, and that's certainly at least part of the turn on, heck...it's "real live porn" showing your junk, having public sex....I've always found someone else with whom I had more of a one one on one connection. That said, we did leave the door of my room open for others to watch (not join in) for a time on one of my trips.
On another occasion, this time staying at the Westgate Las Vegas due to the short walking distance to Entourage, I decided not to go because I found that they were holding a huge group sex event called CumUnion which I found bit intimidating. No problems though, I met my male companion for the weekend in the elevator on the way from the hotel pool and spa (but that's another story).
I think that you might be pleasantly surprised. You set the boundaries and only do or have done what your comfortable with.
Thanks for the encouragement...part of my reluctance is due to my age and less than perfect condition...lol.
And there’s probably a lot I’d be willing to do.
Thanks for the encouragement...part of my reluctance is due to my age and less than perfect condition...lol.
And there’s probably a lot I’d be willing to do.
The one that I've been too seems to have a older crowd. And everyone there is there for one thing. That is to get off in a casual setting.
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Dude, you can’t bait us and not let us know some details. How did you meet him? How did you know....
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I went to one in Ft Lauderdale years ago and just thinking about it makes me excited. I really let myself go and checked in with a blindfold. I went into the room that contains a small pool, laid on the floor and put on my blindfold. I was verrry horney. It wasn't long before I felt a pair of testicles brush back and forth against my lips and the man said suck it baby suck my dick while rubbing his cock lengthwise back and forth across my lips and mouth. He finally said let's go somewhere and seeing I had my room key on my wrist he took my hand and said let's go to your room. We got to my room and I got on my knees, now the blindfold was off and I saw he was a black man with a good size cock. I was on my knees when he put it in my mouth and I sucked on the head while touching his black balls with my fingers. He finally had me lay on the bed and stroked his cock back and forth across my lips. He did put something in his fingers and brought them to my nose and told me to sniff. It wasn't coke, I don't know what it was but I got a rush and he convulsed, coming into my open mouth which I posed like a sparrow being fed.
I would like to do this again......maybe with 2 men. I have not done anything like this in all these years. What should I do? I have to go and masturbate now just thinking of this experience .Yikes!
I would like to do this again......maybe with 2 men. I have not done anything like this in all these years. What should I do? I have to go and masturbate now just thinking of this experience .Yikes!
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I went to one while in San Francisco. I visited twice in a week and had a great time. I had limited experience and was keen to explore without any risk of found out. I was recommended a place near my hotel. I was a little nervous but had been advised that there was no pressure from anyone and I could do as much or as little as I wanted.
I found the whole experience very liberating.
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The great thing with bathhouses are that everyone is there for the same thing and has the same thing on their minds. Unlike trying to use the web to hook up there’s no time wasting, no need for hotel rooms for privacy (unless the fun continues after the bathhouse) I enjoy using the local bathhouses and some of them out on theme nights as well which are always good if you have particular fetishes. Like any kind of club some are busier than others and the clientele may be older or younger but They’re all there for the same reason you are regardless of whether it’s voyeur or sex everyone is there to get off in some way. Some have stricter rules than others regarding safe sex and how far you can go but I’ve met a few guys who became regular fuck buddies outside of the bathouse.
I've been to Club Indianapolis and Club Columbus. Had fun at both. The size of the crowd is hit or miss. I'm flying into Chicago a few Sundays from now. I'll be at Steamworks that afternoon. Hope there's a nice crowd. Might even suck my first cock in 40 years.
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It wasn't so much as "how did I know", as maybe "how did he know"....or maybe just a chance choice of words.
I've related this in another thread but, While taking a two night rest (and fun) stop while traveling home from family business in Colorado, I had a wonderful weekend with a guy 30 years my junior in Las Vegas (with my wife's approval). As noted in my prior post, I stayed at Westgate on this trip, again due to it's proximity to Entourage and other gay hot spots in Las Vegas. (BTW, I'd never stay there again.)
In relation to those who mention reluctance in this thread, at my age I've learned you've got to just jump right in and make some effort, to make these things happen. The first time I went into a gay spa/bathhouse, my heart lept into my threat like the first time I went into an adult bookstore/theater in my youth. Once I'd done it I thought, "Why didn't I ever do this before?" BTW, I still get excited when I do both.
In the weeks preceding the trip, I had posted messages in the Las Vegas section of a gay social media site and had responses from quite a few potential dance partners, gay and bi and of all ages and flavors. Unfortunately, it seems that I was there on the wrong weekend as most of them went to a big nationwide group sex event called, "CumUnion" at Entourage and Hawk's Gym and Spa that weekend. I considered going but, after a long drive, I was bit exhausted and just didn't feel like that kind of scene. This thing was such a big deal that they had generators for the extra power needs in the facilities (live bands I guess) and, from my room, I could see the spotlights advertising it in the parking lot of Hawk's.
Having almost resigned myself to having no companionship for the weekend (or at least not for that night), I walked down the street to a cannabis dispensary (I could see it from my room) and bought a couple of prerolls one of which I "illegally" smoked on the sidewalk while walking back. I then headed down to the fitness center at the Westgate for an air conditioned run on the treadmill.
I try to stay fit, especially when traveling and maybe not eating quite right, but it was 108* outside and I really didn't feel like melting. Of course, I half-assed had the thought in the back of my mind that I might meet someone tasty in the gym but, no such luck so I just had a nice run and headed back up to my room.
Who'd a thunk? I met my weekend companion on the elevator from the pool, spa and fitness center back to my room. It wasn't anyone from any of my social media sites, and not a local, but just another HORNY traveler hoping to meet someone.
So, still high as a kite on 420 even after an hour on the treadmill, and taking a brief walk around the pool deck hoping to see some well packed Speedos, I got in the elevator and noticed him approaching as the door began to close. So I held it open. Just out of courtesy and not thinking any beyond that, till I saw his broad disarming grin. ("Down Simba," I thought as I felt a surge in my groin. "This cutey is probably 30 years younger than you"...and I was right.)
The door closed, leaving just the two of us and I immediately felt kind of giddy in his presence. I was a little too high to feel real confident and conversational so, after a brief grin of acknowledgement, I just kind of kept my eyes downcast till he asked,
"Did you just come from the pool?"
Looking up, in kind of a startled "are you talking to me?" moment, I responded, "Yeah. For a little while but mostly the fitness center."
"WHO were you looking for?" he inexplicably asked.
("Who? Who? ") I thought while glancing up at his piercing blue eyes and still processing what he'd said without really thinking of the implications, I responded,
"Umm. No one in particular, I'm pretty versatile. What about you?"
When I saw him raise his eyebrows, and seemingly look me up and down, I immediately realized what I'd said and became a bit flustered, hot, and I'm sure beet red with embarrassment.
I could see him contemplating it but was still surprised as hell when he said,
"I think I might be looking for you."
His words seemed to suck the breath out of me. Just then, the elevator reached his floor and the door opened, not wanting to lose him I took a big gulp and said,
"Would you like to come up to my room?"
Leaning out to touch my arm, he said,
"I've got straight traveling companions.....so that sounds good to me. I won't be missed."
The elevator door closed and, after very few more words, by the time we reached my floor we were kissing and groping each other.
Thus...began two days of giddy, erotic bliss with this fit and trim (then) 61 year old bi man showing (at least outwardly) that I could more than keep up with a 30 year old gay lover. Gotta admit, I was a bit bowlegged and stiff in the days following. (Details in a Literotica story...if I ever get it, and dozens of others, finished. It's an ADD thing.)
"Oh bliss! Bliss and heaven! Oh, it was gorgeousness and gorgeousity made flesh. It was like a bird of rarest-spun heaven metal or like silvery wine flowing in a spaceship, gravity all nonsense now. As WE slooshied, I knew such lovely pictures!" - Alex DeLarge, A Clockwork Orange
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I have never been to one. I've always wanted to. I'm paying attention to the posts here as to what to expect, where to go, Etc.
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That was a very hot experience.I went to one in Ft Lauderdale years ago and just thinking about it makes me excited. I really let myself go and checked in with a blindfold. I went into the room that contains a small pool, laid on the floor and put on my blindfold. I was verrry horney. It wasn't long before I felt a pair of testicles brush back and forth against my lips and the man said suck it baby suck my dick while rubbing his cock lengthwise back and forth across my lips and mouth. He finally said let's go somewhere and seeing I had my room key on my wrist he took my hand and said let's go to your room. We got to my room and I got on my knees, now the blindfold was off and I saw he was a black man with a good size cock. I was on my knees when he put it in my mouth and I sucked on the head while touching his black balls with my fingers. He finally had me lay on the bed and stroked his cock back and forth across my lips. He did put something in his fingers and brought them to my nose and told me to sniff. It wasn't coke, I don't know what it was but I got a rush and he convulsed, coming into my open mouth which I posed like a sparrow being fed.
I would like to do this again......maybe with 2 men. I have not done anything like this in all these years. What should I do? I have to go and masturbate now just thinking of this experience .Yikes!
Marriedkuriousone
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I live close to Louisville and have been interested in visiting this one. Can you tell me what you know about it please?
I love my gay bathhouse. I lost my oral and anal virginity there, and discovered how much I truly love men's cocks. Not the men, but sucking their dicks and swallowing warm thick loads is an addiction for me. I think nothing is hotter that enthusiastic gay sex, and I am a cock sucker and a bottom.
It's so nice, one man wants sucked off or fucked, another wants to suck it or maybe fuck a queer. Intense and hugely exciting.
That's great !!! I'm not into men either just the sex. Very exciting to be naked in that environment.
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I was watching the tv show "the deuce" and it showed some scenes in a bathhouse, I instantly got hard and wished I had found one when I was there. I was younger then and really could have had some fun. I would like to go now but life prevents me from going.
The one that I've visited several times attracts all age groups, but predominantly older especially in the afternoons. At this point of my curious stage I have a pretty strict set of personal boundaries. But still had alot of fun.
I have been to the Flexx Plexx bathhouse and most of the adult bookstores in the Phoenix area. I enjoy watching the show or being the show.
The multi-level blackout room at Flexx is FUN. It is like a sauna with the tiered seating but there is a raised cube in front where you can engage in sex for the viewing pleasure of others but man sex was everywhere. Just make eye contact and have fun.
The multi-level blackout room at Flexx is FUN. It is like a sauna with the tiered seating but there is a raised cube in front where you can engage in sex for the viewing pleasure of others but man sex was everywhere. Just make eye contact and have fun.
