StrongMaster7
Literotica Guru
- Joined
- Dec 3, 2004
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I enjoy Lit chat. I've met some very nice women who have been kind enough to share their awesome sexuality with me . I've been chatting here for years and for years more elsewhere before that. Thank you to all the women of Literotica for being here.
It is my opinion that Lit users are 90+% male. I understand that being one of the few women on Lit makes you subject to a lot of unsolicited contact. Every time you log on you get bombarded with a bunch of unwanted PMs. You understand that many, if not most of the men here just want a woman to type a few erotic things to them to help them jerk off and you may not always be up for that. Fair enough.
I read Lit chat profiles. I want to make sure the screenname I'm addressing at least claims to be female. And the things some of the 'ladies' are demanding of the men who wish to chat with them are very entertaining.
"Don't just say 'hi'. Offer me a fully-detailed, elaborate RP scenario that's related to me and my interests, even though you don't know me or what my interests are."
"Don't just send me a blatant sexual message. I'm a person! How about 'hello'? "
"You will need to get to know all about me as a person, not just relate to me as a sexual being."
"Leave my family, my location, my job, and my past out of this!"
"If you don't have a profile, I hate you. If you ask me my interests, I hate you. If you ask me about my body, I hate you. If you use any words I find objectionable, I hate you."
Hey, I'm sorry movie stars don't get the privacy they want, but it's part of the deal. Same thing for women on Lit.
I'm sorry some men are jerks. I'm sorry some men use poor grammar or can't put together a sentence. But in exchange, you get to pick from the hoards of men. You get to flake out on them and go to the next one whenever you like. You can make the men do 99% of the communicating. You can multi-chat a dozen men at once. You don't have to be interesting, exciting, or bring anything at all to the table.
The deal men get is this. Spend hours trying to find a woman who will respond at all.
Try to mind-read what they want out of the chat. Hope you get a woman who wants to chat about sex and can do it in real time. Ignore the static you get from the women who are offended that you did not follow their 'rules'.
Of course poor behavior is not limited to women. Some men are pigs. But the law of supply and demand is absolute. And women have the supply. They are entitled to be as picky and choosy and rude as they can get away with. Just understand that rudeness begets more rudeness.
Play nicely, people.
End of rant.
It is my opinion that Lit users are 90+% male. I understand that being one of the few women on Lit makes you subject to a lot of unsolicited contact. Every time you log on you get bombarded with a bunch of unwanted PMs. You understand that many, if not most of the men here just want a woman to type a few erotic things to them to help them jerk off and you may not always be up for that. Fair enough.
I read Lit chat profiles. I want to make sure the screenname I'm addressing at least claims to be female. And the things some of the 'ladies' are demanding of the men who wish to chat with them are very entertaining.
"Don't just say 'hi'. Offer me a fully-detailed, elaborate RP scenario that's related to me and my interests, even though you don't know me or what my interests are."
"Don't just send me a blatant sexual message. I'm a person! How about 'hello'? "
"You will need to get to know all about me as a person, not just relate to me as a sexual being."
"Leave my family, my location, my job, and my past out of this!"
"If you don't have a profile, I hate you. If you ask me my interests, I hate you. If you ask me about my body, I hate you. If you use any words I find objectionable, I hate you."
Hey, I'm sorry movie stars don't get the privacy they want, but it's part of the deal. Same thing for women on Lit.
I'm sorry some men are jerks. I'm sorry some men use poor grammar or can't put together a sentence. But in exchange, you get to pick from the hoards of men. You get to flake out on them and go to the next one whenever you like. You can make the men do 99% of the communicating. You can multi-chat a dozen men at once. You don't have to be interesting, exciting, or bring anything at all to the table.
The deal men get is this. Spend hours trying to find a woman who will respond at all.
Try to mind-read what they want out of the chat. Hope you get a woman who wants to chat about sex and can do it in real time. Ignore the static you get from the women who are offended that you did not follow their 'rules'.
Of course poor behavior is not limited to women. Some men are pigs. But the law of supply and demand is absolute. And women have the supply. They are entitled to be as picky and choosy and rude as they can get away with. Just understand that rudeness begets more rudeness.
Play nicely, people.
End of rant.