Are women naturally bi?

[Veeweewee]

Apologies if this has done before, I have done a search and can't find anything.

It seems that almost every woman I have come across, once they have been able to set aside their inhibitions, are absolutely bisexual. Even if they don't want to say the words, they have no problem having a sexual relationship with another woman even if only in the presence of their man. In fact I can't think of a single female who wasn't willing to have at least some degree of sexual contact with me if in that situation.

I haven't found the same with men, in fact in my world, not at all.

Thoughts?

 

[Jada59]

I have no interest in women sexually and really not much interest in most women at all for anything. I do have some female friends, but overall, I just find men more interesting. I do have some lesbian friends. The only bi friends I have are male.

 

[noego]

During the course of my lifetime I have encouraged nine women to transition from bi curious to bi sexual. The latest one was only a couple of weeks ago.
I'd agree with you. I think that women are very curious, but have a fear of making the move for some reason.

 

[Tcs1956]

Apologies if this has done before, I have done a search and can't find anything.

It seems that almost every woman I have come across, once they have been able to set aside their inhibitions, are absolutely bisexual. Even if they don't want to say the words, they have no problem having a sexual relationship with another woman even if only in the presence of their man. In fact I can't think of a single female who wasn't willing to have at least some degree of sexual contact with me if in that situation.

I haven't found the same with men, in fact in my world, not at all.

Thoughts?

I think all men are, or have bisexual tendencies and desires. There is just such a psychological social stereotype that most men feel a sometimes violent need to protect their masculinity. Because of the social stigma, I could never be openly Bi. However, I am just over 60 and if you would like me to suck your husbands cock for you....

 

[dashie33]

I think all men are, or have bisexual tendencies and desires. There is just such a psychological social stereotype that most men feel a sometimes violent need to protect their masculinity. Because of the social stigma, I could never be openly Bi. However, I am just over 60 and if you would like me to suck your husbands cock for you....

You must've been reading the, "Would you [x] the poster above you?" threads on The Playground. Outside of high school, I've never seen guys more desperate to assert their extra-hetero-ness.

 

[Bottomlover]

All women are bi. The challenge is to figure out if it's sexual or polar.

 

[carln3346]

. .. Even if they don't want to say the words, they have no problem having a sexual relationship with another woman even if only in the presence of their man. . . .

Thoughts?

My wife is the opposite - she would never do anything if I was around . . .

 

[PoetinExile]

Bi

I have found only a small percentage of women I have known over my long life to have any perceptible bi interest.

However, I am willing to admit that I may have been oblivious to it, especially in my younger days, and I really didn’t know how to encourage or nurture it.

 

[MsLead]

I have zero interest.... helpful anyone?

 

[Carnevil9]

In my experience, all women are two drinks away from a girl-on-girl adventure.

 

[jehoram]

I think all men are, or have bisexual tendencies and desires. There is just such a psychological social stereotype that most men feel a sometimes violent need to protect their masculinity. Because of the social stigma

From what I've seen, sexuality is on a sort of sliding scale, and while most people are on one side or the other, there are a few in the middle. I'm male, and usually have no interest in other males, and it has nothing to do with social stigma. But I remember being attracted to another boy when I was in my teens. It was sort of sexually un-focused, but then again, my focus wasn't all that sharp with girls, either.

I also remember being molested by an older boy when I was around six or seven. Who knows where I might be on that scale if that hadn't happened, and if I had been introduced to gay sex in a more positive, non-threatening way?

In sum, we are a species, like all species, with some sort of natural bent, but with enough variation due to circumstances, or previous experience, or some genetic cast of the dice to set us in some orientation we're comfortable with.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I think we, as humans, are all bi - we just have different desires and interests. Some of those desires are ones we buy into because of social pressure and fear of stigma, of going along with the norm, sometimes we intentionally reject the norm just for the sake of being different. But more often than not our desires are what they are - some like petite, some like big, some like white, some like black, some like it all, some might experiment with someone not usually on their radar, others won't.

Ultimately, the main thing is expressing our own desires and not be cast into something that doesn't mesh well. I've met women who had bisexual encounters who didn't want to but felt compelled because of boyfriends or other social pressures - that is disturbing.

Be you, be it bi, straight, pan, this or that...

 

[Ramone45]

The relationship among women seems to take on a different character. It seems more open and accepting. I feel this way just based on my observation of the emotional and physical closeness I see among women. They greet each other more intimately than men do. Women complain that men are selfish lovers. I think women are less selfish and I think a woman potentially could provide more reliable fulfillment to another women, even if they were not lesbians. I could envision my wife and one of her friends making love, just as a change of pace, or for bonding, without it getting too serious or dramatic.

 

[Blonde_Shay]

I think that we're all attracted to someone irrespective of the sex..

So a Male can get attracted to another male & same is with women. Therefore, no such implied rule where all women are bi. Some act on the attraction/ fetish and turn bi. Some choose the lesbian path. Whereas for some women, it's not strong an attraction and they remain straight.

 

[loveupskirt]

All women are bi. The challenge is to figure out if it's sexual or polar.

Haha, now that's some funny shit.

 

[Veeweewee]

All women are bi. The challenge is to figure out if it's sexual or polar.

Hahaha there is that