Being a little slut

[Cumlover999]

I am a sex positive girl and like flirting with guys here and there.
My biggest turn on is guys that make me so horny that i just have to be slutty, and then they have to punish me for being a dirty bad girl. Why is it that im so turned on by this?
I just dont understand. I am not like that at all in my day to day life.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I am a sex positive girl and like flirting with guys here and there.
My biggest turn on is guys that make me so horny that i just have to be slutty, and then they have to punish me for being a dirty bad girl. Why is it that im so turned on by this?
I just dont understand. I am not like that at all in my day to day life.

That’s because you crave having your sweet little pussy licked.

 

[amofiga]

I've known women who were in "power positions" in their career but loved being submissive and punished in their sexual arena. Who can understand what makes us tick sexually? I think sometimes, depending on our upbringing or religion, we have a problem letting our inner sexual side out to play without feeling guilty. It's probably more true for women than men. Women are pressured from the time they are little girls to be sweet and nice and to keep their legs together despite the fact that their natural female sexuality is just as powerful as a male. Then when they let things go, their guilt comes in to play either consciously or subconsciously and they want to be spanked or told they are sluts or feel punished in some way. Then there are guys that enjoy doing the punishing for some reason or another.

I've always enjoyed and appreciated women who love being secretly slutty and dirty when it's opposite of their "real life" as teachers, soccer moms, nurses, whatever, but who also knew that it was a "game" that allowed them to behave in a way that was not normally accepted. They enjoyed being slutty and bad even if they also liked being spanked for it. But I preferred that they knew is was a bit of a game and didn't live their life worrying about it.

 

[cookiecat]

I am a sex positive girl and like flirting with guys here and there.
My biggest turn on is guys that make me so horny that i just have to be slutty, and then they have to punish me for being a dirty bad girl. Why is it that im so turned on by this?
I just dont understand. I am not like that at all in my day to day life.

Well thank goodness you're not like this in your every day life. Not sure why this is even a question? Are you concerned you're fucking around with too many guys? Does being "bad" bother you?

If you don't like it, you can stop. Otherwise, just enjoy.

 

[cookiecat]

That’s because you crave having your sweet little pussy licked.

Probably the best answer.

 

[cookiecat]

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I've always enjoyed and appreciated women who love being secretly slutty and dirty when it's opposite of their "real life" as teachers, soccer moms, nurses, whatever, but who also knew that it was a "game" that allowed them to behave in a way that was not normally accepted. They enjoyed being slutty and bad even if they also liked being spanked for it. But I preferred that they knew is was a bit of a game and didn't live their life worrying about it.

Oddly, feeling guilty and worrying about it makes me hornier. A little but of emotional masochism, maybe?

 

[Cumlover999]

That’s because you crave having your sweet little pussy licked.

Well yeah thats just it maybe....

 

[Dreamer110]

Well yeah thats just it maybe....

I'm confused. I just don't see a problem with this.

 

[Cumlover999]

I'm confused. I just don't see a problem with this.

Yeah I understand why you are confused, i dont know, but sometimes (when Im unsatisfied and horny) i cant help but think that im some sort of sex crazed maniac, even though Im all for sexpositivity.. some things happend when I was younger, this guy just really started telling me kind of kinky stuff,and I was new to all things sex, so I got horny as hell.
Sometimes I just wonder if I would be that way if he didnt "start" it.

 

[anniebaby10]

Yeah I understand why you are confused, i dont know, but sometimes (when Im unsatisfied and horny) i cant help but think that im some sort of sex crazed maniac, even though Im all for sexpositivity.. some things happend when I was younger, this guy just really started telling me kind of kinky stuff,and I was new to all things sex, so I got horny as hell.
Sometimes I just wonder if I would be that way if he didnt "start" it.

I did not have sex until I was 20 and then have only been with one other guy besides my husband. But love sex and have done pretty much anything you can think of. Just takes the right guy to bring it out in you girl. Been fucking him, eating him, having him eat me, taking it in the ass and anything else you can think of for over 20 years. Keeps our marriage hot and my pussy well satisfied. So I love being slutty at home. And like you, I have a very serious work life where people could never imagine what a little slut I am. So happy for you.

 

[Dreamer110]

Yeah I understand why you are confused, i dont know, but sometimes (when Im unsatisfied and horny) i cant help but think that im some sort of sex crazed maniac, even though Im all for sexpositivity.. some things happend when I was younger, this guy just really started telling me kind of kinky stuff,and I was new to all things sex, so I got horny as hell.
Sometimes I just wonder if I would be that way if he didnt "start" it.

I know what you mean. I met my wife when we were younger. I was the kinky one even if she wasn't exactly innocent. If you didn't know her like I do you'd never expect what she's like alone with me. A few men were lucky enough to find out.

 

[Privates1stClass]

I am a sex positive girl and like flirting with guys here and there.
My biggest turn on is guys that make me so horny that i just have to be slutty, and then they have to punish me for being a dirty bad girl. Why is it that im so turned on by this?
I just dont understand. I am not like that at all in my day to day life.

Seems to me you have an above average sex drive, but I see nothing wrong with that.
Too bad there aren't more women like you.

 

[wantdominantman]

Your are decribing me, indeed!
I love feeling slutty, dominated, even tied up and punished for being such a slut.
I is difficult to be undestood, nevertheless.
Thank you for beiing so understanding and for your awareness

I've known women who were in "power positions" in their career but loved being submissive and punished in their sexual arena. Who can understand what makes us tick sexually? I think sometimes, depending on our upbringing or religion, we have a problem letting our inner sexual side out to play without feeling guilty. It's probably more true for women than men. Women are pressured from the time they are little girls to be sweet and nice and to keep their legs together despite the fact that their natural female sexuality is just as powerful as a male. Then when they let things go, their guilt comes in to play either consciously or subconsciously and they want to be spanked or told they are sluts or feel punished in some way. Then there are guys that enjoy doing the punishing for some reason or another.

I've always enjoyed and appreciated women who love being secretly slutty and dirty when it's opposite of their "real life" as teachers, soccer moms, nurses, whatever, but who also knew that it was a "game" that allowed them to behave in a way that was not normally accepted. They enjoyed being slutty and bad even if they also liked being spanked for it. But I preferred that they knew is was a bit of a game and didn't live their life worrying about it.

 

[MutualMatureMike]

Enjoying sex craving

Sometimes your mind and body just cry out for something sexual, to give or receive, submit or dominate.

 

[spawnofdavey]

Yeah I understand why you are confused, i dont know, but sometimes (when Im unsatisfied and horny) i cant help but think that im some sort of sex crazed maniac, even though Im all for sexpositivity.. some things happend when I was younger, this guy just really started telling me kind of kinky stuff,and I was new to all things sex, so I got horny as hell.
Sometimes I just wonder if I would be that way if he didnt "start" it.

I have very similar thoughts myself.. I was sexualised at a (too) early age, by another man as it happens, but for many years I became obsessed with porn and it kind of took away a period that should have been largely 'innocent' or 'ignorant' of that aspect of life. I often wonder what things would be like now, had I not experienced such an early sexual awakening.

But, it is what it is and I guess I just have to get on with it and be the best I can for those I love.

 

[Lascivity]

Sometimes we want things that seem at odds with our usual self. Sometimes we want those things specifically because they are at odds with our usual selves. It's nothing to be worried about; just human nature.

 

[hisfuckpet]

Yeah I understand why you are confused, i dont know, but sometimes (when Im unsatisfied and horny) i cant help but think that im some sort of sex crazed maniac, even though Im all for sexpositivity.. some things happend when I was younger, this guy just really started telling me kind of kinky stuff,and I was new to all things sex, so I got horny as hell.
Sometimes I just wonder if I would be that way if he didnt "start" it.

We all have our own turnons, and as things go this isn't an unusual one. You can count me in as someone who loves that too, and I'm not ashamed to admit it. Trust me, you should have no trouble finding a guy (or guys) who would love nothing more than to turn you into a horny little sex-goddess and then punish you. I can't imagine what you're getting in your inbox right now, but probably a lot

Time to accept what gets you hot so you can relax and enjoy it!

 

[Snowbunnie12]

I love the comments and PMs. I’m pretty cookie cutter in real life but on hear I like to talk dirty role play etc.

 

[Specula]

I am a sex positive girl and like flirting with guys here and there.
My biggest turn on is guys that make me so horny that i just have to be slutty, and then they have to punish me for being a dirty bad girl. Why is it that im so turned on by this?
I just dont understand. I am not like that at all in my day to day life.

Then you need to be exposed and shown up for what you really are in public - stripped of all those pretty clothes, naked for all your colleagues and the world!

 

[Cumlover999]

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[Lothario1956]

Now that I have Him im happy to say that He gets to deside what I do and dont do in public

you better believe it ....

 

[LibraStud]

I am a sex positive girl and like flirting with guys here and there.
My biggest turn on is guys that make me so horny that i just have to be slutty, and then they have to punish me for being a dirty bad girl. Why is it that im so turned on by this?
I just dont understand. I am not like that at all in my day to day life.

I would love to discuss this more privately, offline. I actually had a girlfriend exactly like you. Since your PM's are turned off,, PM me for my email address if you are interested.

 

[MEbullmoose]

I am a sex positive girl and like flirting with guys here and there.
My biggest turn on is guys that make me so horny that i just have to be slutty, and then they have to punish me for being a dirty bad girl. Why is it that im so turned on by this?
I just dont understand. I am not like that at all in my day to day life.

There are several reasons you maybe turned on by this. But the main reason boils down to the fact you enjoy being a little sassy and dirty sexually. The idea of someone then taking you to punish you only enhances the feeling. It is a way for you to feel free and enjoy moment.

 

[seeshelly]

Cause and effect

I am a sex positive girl and like flirting with guys here and there.
My biggest turn on is guys that make me so horny that i just have to be slutty, and then they have to punish me for being a dirty bad girl. Why is it that im so turned on by this?
I just dont understand. I am not like that at all in my day to day life.

I believe that MOST people, men and women, are sexually repressed by society.

It is an insane battle between society and nature. A craving for sex is in the DNA of most living things and certainly very strong in humans. Humans not only crave sex but we crave sexual variety. Again, society frowns on women that want lots of cock but not no men that want lots of pussy.

My inbox gets jammed with married guys that are not getting enough sex. We all need to start fucking each other more. Guys need to stop the jealous desire to control their wives and encourage them to fuck other men.

There is nothing to be ashamed about regarding sexual needs. The shame is upon fake religious and social efforts to control human sexual nature. It will never work. It will only breed frustration and generate perverted sexual activity. The Catholic church is a prime historical example.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I am a sex positive girl and like flirting with guys here and there.
My biggest turn on is guys that make me so horny that i just have to be slutty, and then they have to punish me for being a dirty bad girl. Why is it that im so turned on by this?
I just dont understand. I am not like that at all in my day to day life.

I can’t speak to your situation, but I will anyway.

I think this could have to do with, a) removing agency (something that’s, you know, popular with subs), and b) removing “culpability” (if you have a background, like many of us, that makes you feel not-so-great on some level about owning sexuality). You want it, but you can’t really want it until someone makes you want it, and then alleviates whatever mild guilt you feel about that.

Or maybe you just like becoming aroused and then punished.

I will say that, as a dominant with a wide sadistic streak, this scenario is appealing. Why? It’s not just that you’re punishing someone for having a normal reaction; you’re eliciting that reaction and then punishing them for something you caused! How beautiful is that? It’s like pushing glass after glass of water on someone and then saying, “If you pee, that means you’re a very naughty girl and I’m going to punish you.”