Ideal age range for your partner?

[TheWorldBuilder]

As the title says, what's your preference?

If you want to make it a little naughtier, split it into practical and fantasy.

I'll start with 25 to 40 or 18 (UK Lits can adjust accordingly) to 60.

 

[dashie33]

Age range? Pfft. As long as they have a pulse.

Or, you know, not. Not like I can afford to be fussy.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I prefer someone close to my age. I don't normally care of people significantly younger. I am 36 and I have no interest in someone who is 18. Let's say 30-45.

 

[Shi_One81]

I’m 38 and am not into younger men, so my range is 38-60 (but they have to be a good looking 60. Some men age well and others don’t.)

 

[DDBustyBrit]

I don’t deviate from 50-60 for a relationship...

I have 3 exceptions in the stable all in their 30’s for fun, the rest are also in their 50’s.

Men are like fine wine, better with some added years to mature and develop. Occasionally I get lucky and find a ‘vintage’! So far I’ve found two here and I intend on hanging onto both indefinitely so I can continue to enjoy them over the years

 

[Shi_One81]

I don’t deviate from 50-60 for a relationship...

I have 3 exceptions in the stable all in their 30’s for fun

What is this stable you speak of?
I can’t keep two straight let alone four.

#Ineedgame

 

[DDBustyBrit]

What is this stable you speak of?
I can’t keep two straight let alone four.

#Ineedgame

You my friend are not only VERY worthy of a ‘Stable’, I’d venture to say you’d be swamped too...

I have he’s not Stable he’s the ‘one’, he knows it, he knows about the stable & all encounters, he positively supports me in it and is rightfully not threatened at all by any of them. He’s the #lovematch #longterm #reallife

Current stable is hovering at around 10’ish!

6 are more than a year with me - 1 is very special (D) my longest & a close friend. We rarely go a day without a text & support through all life’s ups & downs, we laugh, cry, have hot kinky sex it’s a virtual platonic marriage!

3 recent additions - 1 specialized in a kink! 2 untested yet!
3 are boy toys - J being the ‘original’ my Cougar Initiation story is based on and a good friend I’d meet any day
1 is my Lit girlfriend, she’s hot and lovely
1 is a cool new applicant I’m considering as interesting
1 is I know very much mutually desired but a transition we’re taking slowly

DDBB Stable = Lit men I have an established friendship with, they’re trustworthy, not needy/jealous, accept there is ‘the one’ who comes first, will not emotionally attach, fun, smart with great conversation, good kinky lovers, will voice, no drama, protective of me, don’t get caught! Most importantly are friends, so even when no sex we visit regularly & there’s a comfort level & fondness. OH and they can send unsolicited dick pics and do

I don’t do hookups ever, when I ‘play’ away from it’s only in the Stable, with his full knowledge.

I hear from them all the time & value all, they help me decide on pics to post and have given great advice from the male perspective. At times they have strong opinions on my relationship with ‘the one’ and are never backwards in sharing, this I appreciate greatly even when I really don’t want to hear it - there is always mutual respect.

Go get you one....

#igotgame

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

Mature, but a little younger than me...say mid-40's to 50's...

 

[DarkSimian]

Fantasy-wise, 18-25 "I keep getting older, and they just stay the same"

Realistically, late 30s to 40s

Practically, my hand is the same age as I am....

 

[PNWKitten]

Age really isn't important to me. Compatibility is key. I've been involved with older and younger.

 

[parker77]

i don’t have an age range. it just not important to me.

 

[islandjoe2]

37, + or - 12 days.

 

[EctoJohn]

For a long term relationship, anywhere in their 30s.
I feel that gives me the best chance to have something in common.
Also, I desire children some day, and while that depends more
on her age than mine, I don't want to be ancient when my kid is only like 10.

Just for fun, I'd say... under 55, over 20.

Not saying these ages have no leeway, just where I see myself.
Of course, these ages will float as I age.

 

[seeshelly]

Age range

Concepts like this are hard to quantify numerically. There are too many variables. Sexual attraction is itself very complex. I am 40 and typically I do like men that are a little older than me. My husband is 50. I was 20 and he was 30 when we got married. I loved his maturity and still do. But I have been surprised by guys out of my normal age range. When I was 39 I started having desires for my son's best friend. He was 19 at the time. We entered a sexual relationship last January. The idea of having sex with a guy my son's age never would have occurred to me a few years ago. But sexual attraction is that mysterious. Also, when I was 38 I met a guy at our gym that I was instantly attracted to. He was in fantastic shape and practically lived in the gym. I thought he was in his 50s. Maybe just a few years older than my husband. It turned out he was 70. Nevertheless, we had some great sex. So age in itself is not really the key to attraction. And the real key is probably too complex of a recipe to be able to analyze. I have noticed that guys that turn me on are smart, funny, in good shape and most of all they share my attitude about sex.