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Jada59

Jada59

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I know some people will do things that they think are sexy. Sometimes those things come across to me as laughable. Like they are trying to hard. Or an older woman dressing like a much younger woman, but it comes across as childish instead of sexy. At least to me. But...

Can people just naturally be sexy? And if so, are they sexy to everyone or even most people? There's a guy in my life and when he looks at me in a certain way, my knees go weak and I just melt! He just did this to me and I swear he is doing it on purpose, based on the grin he gave me.
 
Some people are lucky/beautiful and can be sexy as fuck all the time.99% of the rest of the world has to work at it.
For some it's a choice for most it's a blessing when we manage it :D
 
Sexy can be intentional and innate. It can be the way someone looks at you. It can be how she carries herself. It can be what she put on before she left the house.

It can be a switch that someone turns on and off. For me it's a reaction. I could be going through my day, minding my own business, and all of a sudden I notice a bit of chemistry. Then I might try a bit harder. Happened last night on my way home.

It can also be developed. It starts with a polite pm that leads to conversation and eventually banter and so on.

Sexy is often very dynamic, occasionally concrete. Just my 2 cents.
 
Jada59 said:
I know some people will do things that they think are sexy. Sometimes those things come across to me as laughable. Like they are trying to hard. Or an older woman dressing like a much younger woman, but it comes across as childish instead of sexy. At least to me. But...

Can people just naturally be sexy? And if so, are they sexy to everyone or even most people? There's a guy in my life and when he looks at me in a certain way, my knees go weak and I just melt! He just did this to me and I swear he is doing it on purpose, based on the grin he gave me.
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Sexy is in the eye of the beholder.

What's sexy to one, may not be to the other.

The trick is finding the other who agrees with you.

;)

Oh, and go talk to that guy...
 
AllAmericanMale said:
Sexy can be intentional and innate. It can be the way someone looks at you. It can be how she carries herself. It can be what she put on before she left the house.

It can be a switch that someone turns on and off. For me it's a reaction. I could be going through my day, minding my own business, and all of a sudden I notice a bit of chemistry. Then I might try a bit harder. Happened last night on my way home.

It can also be developed. It starts with a polite pm that leads to conversation and eventually banter and so on.

Sexy is often very dynamic, occasionally concrete. Just my 2 cents.
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Mmmm... Thanks!
 
Rawhide_101 said:
Sexy is in the eye of the beholder.

What's sexy to one, may not be to the other.

The trick is finding the other who agrees with you.

;)

Oh, and go talk to that guy...
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Ohhh... We're talking! He's watching me dance now!
 
Some people just have sex appeal...not a damned thing they can do about it.
 
Rawhide_101 said:
LOL

Well then, I sense good things about to happen!
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I don't know. He took a video of me dancing to Whole Lot Of Shakin' Going On, by Jerry Lee Lewis and Kid Rock. Not sure what he's going to do with that. I did ask him. He just grinned and then asked me where bad kids go! :confused::confused:
 
FGB said:
Some people just have sex appeal...not a damned thing they can do about it.
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That could be. I don't see women falling all over him when we go out, and my daughter and her friends who are closer to his age than me, don't find him appealing. Hmmm..
 
Jada59 said:
I don't know. He took a video of me dancing to Whole Lot Of Shakin' Going On, by Jerry Lee Lewis and Kid Rock. Not sure what he's going to do with that. I did ask him. He just grinned and then asked me where bad kids go! :confused::confused:
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Methinks there's more to this story. . . ;)

On another note, post the video here?
 
Rawhide_101 said:
Methinks there's more to this story. . . ;)

On another note, post the video here?
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Uh no. Read my sig line!

I am not photogenic and I *hate* having my pic taken or being in videos. My daughter's friend put one of me doing hip hop on Facebook but took it down quickly.

I'm sure there is more to this story. I just feel rather clueless.
 
Jada59 said:
Uh no. Read my sig line!

I am not photogenic and I *hate* having my pic taken or being in videos. My daughter's friend put one of me doing hip hop on Facebook but took it down quickly.

I'm sure there is more to this story. I just feel rather clueless.
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I don't see the sig lines... I have that option turned off. They tend to clutter up the pages... :)

As for the story . . . what's the deal between you and this fellow? Friends? Colleagues? Strangers who met in a bar?

Let's brainstorm! LOL
 
Rawhide_101 said:
I don't see the sig lines... I have that option turned off. They tend to clutter up the pages... :)

As for the story . . . what's the deal between you and this fellow? Friends? Colleagues? Strangers who met in a bar?

Let's brainstorm! LOL
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He's my gardener but also a friend and he lives with me.
 
Sexy? Not beautiful in a super model sense, that's often not sexy at all. I think sexy has to have an element of the attainable which is where I think Jada59's story with her gardener is at. If not attainable it's just looking, just porn, arousing and hot for sure, but not three dimensional I'm-getting-a-piece-of-that sexy.

There's a guy at work, cute but not an adonis. And I like he is a little but chunky, just a hint of overweight - baby fat - which is always preferable to too thin. Anyway he's taken to wearing slow slung jeans under short t-shirts, so every time he bends over you get a flash of flesh and a shadow of ass crack. It's not everyone's cup of tea, I know, but I'm following round like a puppy now waiting for him to bend over a desk or even better, crouch down on his haunches. Have to make sure I'm not holding a pencil too, lest I drop it down the crack.

100% sexy in my eyes. Whether it's learned or just natural, I don't know. Fortuitous choice of garb or calculated? But it's working on me.
 
ericrodman101 said:
Sexy? Not beautiful in a super model sense, that's often not sexy at all. I think sexy has to have an element of the attainable which is where I think Jada59's story with her gardener is at. If not attainable it's just looking, just porn, arousing and hot for sure, but not three dimensional I'm-getting-a-piece-of-that sexy.

There's a guy at work, cute but not an adonis. And I like he is a little but chunky, just a hint of overweight - baby fat - which is always preferable to too thin. Anyway he's taken to wearing slow slung jeans under short t-shirts, so every time he bends over you get a flash of flesh and a shadow of ass crack. It's not everyone's cup of tea, I know, but I'm following round like a puppy now waiting for him to bend over a desk or even better, crouch down on his haunches. Have to make sure I'm not holding a pencil too, lest I drop it down the crack.

100% sexy in my eyes. Whether it's learned or just natural, I don't know. Fortuitous choice of garb or calculated? But it's working on me.
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Mmm...
 
Jada59 said:
Well... He gives me really good hugs that cause me to orgasm! But no actual sex unless you count astral projection sex. :D
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What's stopping you or him from taking this relationship to another level?
 
Jada59 said:
Can people just naturally be sexy? And if so, are they sexy to everyone or even most people?
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I think my wife is naturally sexy but hey that's why I want to be with her.

I am aware of males and females alike saying that she has "natural sex appeal" so I guess it is possible to be sexy for others.
 
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