What Are You Thinking? Continued 4

[JerseyJade]

I am thinking that shaming another person because they are different than you is a horrible thing to do.

Amy, just tell them to fuck off! I'm sick of people who think they're better than everyone else.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I'm with PNW on this. Discussion of types of relationships are totally fair game, that's what this site is about.

Furthermore, I agree with her, I hate to see people, women especially be controlled. I've seen too many women be told who they can talk to, where they can or cannot go, have their freedom restricted by financial controls. Men who hold women back are weak and insecure.

There was a woman who I pm'd with a couple times. She always copied her Lit bf on all the pm's. Did he demand this? Did she just do it for transparency? I didn't know, but it smacked of insecurity and mistrust. Nothing I would ever want in a relationship.

I know there's a control dynamic that some people appreciate, I didn't get that PNW was shaming that. I didn't read that at all in her post, I took it at face value and happen I agree with her that telling a partner that they are not allowed to communicate without permission, sounds insecure, if not abusive to me.

This. It becomes your business when it's your friends that are being told who they can and cannot talk to/ do things with.
There is a difference between somebody telling you that, they hope you will not talk to somebody, because they don't want to see you get hurt. Vs. somebody who just strictly says, you cannot talk to somebody.
I have no idea what started this. But I can still agree that I don't understand letting anybody tell you who you can, and cannot talk to. I try to understand everything. Even if it is not something I want to do. Protection should be loving and caring.

 

[Fugu_B]

This. It becomes your business when it's your friends that are being told who they can and cannot talk to/ do things with.
There is a difference between somebody telling you that, they hope you will not talk to somebody, because they don't want to see you get hurt. Vs. somebody who just strictly says, you cannot talk to somebody.
I have no idea what started this. But I can still agree that I don't understand letting anybody tell you who you can, and cannot talk to. I try to understand everything. Even if it is not something I want to do. Protection should be loving and caring.

That’s not what’s going on here. A lot of people don’t understand that.

 

[SassySheDevil]

That’s not what’s going on here. A lot of people don’t understand that.

Well then. Fuck off to all the people outside the circle of knowledge.

 

[cole4258]

Well then. Fuck off to all the people outside the circle of knowledge.

^Funny

Way to tell em Sassy

 

[AbsintheFather]

That’s not what’s going on here. A lot of people don’t understand that.

Maybe I didn't understand it Lord knows, I've said things before without understanding the background or full context - right Sassy?

Nonetheless, I stand by my comments in the context they were offered (which may not be the correct context). I'm leaving to go enjoy yardwork and the rest of my Saturday.

 

[ydahecnot]

Go Sparty!

 

[AbsintheFather]

Go Sparty!

Go hang out with LakeSailer

 

[Fugu_B]

Well then. Fuck off to all the people outside the circle of knowledge.

If that’s the way you want to take it

Let’s look at it your way then, sort of.

The only ‘circle of knowledge’ that matters are the two persons who have decided that it’s best for them

 

[mnbreastluver]

How about them Yankees!

 

[beachbaby179]

How about them Yankees!

Phew...thought you were going to want to talk about the Devils.

 

[ydahecnot]

Go hang out with LakeSailer

THE Buckeyes need a bit of a test

 

[AlwaysFara]

If that’s the way you want to take it

Let’s look at it your way then, sort of.

The only ‘circle of knowledge’ that matters are the two persons who have decided that it’s best for them

Yes.
And yeah. They can say whatever they want. And will. But in the end their words don’t mean a damn thing. Remember that, Amy.

 

[mnbreastluver]

Phew...thought you were going to want to talk about the Devils.

I don’t follow the Devils but maybe I should.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Maybe I didn't understand it Lord knows, I've said things before without understanding the background or full context - right Sassy?

Nonetheless, I stand by my comments in the context they were offered (which may not be the correct context). I'm leaving to go enjoy yardwork and the rest of my Saturday.

haha old news. But you were sweet enough to come to me and talk it out with me.

 

[Fugu_B]

I sure hope that the pumpkin patch isn’t crowded.

 

[Lothario1956]

Isn't a new love just the best thing ever?

 

[smtst5]

Let’s start this day over shall we?

 

[DarkSimian]

Well, that escalated quickly...

 

[Azuldrgon]

I got up at 8 today. Felt weird.

 

[PNWKitten]

Wow, I had no idea a comment would cause such a stir.

First thank you AF for defending me. I appreciate you seeing it for what it wasnt...an insult, a shaming tactic or anything else nefarious.

Second I apologize to Amy for thinking I was attempting to shame her.

Thirdly. I can have an opinion without it being judgemental.

To anyone else that chose to egg on the comment. Kindly put me on ignore so you cant see my posts because I will continue to say exactly what and how I wish to say them just like everyone else. (especially those who think its ok to do it but others cant...yes I'm talking about you).

 

[AlwaysFara]

Wow, I had no idea a comment would cause such a stir.

First thank you AF for defending me. I appreciate you seeing it for what it wasnt...an insult, a shaming tactic or anything else nefarious.

Second I apologize to Amy for thinking I was attempting to shame her.

Thirdly. I can have an opinion without it being judgemental.

To anyone else that chose to egg on the comment. Kindly put me on ignore so you cant see my posts because I will continue to say exactly what and how I wish to say them just like everyone else. (especially those who think its ok to do it but others cant...yes I'm talking about you).

I have one person on ignore ATM, and it ain’t you.
I looooooove seeing what almost everyone says all day, every day. That’s why I’m here.

Oh wait, 2. Forgot about Knoturnal.

 

[Spins]

Shit. How did I miss that bill?!?

 

[AllAmericanMale]

Florida is gonna have a fight on it's hands today against auburn.

Good football.

 

[JerseyJade]

A friend wants to have a girls night out next Saturday and wants me to go. I want to go, but I don't know if I should. Decisions, decisions, decisions.