I am sure this topic has been here before. I am mail in mid 40s and half particularly enjoyed nipple play over the last several years, especially as I have a stretched them. Nipple stimulation is very arousing for me, especially when sucked! Curious on a female perspective on this as well as general Thought. I get the impression that male nipples generally are fairly non-sensitive and not a sensual sir sexual focus? I am open for one on one discussion via PM but thought I would get some general thoughts here ...
Sensitive male nipples
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Well, I think you need to maybe open your mind a bit more or get more experience. I'm now an older male, 59 yo. My nipples are and have always been highly sensitive...seemingly directly connected to my cock. No stretching. No clamps. Just naturally sensitive. In my 20s and 30s, I could cum sometimes just by my lover licking and kissing my nipples. One lover just kissed me and ran her hardened nipples over mine until we both came as her nipples were as sensitive as mine.
On the other hand, my ex-wife had incredible tits with big, beautiful nipples that were always hard. But you know what, she had absolutely no sensation in them. She just couldn't be stimulated at all by playing with her nipples or breasts.
The point is...EVERYONE is different. Male and female alike. Many males have sensitive nipples, several of which I know. It just may be that many haven't had them played with or played with them themselves because of conservative lifestyles or thinking it wasn't manly. And many women, like my ex, have nipples that aren't sensitive...even clits that aren't sensitive.
EVERYONE is different. The joy of sex is finding out your partner's errogenous zones, what turns them on, what turns you on. To just generalize that male nipples aren't sensitive -- or even assuming that all female nipples are -- is just silly. Stop thinking and start doing the work to find out the different things that turn on the people you're with and you'll find a much better sex life for both you and your partner.
On the other hand, my ex-wife had incredible tits with big, beautiful nipples that were always hard. But you know what, she had absolutely no sensation in them. She just couldn't be stimulated at all by playing with her nipples or breasts.
The point is...EVERYONE is different. Male and female alike. Many males have sensitive nipples, several of which I know. It just may be that many haven't had them played with or played with them themselves because of conservative lifestyles or thinking it wasn't manly. And many women, like my ex, have nipples that aren't sensitive...even clits that aren't sensitive.
EVERYONE is different. The joy of sex is finding out your partner's errogenous zones, what turns them on, what turns you on. To just generalize that male nipples aren't sensitive -- or even assuming that all female nipples are -- is just silly. Stop thinking and start doing the work to find out the different things that turn on the people you're with and you'll find a much better sex life for both you and your partner.
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Based on the men I've been with, I'd say that they are sensitive but most males won't admit to it. I base this on how hard their cocks get when I lick, suck or run my fingers over them. Seems a lot of guys see nipple stimulation as a gay thing. I don't get it.
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I don't get it either. My nipples are extremely sensitive but it somehow took me... 20 years?! To make this clear to my wife. She now plays with them a lot but still does not seem to consider sucking them.
I don't get it either. I have extremely sensitive nipples and I'm not afraid to admit.
I love to have my nipples stimulated. I cum very quickly when she plays with them.
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Love it.
I have to pin my wife's arms down sometimes, to keep her off my nipples. Nipple stimulation causes me to cum much harder and much quicker.
If she's is a huge hurry (you know, book, game, IG) she will just start licking them so she can get back to whatever it was she was being distracted by.
Often now she is surprised (all fours) if I cum without nipple stimulation.
My favorite is if she is wearing a satin thong, she will take the whale tail and rub it on my nipples during foreplay (schwing!).
I have to pin my wife's arms down sometimes, to keep her off my nipples. Nipple stimulation causes me to cum much harder and much quicker.
If she's is a huge hurry (you know, book, game, IG) she will just start licking them so she can get back to whatever it was she was being distracted by.
Often now she is surprised (all fours) if I cum without nipple stimulation.
My favorite is if she is wearing a satin thong, she will take the whale tail and rub it on my nipples during foreplay (schwing!).
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My nipples are super sensitive and get long and hard when I’m aroused. A definite hot zone for me. Pinch them, lick them, suck them. Gets me very hot!
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I don't know if mine have gotten extra sensitive lately, but I think about getting my nipples pierces. Would that be too much?
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My are super sensitive now. Never used to be but now its a straight connection to my cock. I might get my left one pierced so my wife and I will have a a matching set.
Please let me know if you get yours done.
Please let me know if you get yours done.
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I love getting mine sucked while I’m being stroked.
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My wife discovered how sensitive my nipples are and would use that knowledge to make me come when she wanted during a love making session.
If you play with them enough while masturbating, you can end up with a pair that are almost over sensitive. It drives me crazy enough to almost believe those stories of women who submit because of their nipples being stimulated.
If you play with them enough while masturbating, you can end up with a pair that are almost over sensitive. It drives me crazy enough to almost believe those stories of women who submit because of their nipples being stimulated.
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Mine are sensitive, and it took years before my wife and I added her playing with them to our foreplay activities. She's become very good at sucking/nibbling them. I find myself playing with them more and more. Love rubbing a little oil on them - they get harder than I ever expected. I wish they'd get a little bigger so she can bite them easier . . .
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Yeah mine are pretty... petite.
Ok! I can relate to this! My nipples are super sensitive. Im 35 now and have started to visit this aspect of my body again.
I was super apposed to nipple stuff before because it was just so sensitive, but as i play with myself a little more i think its changing a little. I could have found a different erogenous zone/chakra/happy place lol.
it does kind of all connect if you just let it happen. Not prepared to let my wife grab on with her teeth yet though!!!
good god!
I was super apposed to nipple stuff before because it was just so sensitive, but as i play with myself a little more i think its changing a little. I could have found a different erogenous zone/chakra/happy place lol.
it does kind of all connect if you just let it happen. Not prepared to let my wife grab on with her teeth yet though!!!
good god!
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My nipples I wouldn’t call sensitive. I own 3 different kinds of nipple clamps. One day I was bored and curious to what they felt like. I tried a pair that would cause some uncomfortableness, when I released them and the blood rushed back. They became really sensitive for around 3 hours afterwards. I say if felt quite pleasant. I don’t think it’s a gay thing.
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My story...
Hi, Maybe you will enjoy this story I submitted earlier this year. Would love to hear your thoughts.
Jay
https://www.literotica.com/s/nipple-play-3
Hi, Maybe you will enjoy this story I submitted earlier this year. Would love to hear your thoughts.
Jay
https://www.literotica.com/s/nipple-play-3
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Although I'm bi, I've never had sensitive nipples and they're not at all on my radar for sexual pleasure. I don't find someone touching or sucking them unpleasant, but it's not a sexual thing for me and the sensation is not much different from touching any other non-sexual part of my body.
I did have one bisexual girlfriend who occasionally wanted to suck my nipples, and that was pretty erotic to me but more because of her deep, primal desire to nurse on women rather than the physical pleasure it gave me.
I did have one bisexual girlfriend who occasionally wanted to suck my nipples, and that was pretty erotic to me but more because of her deep, primal desire to nurse on women rather than the physical pleasure it gave me.
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Mine are rock hard just from reading this thread.
My husband loves his played with. I love when we are making love and I will reach up and rub them. He will gasp and fuck me harder! Its fun. Then when I pinch them, he will often cum in just a few seconds. I have started calling his nipples his little cum buttons or cum switches!
I'll put my hand up as another man who likes his nipples played with. I can tell you there's nothing more heavenly than getting your nipples sucked whilst getting a blowjob.
If you've had your wife riding you whilst bending down to suck your nipples that too is also quite an experience.
If you've had your wife riding you whilst bending down to suck your nipples that too is also quite an experience.
Same here. My wife learned that she can make me cum, almost instantly, when she plays with my nipples. She seems to like that power, especially if I am taking a little too long to cum.
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I can join in here, my nipples and chest in general are very sensitive. I can go crazy from a right caress over my ribs, to the point that if such would happen unintentionally, it can be highly unpleasant also.
When playing with myself I often start with touching my nipples, play with my imagined boobies... yes, for me, it's also direct connection to my inner femininity, with is then contrasted with male aspect when my dick comes into play; female me is touching male me, and vice versa, then we make love to myself. Sounds a bit schizo, yes.
I used to think I'm unique in this, a freak trained himself this way since early age, and conditioned to think my nipples cannot be as sensitive as true female must be, but I also eventually discovered neither of that is true and individual variation widely exceeds any gender stereotypes.
After all, nipples are nipples, and despite some physiological differences, mostly wired the same way.
When playing with myself I often start with touching my nipples, play with my imagined boobies... yes, for me, it's also direct connection to my inner femininity, with is then contrasted with male aspect when my dick comes into play; female me is touching male me, and vice versa, then we make love to myself. Sounds a bit schizo, yes.
I used to think I'm unique in this, a freak trained himself this way since early age, and conditioned to think my nipples cannot be as sensitive as true female must be, but I also eventually discovered neither of that is true and individual variation widely exceeds any gender stereotypes.
After all, nipples are nipples, and despite some physiological differences, mostly wired the same way.
