Sexless Marriages

41mwm. Sexless marriage. Sigh. My situation is more kid related then attraction etc. Sex is terrific when we can but has been less then once a month because of lack of opportunity. Its exactly how I ended up here years ago lol. I'd love to chat with someone in similar situation. Looking for someone to flirt with and chat and create satisfaction with words.
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This is where I have to disagree. Instead of spending time on here chasing strange pussy, you should be spending that time chasing yours. You say it's lack of opportunity? Slow down, turn off the computer an make and opportunity!

Somewhat agree with you. Im chasing mine, but she's the one who won't put phone down, get off computer, or put book down to answer me.
 
Somewhat agree with you. Im chasing mine, but she's the one who won't put phone down, get off computer, or put book down to answer me.

Schedule the time. Sit down and make some rules you can both live with. She still can/will have sex.

For us, SWMBO has vaginal pain that makes sex a no-go for her no matter what we try. We’ve seen an array of MD’s without success. On top of that, she’s got a medical condition known to lead to a lack of sexual desire and then menopause hit her like a ton of bricks. I feel bad for her, but am frustrated because she doesn’t want to play in any sexual way.

I guess I’m suffering from a mid-wife crisis.
 
Schedule the time. Sit down and make some rules you can both live with. She still can/will have sex.

For us, SWMBO has vaginal pain that makes sex a no-go for her no matter what we try. We’ve seen an array of MD’s without success. On top of that, she’s got a medical condition known to lead to a lack of sexual desire and then menopause hit her like a ton of bricks. I feel bad for her, but am frustrated because she doesn’t want to play in any sexual way.

I guess I’m suffering from a mid-wife crisis.

Lack of nookie syndrome....
 
Schedule the time. Sit down and make some rules you can both live with. She still can/will have sex.

For us, SWMBO has vaginal pain that makes sex a no-go for her no matter what we try. We’ve seen an array of MD’s without success. On top of that, she’s got a medical condition known to lead to a lack of sexual desire and then menopause hit her like a ton of bricks. I feel bad for her, but am frustrated because she doesn’t want to play in any sexual way.

I guess I’m suffering from a mid-wife crisis.

LOL... that's not my quote on top. (Laughing at the misquote, not his or her situation)
 
Same song...

I don’t know how long it’s been, but it started to decline after she had a tumor the size of a basketball removed along with some other important things. In the abstract she understands what has happened and how it affects both of us, but that doesn’t make things much easier.

I’m moving towards changing my work situation so that I can have more time both for us and for myself. We’ll see how it goes. :)
 
I will agree!!

What we need is a Lit cruise annually the unsatisfied partner can go on, omg we’d have fun 😂

I would say the majority feel they are with the wrong person, but for some reason most of us stay with them, and air our frustrations on forums!!

I was discussing this with a male friend here also in his 50’s recently and we came to the conclusion our financial situations and fast looming retirement plans do it for our age group. We also agreed how sad that is for all of us and it really is a tragedy. Life is not about what we accumulate, it’s about experiences, love and happiness.

We both agreed for the right person we might break this sad cycle, as we want to actually ‘live’!
 
What we need is a Lit cruise annually the unsatisfied partner can go on, omg we’d have fun 😂



I was discussing this with a male friend here also in his 50’s recently and we came to the conclusion our financial situations and fast looming retirement plans do it for our age group. We also agreed how sad that is for all of us and it really is a tragedy. Life is not about what we accumulate, it’s about experiences, love and happiness.

We both agreed for the right person we might break this sad cycle, as we want to actually ‘live’!

Would we call that cruise...The Love .Boat...:rolleyes:
 
I don’t know how long it’s been, but it started to decline after she had a tumor the size of a basketball removed along with some other important things. In the abstract she understands what has happened and how it affects both of us, but that doesn’t make things much easier.

I’m moving towards changing my work situation so that I can have more time both for us and for myself. We’ll see how it goes. :)

Hope it works out.
 
Welcome to the suck and fuck cruise today. The only cruise where you can suck and or fuck each other brains out without worry of regret, remorse, or being thrown overboard. Guys, just remember to respect the ladies. Ladies, you may tease to your heart's content. Let the fuck and suck cruise begin! Lol

Sorry. That just popped in my head.
 
Welcome to the suck and fuck cruise today. The only cruise where you can suck and or fuck each other brains out without worry of regret, remorse, or being thrown overboard. Guys, just remember to respect the ladies. Ladies, you may tease to your heart's content. Let the fuck and suck cruise begin! Lol

Sorry. That just popped in my head.

Can you take us through the evacuation proceedure, I'm worried about icebergs
 
Hello

51 year old male

I also am in a sexless marriage been 3 years now and 28 years since I felt what it was like to get a blowjob .

and sign me up for the fuck and suck cruise
 
What we need is a Lit cruise annually the unsatisfied partner can go on, omg we’d have fun 😂



I was discussing this with a male friend here also in his 50’s recently and we came to the conclusion our financial situations and fast looming retirement plans do it for our age group. We also agreed how sad that is for all of us and it really is a tragedy. Life is not about what we accumulate, it’s about experiences, love and happiness.

We both agreed for the right person we might break this sad cycle, as we want to actually ‘live’!

Totally agree, part of me thinks at my age (although not really old,young at heart) do I want to start again, as it won't be just a walk away and start again there are months/years of settlements, emotional strain etc. is it worth it. But the other side of me thinks I have so much to give to the right person long term that I could be tempted to go for it. Ok lets be real I would go for it.. I miss the intimacy and loving/flirty conversations a relationship should bring
 
What we need is a Lit cruise annually the unsatisfied partner can go on, omg we’d have fun 😂

Bahahahaha, Lit cruise, wow where an when ? :)

I was discussing this with a male friend here also in his 50’s recently and we came to the conclusion our financial situations and fast looming retirement plans do it for our age group. We also agreed how sad that is for all of us and it really is a tragedy. Life is not about what we accumulate, it’s about experiences, love and happiness.

We both agreed for the right person we might break this sad cycle, as we want to actually ‘live’!

So Very True
 
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