The feeling of being overpowered by a man

BrightShinyGirl

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I’m not talking about forced or rough sex, or male dominance, which is why I didn’t put this in the BDSM forum. I’m talking about the times during normal sex when the male/female strength differential all of a sudden becomes really obvious. Things like:
  • He presses you hard back against a wall while he’s kissing you.
  • He picks you up off the ground and holds you in the air with your feet dangling.
  • You’re fucking, and you’re on your back and he’s on top, and he pins your arms over your head.
  • You’re on your hands and knees and his hands are on your hips controlling the angle while he thrusts into you.
I suppose there’s a little bit of dominance/submission going on, but it’s incidental to the passion of the moment. Mostly it’s just that he’s really turned on and he’s much stronger than you and so naturally sometimes he overpowers you.

Can I just say ... I love love love moments like this. I find male strength really sexy and being reminded of just how strong he is during the throes of passion ... mmmmmmm ... it turns me to jelly. I always feel the urge to struggle, just for the thrill of realizing that it’s pointless.

Any other women who like being overpowered?
 
I’m not talking about forced or rough sex, or male dominance, which is why I didn’t put this in the BDSM forum. I’m talking about the times during normal sex when the male/female strength differential all of a sudden becomes really obvious. Things like:
  • He presses you hard back against a wall while he’s kissing you.
  • He picks you up off the ground and holds you in the air with your feet dangling.
  • You’re fucking, and you’re on your back and he’s on top, and he pins your arms over your head.
  • You’re on your hands and knees and his hands are on your hips controlling the angle while he thrusts into you.
I suppose there’s a little bit of dominance/submission going on, but it’s incidental to the passion of the moment. Mostly it’s just that he’s really turned on and he’s much stronger than you and so naturally sometimes he overpowers you.

Can I just say ... I love love love moments like this. I find male strength really sexy and being reminded of just how strong he is during the throes of passion ... mmmmmmm ... it turns me to jelly. I always feel the urge to struggle, just for the thrill of realizing that it’s pointless.

Any other women who like being overpowered?

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I've actually only encountered this once, myself. She wanted me to hold her wrists firmly above and to her sides while I suckled her breasts. She very much liked the fact I could hold her immobile with very little effort and very obviously turned her on even more.
 
I have experienced that and yes, It is the very best feeling. In public is nice and really special.
 
Oh yes great thread. I just love it. My man is a bodybuilder type, very muscular and powerful. He's much, much taller than little me. To be so overwhelmed physically is such a turn on. A big, powerful well endowed beast taking whatever and however he desires, me like putty in his hands. Oh my, such raw sexuality.

That said, when it comes to things of an oral nature I seem to have the special skills required to soothe my savage beast! ;):devil::heart:
 
I’m not talking about forced or rough sex, or male dominance, which is why I didn’t put this in the BDSM forum. I’m talking about the times during normal sex when the male/female strength differential all of a sudden becomes really obvious. Things like:
  • He presses you hard back against a wall while he’s kissing you.
  • He picks you up off the ground and holds you in the air with your feet dangling.
  • You’re fucking, and you’re on your back and he’s on top, and he pins your arms over your head.
  • You’re on your hands and knees and his hands are on your hips controlling the angle while he thrusts into you.
I suppose there’s a little bit of dominance/submission going on, but it’s incidental to the passion of the moment. Mostly it’s just that he’s really turned on and he’s much stronger than you and so naturally sometimes he overpowers you.

Can I just say ... I love love love moments like this. I find male strength really sexy and being reminded of just how strong he is during the throes of passion ... mmmmmmm ... it turns me to jelly. I always feel the urge to struggle, just for the thrill of realizing that it’s pointless.

Any other women who like being overpowered?

Well written and yes, yes, yes.
 
I had a lady friend who was very partial to having me push her down face first on the bed while her ass was still in the air, grab her wrists and hold them behind her back while I fucked her standing behind her. We would go to one particular motel that had rooms with large mirrors over the dresser in a way that she could watch. I think it was as much a turn on for both of use to watch the people in the mirror.
 
Oh yes. I love a strong man, especially with big, strong hands. I like to tease him enough to make him go slightly mad, and then give myself to him. Two things I like are:
a) submitting myself on hands and knees and his strong hands spreading my ass and thighs for a hard, ball-slapping fuck from behind. Even if I don't come before he does, I love him grabbing me hard and having his way with me. Then collapsing, spent, while I finish myself off.
b) being on my back and him grabbing my ankles to spread me wide. The look on his face seeing me fully exposed and his hard cock ready to penetrate me. Then his hot, heavy body pressing me down against the bed while he fucks me.
 
Oh yes. I love a strong man, especially with big, strong hands. I like to tease him enough to make him go slightly mad, and then give myself to him. Two things I like are:
a) submitting myself on hands and knees and his strong hands spreading my ass and thighs for a hard, ball-slapping fuck from behind. Even if I don't come before he does, I love him grabbing me hard and having his way with me. Then collapsing, spent, while I finish myself off.
b) being on my back and him grabbing my ankles to spread me wide. The look on his face seeing me fully exposed and his hard cock ready to penetrate me. Then his hot, heavy body pressing me down against the bed while he fucks me.


This!
 
I’m not talking about forced or rough sex, or male dominance, which is why I didn’t put this in the BDSM forum. I’m talking about the times during normal sex when the male/female strength differential all of a sudden becomes really obvious. Things like:
  • He presses you hard back against a wall while he’s kissing you.
  • He picks you up off the ground and holds you in the air with your feet dangling.
  • You’re fucking, and you’re on your back and he’s on top, and he pins your arms over your head.
  • You’re on your hands and knees and his hands are on your hips controlling the angle while he thrusts into you.
I suppose there’s a little bit of dominance/submission going on, but it’s incidental to the passion of the moment. Mostly it’s just that he’s really turned on and he’s much stronger than you and so naturally sometimes he overpowers you.

Can I just say ... I love love love moments like this. I find male strength really sexy and being reminded of just how strong he is during the throes of passion ... mmmmmmm ... it turns me to jelly. I always feel the urge to struggle, just for the thrill of realizing that it’s pointless.

Any other women who like being overpowered?

Very sexy fantasy!
 
I’m not talking about forced or rough sex, or male dominance, which is why I didn’t put this in the BDSM forum. I’m talking about the times during normal sex when the male/female strength differential all of a sudden becomes really obvious. Things like:
  • He presses you hard back against a wall while he’s kissing you.
  • He picks you up off the ground and holds you in the air with your feet dangling.
  • You’re fucking, and you’re on your back and he’s on top, and he pins your arms over your head.
  • You’re on your hands and knees and his hands are on your hips controlling the angle while he thrusts into you.
I suppose there’s a little bit of dominance/submission going on, but it’s incidental to the passion of the moment. Mostly it’s just that he’s really turned on and he’s much stronger than you and so naturally sometimes he overpowers you.

Can I just say ... I love love love moments like this. I find male strength really sexy and being reminded of just how strong he is during the throes of passion ... mmmmmmm ... it turns me to jelly. I always feel the urge to struggle, just for the thrill of realizing that it’s pointless.

Any other women who like being overpowered?

My fair lady isn’t in to that, except...

She had a one night fling with our good friend many years ago. I got very sleepy after trying marijuana for the first time, and went to bed very early. The magic brownies had a different effect on her, and she began flirting with him, and after awhile really started teasing him, flashing her tits while they played cards in the kitchen. She got quite horny and bold. After she left her panties on the bathroom floor, he took the hint. When he came back from the bathroom she was on her knees on a chair, bending over the kitchen table. He lifted her robe and used his tongue on her for a few minutes, then put his cock in her for a quick, hard fuck.

She thought it was one and done, and said she had to go to bed. He had a different idea. He pinned her up against the wall, and forcibly removed her robe. He was pretty worked up, and within a few minutes had his cock inside her again as he lifted her up against the wall. She had her first orgasm of a long night. He fucked her a total of four times that night, and she sucked him off twice as well. Getting pinned against the wall really lit her fire that night...

I slept through all of that, but she awakened me about 3AM or so as she sucked my cock. Once I was hard, she mounted me and gave me a good fucking. I was a bit surprised to see our friend standing naked in the doorway as we fucked. As I dozed off again, she left the room. That’s when she gave him his second blow job of the night.

Just wish I’d been awake to watch all the action that night!
 
She thought it was one and done, and said she had to go to bed. He had a different idea. He pinned her up against the wall, and forcibly removed her robe. He was pretty worked up, and within a few minutes had his cock inside her again as he lifted her up against the wall. She had her first orgasm of a long night. He fucked her a total of four times that night, and she sucked him off twice as well. Getting pinned against the wall really lit her fire that night...
Oh that’s very hot!

Yes it’s got to be the right moment for it. Preferably when you’re both really excited. He can’t hold himself back, but you also don’t want him to hold himself back. You want to feel his raw male physical strength.
 
Oh that’s very hot!

Yes it’s got to be the right moment for it. Preferably when you’re both really excited. He can’t hold himself back, but you also don’t want him to hold himself back. You want to feel his raw male physical strength.

It must have been quite a powerful experience, frankly quite out of character for her.

I’m disappointed that we didn’t have further experiences with him. But happy that she had a truly wonderful experience that night!
 
I’m not talking about forced or rough sex, or male dominance, which is why I didn’t put this in the BDSM forum. I’m talking about the times during normal sex when the male/female strength differential all of a sudden becomes really obvious. Things like:
  • He presses you hard back against a wall while he’s kissing you.
  • He picks you up off the ground and holds you in the air with your feet dangling.
  • You’re fucking, and you’re on your back and he’s on top, and he pins your arms over your head.
  • You’re on your hands and knees and his hands are on your hips controlling the angle while he thrusts into you.
I suppose there’s a little bit of dominance/submission going on, but it’s incidental to the passion of the moment. Mostly it’s just that he’s really turned on and he’s much stronger than you and so naturally sometimes he overpowers you.

Can I just say ... I love love love moments like this. I find male strength really sexy and being reminded of just how strong he is during the throes of passion ... mmmmmmm ... it turns me to jelly. I always feel the urge to struggle, just for the thrill of realizing that it’s pointless.

Any other women who like being overpowered?
This is part of reason I’m so into dancing. I get to use my strength to do various throws and the succeeding hold, and spins. With the right woman who needs to be somewhat strong herself it can be fantastic. Without any sexual touching, it can still be incredibly sexual.
 
Not the designed dominance in the BDSM style. The natural masculine male strength is what's overpowering and magnetic.
“ A little bit of dominance/submission incidental to the passion of the moment”----spontaneous, genuine and original ..
 
Can I just say ... I love love love moments like this. I find male strength really sexy and being reminded of just how strong he is during the throes of passion ... mmmmmmm ... it turns me to jelly. I always feel the urge to struggle, just for the thrill of realizing that it’s pointless.

Any other women who like being overpowered?

I so understand this. *sign* I’ve spent a better part of my life 24/7 being in charge, household, kids and my day job. I work in an industry that is dominated by men and I spend most of my time asserting myself and telling them what to do (usually how something isn’t done right), I come home tell my teens what to do, then my husband comes home and I need to tell him how things are rolling for the rest of the week and how he can help out to make it all happen.

I spend a lot of time fantasizing about having that power shift in the bedroom. I love a good deep throating or being fucked really hard. Essentially being a tad helpless and subjective to someone else’s wants. Hell, My headboard is perfect for being tied up. I could ask, but in someways that would defeat the purpose.
 
I so understand this. *sign* I’ve spent a better part of my life 24/7 being in charge, household, kids and my day job. I work in an industry that is dominated by men and I spend most of my time asserting myself and telling them what to do (usually how something isn’t done right), I come home tell my teens what to do, then my husband comes home and I need to tell him how things are rolling for the rest of the week and how he can help out to make it all happen.

I spend a lot of time fantasizing about having that power shift in the bedroom. I love a good deep throating or being fucked really hard. Essentially being a tad helpless and subjective to someone else’s wants. Hell, My headboard is perfect for being tied up. I could ask, but in someways that would defeat the purpose.

I hope that you find a good time to ask and a receptive hubby.
 
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