fucked up girl with dark thoughts and a sexy voice...

[fuckedup_girl]

...seeking equally fucked up man for a text and voice friendship with a possible sexual element.

The person I'm looking for:

• is intelligent and literate; can carry a conversation
• is willing to have nonsexual conversations until we know each other a bit
• has rape fantasies often and is willing to discuss them
• is able and willing to talk on voice a few times a week if we like each other
• is not in a relationship with someone who would object to us talking if she knew about it
• is ideally between the ages of 35-55, but I can flex a bit on that if you fit the other stuff on this list

AND...

• is NOT attracted to actual underage children
• is NOT aroused by bestiality
• has a clear and firm grasp on the difference between fantasy and reality
• has never abused or sexually assaulted anyone or had a "questionable encounter/grey area" that might have been assault
• would NEVER actually abuse or assault a nonconsenting person even given the opportunity to get away with it

From my brief experience in the chat rooms here, the caveats unfortunately seem necessary to clarify. I could never feel comfortable discussing this sort of thing with anyone who doesn't fit those requirements.

About me:

• 20something
• extremely fucked up sexually!
• cute, awkward, clever, nerdy, friendly, sarcastic, sweet, playful
• have been frequently complimented on my sexy voice
• easy to talk to, easygoing, open minded
• genuinely interested in hearing about your dark thoughts and fantasies, but also your day and your nonsexual interests
• a good friend

I know this is a long shot, especially with all my caveats and my desire to actually form some sort of friendship. I'm just going a bit crazy not having anyone to talk to about this and I simply can't resort to talking to random barely-literate creeps who want to tell me about the crimes they've committed, so I have to try.

If you sound like the guy I described and are interested in pursuing this, please send me a message to tell me a bit about yourself (age, interests, etc. - I don't care what you look like) and ask any questions you have. Then if I'm interested I'll reply, and we can start getting to know each other!

Thank you for reading!

 

[partofsheets]

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[AlliaPotestas]

Good luck, sorry you’ve had a shitty experience in the chat rooms - there are lots of decent guys here, telling them apart from the cockwombles can be a dark art...

Hope you find what you’re looking for,

 

[exxcuuse]

Hello fuckedup_girl,

No doubts you will soon get any suitors!
Might you get good surprises among them.

I am not sure i am exactly what you re looking for, sadly.

Have a lovely day.

 

[mohitr123]

Pm sent...i hope we can have a connection .

 

[MrDevereaux]

One of the most well written, fully formed and enjoyable to read personals.

 

[fuckedup_girl]

Good luck, sorry you’ve had a shitty experience in the chat rooms - there are lots of decent guys here, telling them apart from the cockwombles can be a dark art...

Hope you find what you’re looking for,

One of the most well written, fully formed and enjoyable to read personals.

Thank you, these replies are so kind!

The fact that what I want to discuss is not a popular topic and the fact that I'd like it to be with someone I can like as a person are both working against me, I think! Hopefully someone will turn up anyway though!

 

[MrDevereaux]

Thank you, these replies are so kind!

The fact that what I want to discuss is not a popular topic and the fact that I'd like it to be with someone I can like as a person are both working against me, I think! Hopefully someone will turn up anyway though!

You know you want to talk about something that is going to be a test to someone, so you need to build the foundations. You can be forthright; this *insert your kink here* is what I want to talk about ... and see how that stands, or you can start with something that might be run of the mill and then build up to your fantasy.

It’s a pretty fair bet to say: find someone that you can talk about every day things, share mutual interests and have a degree of sexual chemistry. It sounds like you are searching for a friend that you can talk about every day things, then have that excitement.

 

[Blase]

Damn... all but one...

Just wanted to add my approbation. This is one of the most eloquent, thoughtful ads I've seen (and I've seen plenty).

I'm afraid that I personally don't do well with nonconsent: I've tried to write it a couple times and found that I just didn't have the heart even to pretend to force someone.

I never thought I'd meet someone who'd make me regret that, but this ad is giving me a twinge!

Best of luck!

Blase

 

[The_gladiator]

You know you want to talk about something that is going to be a test to someone, so you need to build the foundations. You can be forthright; this *insert your kink here* is what I want to talk about ... and see how that stands, or you can start with something that might be run of the mill and then build up to your fantasy.

It’s a pretty fair bet to say: find someone that you can talk about every day things, share mutual interests and have a degree of sexual chemistry. It sounds like you are searching for a friend that you can talk about every day things, then have that excitement.

I agree with this post. For me I feel like I’ve overshared about my kinks too quickly and pushed people away or almost dared them to leave, or I’ve built up slower and built a foundation where I found they were actually more open to my kinks than they might have been in the beginning because there was a foundation of trust. Both approaches have their places, but I really like the concept of having a lover who is also someone you respect and value as a friend, always have.

Eta: I love how well this personal is written, not to sound like a broken record.

 

[naked_maniac]

...seeking equally fucked up man for a text and voice friendship with a possible sexual element.

The person I'm looking for:

• is intelligent and literate; can carry a conversation
• is willing to have nonsexual conversations until we know each other a bit
• has rape fantasies often and is willing to discuss them
• has the privacy and ability to talk on voice a few times a week if we like each other
• is not in a relationship with someone who would object to us talking if she knew about it
• is ideally between the ages of 35-55, but I can flex a bit on that if you fit the other stuff on this list

AND...

• is NOT attracted to actual underage children
• is NOT aroused by bestiality
• has a clear and firm grasp on the difference between fantasy and reality
• has never abused or sexually assaulted anyone or had a "questionable encounter/grey area" that might have been assault
• would NEVER actually abuse or assault a nonconsenting person even given the opportunity to get away with it

From my brief experience in the chat rooms here, the caveats unfortunately seem necessary to clarify. I could never feel comfortable discussing this sort of thing with anyone who doesn't fit those requirements.

About me:

• extremely fucked up sexually!
• cute, awkward, clever, nerdy, friendly, sarcastic, sweet, playful
• have been frequently complimented on my sexy voice
• easy to talk to, easygoing, open minded
• genuinely interested in hearing about your dark thoughts and fantasies, but also your day and your nonsexual interests
• a good friend

I know this is a long shot, especially with all my caveats and my desire to actually form some sort of friendship. I'm just going a bit crazy not having anyone to talk to about this and I simply can't resort to talking to random barely-literate creeps who want to tell me about the crimes they've committed, so I have to try.

If you sound like the guy I described and are interested in pursuing this, please send me a message to tell me a bit about yourself (age, interests, etc. - I don't care what you look like) and ask any questions you have. Then if I'm interested I'll reply, and we can start getting to know each other!

Thank you for reading!

sent you a pm

 

[AlliaPotestas]

If you want to try an alternative approach of getting to know peeps first with conversations about cheese, politics and the arts, come and say hello on the hello from London thread... we’ve definitely got some fucked up gents to suit there (sorry gents) sometimes it’s nice to make the friendship first with no pressure and see what follows,

I can’t speak for all the requirements, but I can vouch they are intelligent and literate, are more than capable of discussing non sexy things, definitely have moral compasses pointing the right way when it comes to underage stuff because they have supported my meltdowns when I’ve encountered it... they are decent, sweet, somewhat nerdy blokes who can hold a conversation without pandering to women the way some lit folk do (sorry - it’s true...)

Anyway, once more- good luck,

 

[UgliestSon]

Hey did you know the Supersuckers wrote a song about you and your kind.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=voCl-d5ZqGM

 

[AlliaPotestas]

Hey did you know the Supersuckers wrote a song about you and your kind.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=voCl-d5ZqGM

Fuckedupgirl - he means it as a compliment...

US - behave yourself...

 

[UgliestSon]

Fuckedupgirl - he means it as a compliment...

US - behave yourself...

Oh my bad. I really like that song which is all that matters. And stay fucked Fuckerupgirl. It is easier that way. Also hard drugs help.

 

[stud_dc]

Good luck, sorry you’ve had a shitty experience in the chat rooms - there are lots of decent guys here, telling them apart from the cockwombles can be a dark art...

Hope you find what you’re looking for,

"Cockwombles"????

Allia, you just made my day with the most amazing new word! All hail our new queen!

 

[fuckedup_girl]

Still hoping to find someone who matches my list! I really feel the need to talk to someone about this.

I'd also really love if you give me something to work with in your messages. It's MUCH easier to start a conversation with someone who will tell me at least a few details about yourself and your interests!

 

[Silverpelican]

...seeking equally fucked up man for a text and voice friendship with a possible sexual element.

The person I'm looking for:

• is intelligent and literate; can carry a conversation
• is willing to have nonsexual conversations until we know each other a bit
• has rape fantasies often and is willing to discuss them
• has the ability to talk on voice a few times a week if we like each other
• is not in a relationship with someone who would object to us talking if she knew about it
• is ideally between the ages of 35-55, but I can flex a bit on that if you fit the other stuff on this list

AND...

• is NOT attracted to actual underage children
• is NOT aroused by bestiality
• has a clear and firm grasp on the difference between fantasy and reality
• has never abused or sexually assaulted anyone or had a "questionable encounter/grey area" that might have been assault
• would NEVER actually abuse or assault a nonconsenting person even given the opportunity to get away with it

From my brief experience in the chat rooms here, the caveats unfortunately seem necessary to clarify. I could never feel comfortable discussing this sort of thing with anyone who doesn't fit those requirements.

About me:

• extremely fucked up sexually!
• cute, awkward, clever, nerdy, friendly, sarcastic, sweet, playful
• have been frequently complimented on my sexy voice
• easy to talk to, easygoing, open minded
• genuinely interested in hearing about your dark thoughts and fantasies, but also your day and your nonsexual interests
• a good friend

I know this is a long shot, especially with all my caveats and my desire to actually form some sort of friendship. I'm just going a bit crazy not having anyone to talk to about this and I simply can't resort to talking to random barely-literate creeps who want to tell me about the crimes they've committed, so I have to try.

If you sound like the guy I described and are interested in pursuing this, please send me a message to tell me a bit about yourself (age, interests, etc. - I don't care what you look like) and ask any questions you have. Then if I'm interested I'll reply, and we can start getting to know each other!

Thank you for reading!

Hello and pleased to read your personal post, just now. I must say in all honesty... I do match your requirements as listed. EXCEPT IN ONE glaring and important requard. Age... I will sti k that detail in somewhere along the way.
Oh, and even thouugh I also meet your rape addiction ( in mind only). I never have and never will do su h a vile thing to the innocent. I started have su h thoughts at age 12. She was the same age, gray eyes and the most fabulous strawberry blond red hair I have ever seen. I entered into hospital and was gone for a few weeks. Her family moved away for new employment and I never even foundout where they went. I felt great guilt for having such sinful desires. My pubescent hormone tortured mind accepted the idea that I was a cursed soul. ( in my religon) I had been taught that to think and desire a thing was as bad as doing it. So a certain vibration or tone was struct... that discordant sound contaminated all relationships. Later I married twice, to Dominant women. The first very sexual, the second very, much nonsexual. So Short first marriage, second mu h longer... sex was for only procreation only. I have been 100% celibate now for 34years and 8 months. Now to be sure I have and have allways had a vibrant and kinky mind as pertaines to sex and male/female relationships. I feel a longing for a deep rich relatioship... were literally any subject that could e er cross ones mind was welcomed when the desire arose. At 74 maybe I have waited to long.
Much more could be said... but my computer died, the backup notebook has been lost. The phones tiny touch key board is just, a little to difficult.
Good night
Silverpelican

 

[fuckedup_girl]

Despite the number of posts on this thread, I haven't gotten many messages from people who both fit the whole list AND are willing/able to actually have a real conversation.

If anyone's interested, I'd still really like to talk to someone like that.

 

[The_gladiator]

Despite the number of posts on this thread, I haven't gotten many messages from people who both fit the whole list AND are willing/able to actually have a real conversation.

If anyone's interested, I'd still really like to talk to someone like that.

I did try to send you a message, though I am 3 years outside your age requirement.I hope you find what you’re looking for.

 

[MrDevereaux]

Despite the number of posts on this thread, I haven't gotten many messages from people who both fit the whole list AND are willing/able to actually have a real conversation.

If anyone's interested, I'd still really like to talk to someone like that.

Allia speaks the truth, the London thread is full of lovely people (some fucked up cookies) who all love talking, making little jokes (we make big ones at times, middle ones at times).

 

[CleverCowardice]

I have to be into rape but I can't get off on bestiality? Your standards are too high! You've gotta be more realistic if you're serious about finding someone.

 

[Mei5ter]

Hello fuckedup_girl.

A couple of thoughts?

Some people are on Lit with their partner's knowledge, and some aren't. There are probably more folks who'd tolerate a partner reading erotic fiction than role-playing underage rape while the kids are asleep next door. And if you want someone 35-55, that's prime marriage/relationship/kids territory.

Also, while I agree that the male population on Lit definitely covers a broad spectrum of human life, men are rightly cautious of personal ads posted by people claiming to be female, in their 20s, and interested in rape play. Such posters often fail to meet at least three of those self-proclaimed criteria. I've no reason to think you're anything other than the person you appear, which is why I'm replying, but you have no posting history here and that's another criterion people use to see if you're who you say you are.

You certainly aren't the only person with these tastes, but finding a man who understands how to satisfy them while still being able to look you metaphorically in the eye afterwards may be a challenge. Providing a safe, caring environment to explore these things while also keeping the taboo and non-consent levels sufficiently high to give you your thrills is quite a hard balancing act, I'm told.

Good luck nevertheless, and on the evidence of your personal it would be a pleasure to see you interact elsewhere here.

 

[fuckedup_girl]

bump!

 

[Diorokim]

I joined this forum only so I could reply to you fucked_up_girl and have been waiting to be activated... finally.

I'll go type up your PM now.