Damn, she Justa did it again. Still nothing to see.

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

so anyway, what else in my internet findings has been interesting.

first, I really want a bunch of the no dick warning labels from the hand dryer yesterday, so I can stick on random things. if I stick the no dick label on all the work copiers, will it be funny or will it be HR worthy? hum.

next, someone did message me a forum that I might enjoy. It was based on the premise of hot wifes, and indeed it was very female friendly. Unfortunately I discovered I am jealous of all the bitches, so not for me either. why torture myself with a lifestyle I can never have, even if it is totally awesome?

next also from my mailbox was a discussion that basically boiled down to women and butt plugs are way more common on lit women than what you actually run in to in life. So I decided to research, and indeed straight women are not only the lowest purchaser of butt plugs, surveys show only about 5% of women use them which is about the same as strap ons. That is surprising, I mean strap ons seem like a much more unusual toy than a but plug. I have probably a dozen plugs, but never a strap on. oh wait, I did wear a strap on once many years ago, but it was for halloween. I wore a flesh colored tight shirt and tights, a flesh colored strap on underneath the pants, but with a hole cut in so the dildo portion was exposed, and a black trench coat. yup, I was a flasher, and spent the day flashing all my coworkers. it was funny as hell. Anyway, I now am curious why normal every day women are not butt plug fans. I might have to ask around. seems like a good facebook question.

moving on, here are a couple more pictures from me goofing around at work yesterday, ya know when I was hanging around undressed and all

http://i.imgur.com/9pUJGdhm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/awGfRxOm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/fahSfLXm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/mlAGk8Rm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/kZxF5hwm.jpg

Happy Friday

 

[Paul_Chance]

Outstanding pictures.

I think, on the butt plug thing - one of the challenges in comparing Lit with anywhere else is - on Lit, folks are more open about their sexuality (the nature of the place). IRL, you're pretty unlikely to find out if someone is wearing or using a butt plug, so I would suspect the stats run to the low side.

Still - at 5%, that is 1 in 20. Just go through an ordinary day, count as you pass 20 women, and see if you can figure out which one is wearing the butt plug. (Men would work too.)

Hmmm, I think I will play that game today. Remember, it's not the ones you WANT to wear the butt plug, but the ones you think might actually be doing it.

 

[CanadianM]

Sorry you were having so much trouble finding cock pics... so thought I'd share... Have a great weekend....

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

This deserves an "Amen". When I think back on the hints, tips, invitations, and opportunities I missed when I was younger I just have to laugh.

Subtlety and I were complete strangers passing in the dark.

Well, in all honesty, I'd still end up repeating the same process. I am not the missing hints type at all, but I struggle with the whole being an adult and using my words to have a mature discussion on sexual topics. So like the aforementioned guy who had the bisexual girlfriend. If I was him, I'd have seen that maybe I could make a threesome happen, but doubt I could have brought myself to actually ask for it, like a grown up. Instead, I would probably encourage them to hang out together in my presence, have girlfriend invite her over for movie nights often, and cross my fingers and hope I can somehow make it happen through situations and actions and luck. My problem wasn't or isn't understanding subtlety, my problem is more bringing myself to not be subtle. So I likely missed opportunities to turn nice, typical, sexual experiences in to more kinky things due to my discomfort using my words and instead using hints and subtle actions. And yeah, I still am like that. Guess I will never learn.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Outstanding pictures.

I think, on the butt plug thing - one of the challenges in comparing Lit with anywhere else is - on Lit, folks are more open about their sexuality (the nature of the place). IRL, you're pretty unlikely to find out if someone is wearing or using a butt plug, so I would suspect the stats run to the low side.

Still - at 5%, that is 1 in 20. Just go through an ordinary day, count as you pass 20 women, and see if you can figure out which one is wearing the butt plug. (Men would work too.)

Hmmm, I think I will play that game today. Remember, it's not the ones you WANT to wear the butt plug, but the ones you think might actually be doing it.

thank you, and that survey wasn't even regular wear, that was just using at all. but why lie in surveys like that. I get maybe not sharing with real life people, but unknown surveyor that you will never see or talk to, especially if it is a written survey, would not seem like honesty would be uncomfortable.

and I hate to ruin your game, but yeah, 1 in 20 have worn, not are wearing in public. that is probably a lot rarer. Though I do at work sometimes. Once in a random store. I really don't get out much though.

And, I will see no one I suspect today. Well there is this one gay guy here, so maybe one, if our paths cross.

Sorry you were having so much trouble finding cock pics... so thought I'd share... Have a great weekend....

haha. thank you. it is a very nice cock.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Well, in all honesty, I'd still end up repeating the same process. I am not the missing hints type at all, but I struggle with the whole being an adult and using my words to have a mature discussion on sexual topics. So like the aforementioned guy who had the bisexual girlfriend. If I was him, I'd have seen that maybe I could make a threesome happen, but doubt I could have brought myself to actually ask for it, like a grown up. Instead, I would probably encourage them to hang out together in my presence, have girlfriend invite her over for movie nights often, and cross my fingers and hope I can somehow make it happen through situations and actions and luck. My problem wasn't or isn't understanding subtlety, my problem is more bringing myself to not be subtle. So I likely missed opportunities to turn nice, typical, sexual experiences in to more kinky things due to my discomfort using my words and instead using hints and subtle actions. And yeah, I still am like that. Guess I will never learn.

Yeah, that is the same thing I struggled with. I would often see the hints, but I never really knew how to take it past hint into open discussion and potentially reality. I didn't learn that trick until I was in my mid to late thirties. Which, coincidentally, is about the time I switched careers and went into consulting, which is all about paying attention to subtle things and carrying them into reality. As consultants, we live and die on the "wow" factor. Since we're an optional and discretionary budget expense for most companies, once we get our foot in the door, we have to complete the project and leave the customer with the "wow" factor. "Wow, that was worth every dime - let's use them on the next project...".

Hahaha - so, perhaps what I am saying here is "sex is a lot like system integration" - you have to push the edges of the envelope constantly, you have to draw out hidden desires (requirements the customer hasn't even thought about), and then you have to deliver. I should write "the project managers guide to getting laid".

 

[Willingtoshare]

so anyway, what else in my internet findings has been interesting.

first, I really want a bunch of the no dick warning labels from the hand dryer yesterday, so I can stick on random things. if I stick the no dick label on all the work copiers, will it be funny or will it be HR worthy? hum.

next, someone did message me a forum that I might enjoy. It was based on the premise of hot wifes, and indeed it was very female friendly. Unfortunately I discovered I am jealous of all the bitches, so not for me either. why torture myself with a lifestyle I can never have, even if it is totally awesome?

next also from my mailbox was a discussion that basically boiled down to women and butt plugs are way more common on lit women than what you actually run in to in life. So I decided to research, and indeed straight women are not only the lowest purchaser of butt plugs, surveys show only about 5% of women use them which is about the same as strap ons. That is surprising, I mean strap ons seem like a much more unusual toy than a but plug. I have probably a dozen plugs, but never a strap on. oh wait, I did wear a strap on once many years ago, but it was for halloween. I wore a flesh colored tight shirt and tights, a flesh colored strap on underneath the pants, but with a hole cut in so the dildo portion was exposed, and a black trench coat. yup, I was a flasher, and spent the day flashing all my coworkers. it was funny as hell. Anyway, I now am curious why normal every day women are not butt plug fans. I might have to ask around. seems like a good facebook question.

moving on, here are a couple more pictures from me goofing around at work yesterday, ya know when I was hanging around undressed and all

http://i.imgur.com/9pUJGdhm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/awGfRxOm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/fahSfLXm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/mlAGk8Rm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/kZxF5hwm.jpg

Happy Friday

How can Friday not be great with pictures like these!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Yeah, that is the same thing I struggled with. I would often see the hints, but I never really knew how to take it past hint into open discussion and potentially reality. I didn't learn that trick until I was in my mid to late thirties. Which, coincidentally, is about the time I switched careers and went into consulting, which is all about paying attention to subtle things and carrying them into reality. As consultants, we live and die on the "wow" factor. Since we're an optional and discretionary budget expense for most companies, once we get our foot in the door, we have to complete the project and leave the customer with the "wow" factor. "Wow, that was worth every dime - let's use them on the next project...".

Hahaha - so, perhaps what I am saying here is "sex is a lot like system integration" - you have to push the edges of the envelope constantly, you have to draw out hidden desires (requirements the customer hasn't even thought about), and then you have to deliver. I should write "the project managers guide to getting laid".

haha, you make it sound so logical and easy, however let's be real, logical discussions only happen around logical premises in most cases. Sex is rarely logical, as most people equate it to emotion, including myself sometimes. Displaying a logical value that surpasses the competition on a logical system at a price point which is below or equal is what wins a consultant the contract. Drawing the unknown variables not really thought about is easy in an honest question and answer period. With people, about people, about emotions, about sex, with less honesty, it is so much harder.

It could be an interesting book to read, but I think you are making it sound easy comparing to a significant less objectionable subject matter. I will say if trying to have a sexual discussion, I do prefer to remove emotions, or at least mask them, but it is one of the harder topics, as feelings are still likely to be present, so it is a much greater risk of going sideways fast. I have never seen people yelling or crying or door slamming or bringing up things from 10 years ago in a discussion about systems integration, but now sex discussions, yeah they can go real sideways real fast. It is tap dancing on landmines lol.

How can Friday not be great with pictures like these!

Thank you. I do love Friday's, Of course, don't we all

 

[dtige24]

so anyway, what else in my internet findings has been interesting.

first, I really want a bunch of the no dick warning labels from the hand dryer yesterday, so I can stick on random things. if I stick the no dick label on all the work copiers, will it be funny or will it be HR worthy? hum.

next, someone did message me a forum that I might enjoy. It was based on the premise of hot wifes, and indeed it was very female friendly. Unfortunately I discovered I am jealous of all the bitches, so not for me either. why torture myself with a lifestyle I can never have, even if it is totally awesome?

next also from my mailbox was a discussion that basically boiled down to women and butt plugs are way more common on lit women than what you actually run in to in life. So I decided to research, and indeed straight women are not only the lowest purchaser of butt plugs, surveys show only about 5% of women use them which is about the same as strap ons. That is surprising, I mean strap ons seem like a much more unusual toy than a but plug. I have probably a dozen plugs, but never a strap on. oh wait, I did wear a strap on once many years ago, but it was for halloween. I wore a flesh colored tight shirt and tights, a flesh colored strap on underneath the pants, but with a hole cut in so the dildo portion was exposed, and a black trench coat. yup, I was a flasher, and spent the day flashing all my coworkers. it was funny as hell. Anyway, I now am curious why normal every day women are not butt plug fans. I might have to ask around. seems like a good facebook question.

moving on, here are a couple more pictures from me goofing around at work yesterday, ya know when I was hanging around undressed and all

http://i.imgur.com/9pUJGdhm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/awGfRxOm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/fahSfLXm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/mlAGk8Rm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/kZxF5hwm.jpg

Happy Friday

You hanging around undressed would make any day better. I stand by my statement of your ass making those panties look good. Mayby you should pursue being a panty model.

It seems that butt plugs haven't become socially mainstream yet...If you have dozens of them you must enjoy it. What are the other women missing?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

You hanging around undressed would make any day better. I stand by my statement of your ass making those panties look good. Mayby you should pursue being a panty model.

It seems that butt plugs haven't become socially mainstream yet...If you have dozens of them you must enjoy it. What are the other women missing?

thank you. my days are usually better when I am not required to be dressed as well.

Well I would say only a singular dozen. like started with one, then well what about bigger, then ok what about vibrating. then ok, what about prettier, well those usually come in a 4 tier set and steel. ok great, but turns out wearing a steel one when sitting, well the outer ring gets uncomfortable, thus same set in a softer, more flexible material. then of course I guess everyone should have a tail. this is excluding toys with a double penetration concept built in.

Why do I like them? Well you have the stimulation of a different location than most common. Different is fun. the whole double penetration more full feeling is awesome. the tightening during orgasms is also unique. and of course, it sort of shifts the g-spot a little higher, and makes things a little tighter or something, so you cum more often during sex as increased g-spot pressure and stimulation. That is my thoughts on them anyway.

 

[whenagain]

so anyway, what else in my internet findings has been interesting.

first, I really want a bunch of the no dick warning labels from the hand dryer yesterday, so I can stick on random things. if I stick the no dick label on all the work copiers, will it be funny or will it be HR worthy? hum.

next, someone did message me a forum that I might enjoy. It was based on the premise of hot wifes, and indeed it was very female friendly. Unfortunately I discovered I am jealous of all the bitches, so not for me either. why torture myself with a lifestyle I can never have, even if it is totally awesome?

next also from my mailbox was a discussion that basically boiled down to women and butt plugs are way more common on lit women than what you actually run in to in life. So I decided to research, and indeed straight women are not only the lowest purchaser of butt plugs, surveys show only about 5% of women use them which is about the same as strap ons. That is surprising, I mean strap ons seem like a much more unusual toy than a but plug. I have probably a dozen plugs, but never a strap on. oh wait, I did wear a strap on once many years ago, but it was for halloween. I wore a flesh colored tight shirt and tights, a flesh colored strap on underneath the pants, but with a hole cut in so the dildo portion was exposed, and a black trench coat. yup, I was a flasher, and spent the day flashing all my coworkers. it was funny as hell. Anyway, I now am curious why normal every day women are not butt plug fans. I might have to ask around. seems like a good facebook question.

moving on, here are a couple more pictures from me goofing around at work yesterday, ya know when I was hanging around undressed and all

http://i.imgur.com/9pUJGdhm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/awGfRxOm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/fahSfLXm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/mlAGk8Rm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/kZxF5hwm.jpg

Happy Friday

I think lit is not necessarily an accurate sampling of the population. I’m thinking for example of the number of cuckolds on here— guessing it’s a higher percentage than irl.

Great pics— making this a thirsty Friday.

 

[Doctor Joe]

so anyway, what else in my internet findings has been interesting.

first, I really want a bunch of the no dick warning labels from the hand dryer yesterday, so I can stick on random things. if I stick the no dick label on all the work copiers, will it be funny or will it be HR worthy? hum.

next, someone did message me a forum that I might enjoy. It was based on the premise of hot wifes, and indeed it was very female friendly. Unfortunately I discovered I am jealous of all the bitches, so not for me either. why torture myself with a lifestyle I can never have, even if it is totally awesome?

next also from my mailbox was a discussion that basically boiled down to women and butt plugs are way more common on lit women than what you actually run in to in life. So I decided to research, and indeed straight women are not only the lowest purchaser of butt plugs, surveys show only about 5% of women use them which is about the same as strap ons. That is surprising, I mean strap ons seem like a much more unusual toy than a but plug. I have probably a dozen plugs, but never a strap on. oh wait, I did wear a strap on once many years ago, but it was for halloween. I wore a flesh colored tight shirt and tights, a flesh colored strap on underneath the pants, but with a hole cut in so the dildo portion was exposed, and a black trench coat. yup, I was a flasher, and spent the day flashing all my coworkers. it was funny as hell. Anyway, I now am curious why normal every day women are not butt plug fans. I might have to ask around. seems like a good facebook question.

moving on, here are a couple more pictures from me goofing around at work yesterday, ya know when I was hanging around undressed and all

http://i.imgur.com/9pUJGdhm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/awGfRxOm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/fahSfLXm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/mlAGk8Rm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/kZxF5hwm.jpg

Happy Friday

I LOVE the way you celebrate Friday at work....and Halloween too! What a hoot!
As always, thanks for sharing your luscious bod with us!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

" wonderful simply and utterly wonderful thank you so much."

thank you for enjoying

I think lit is not necessarily an accurate sampling of the population. I’m thinking for example of the number of cuckolds on here— guessing it’s a higher percentage than irl.

Great pics— making this a thirsty Friday.

yes, I am quite sure. In my experience, men expect monogamy and have real problems with anything less. Though this just made me curious, so of course, I asked google. Apparently, it is on the rise, and 58% percent of men have fantasized about it. News to me, because through out my life, my desire to not be exclusive has long been a real problem to most, other than an isolated friend who we were both willing to stay casual. I have never actually considered cuckolding fetish really, I mean I'd be down for it. Basically, the concept has me on board at I get to screw someone else sometimes. Win for me, no matter what follows lol. Like I would do a little happy dance, with the jumping, and the cheering if any man I had ever been in a relationship said, "hey, I'd really like your to screw another man". I wouldn't even hear the caveats as I'd be busy jumping up and down, squealing with delight, like they just proposed or something. Alas, closest I have ever gotten was when hubby suggested an open relationship, but then he rescinded it fast. Apparently what he meant was he gets to fuck my friend and I stay home and watch TV. And what I heard is that I was permitted to screw other men, and did so when I could. Point is, I have dated a lot of men, and none actually seemed to like my desire to screw other men, a couple tolerated it at least short term, but nope, I just don't believe it is that common as otherwise I would have known at least one.

And thank you, glad you enjoy.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I LOVE the way you celebrate Friday at work....and Halloween too! What a hoot!
As always, thanks for sharing your luscious bod with us!

Thank you. And yes, that halloween was hysterical. That company was pretty loose and didn't have a stick up their butt. I am sure I could not do that today. Maybe around a few people with a sense of humor, but I would really have to cover up mostly, or maybe not. there are actually very few that I think would complain. I think as long as I kept it from the suits, maybe I could pull it off.

And you are quite welcome. thanks or enjoying.

 

[Wld1936]

so anyway, what else in my internet findings has been interesting.

first, I really want a bunch of the no dick warning labels from the hand dryer yesterday, so I can stick on random things. if I stick the no dick label on all the work copiers, will it be funny or will it be HR worthy? hum.

next, someone did message me a forum that I might enjoy. It was based on the premise of hot wifes, and indeed it was very female friendly. Unfortunately I discovered I am jealous of all the bitches, so not for me either. why torture myself with a lifestyle I can never have, even if it is totally awesome?

next also from my mailbox was a discussion that basically boiled down to women and butt plugs are way more common on lit women than what you actually run in to in life. So I decided to research, and indeed straight women are not only the lowest purchaser of butt plugs, surveys show only about 5% of women use them which is about the same as strap ons. That is surprising, I mean strap ons seem like a much more unusual toy than a but plug. I have probably a dozen plugs, but never a strap on. oh wait, I did wear a strap on once many years ago, but it was for halloween. I wore a flesh colored tight shirt and tights, a flesh colored strap on underneath the pants, but with a hole cut in so the dildo portion was exposed, and a black trench coat. yup, I was a flasher, and spent the day flashing all my coworkers. it was funny as hell. Anyway, I now am curious why normal every day women are not butt plug fans. I might have to ask around. seems like a good facebook question.

moving on, here are a couple more pictures from me goofing around at work yesterday, ya know when I was hanging around undressed and all

http://i.imgur.com/9pUJGdhm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/awGfRxOm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/fahSfLXm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/mlAGk8Rm.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/kZxF5hwm.jpg

Happy Friday

Wow! You are beautiful!

 

[whenagain]

thank you for enjoying



yes, I am quite sure. In my experience, men expect monogamy and have real problems with anything less. Though this just made me curious, so of course, I asked google. Apparently, it is on the rise, and 58% percent of men have fantasized about it. News to me, because through out my life, my desire to not be exclusive has long been a real problem to most, other than an isolated friend who we were both willing to stay casual. I have never actually considered cuckolding fetish really, I mean I'd be down for it. Basically, the concept has me on board at I get to screw someone else sometimes. Win for me, no matter what follows lol. Like I would do a little happy dance, with the jumping, and the cheering if any man I had ever been in a relationship said, "hey, I'd really like your to screw another man". I wouldn't even hear the caveats as I'd be busy jumping up and down, squealing with delight, like they just proposed or something. Alas, closest I have ever gotten was when hubby suggested an open relationship, but then he rescinded it fast. Apparently what he meant was he gets to fuck my friend and I stay home and watch TV. And what I heard is that I was permitted to screw other men, and did so when I could. Point is, I have dated a lot of men, and none actually seemed to like my desire to screw other men, a couple tolerated it at least short term, but nope, I just don't believe it is that common as otherwise I would have known at least one.

And thank you, glad you enjoy.

See, I also know that fantasy vs reality play out way differently. I dated a gal and we were open, for me that meant I went on a few dates— she was having threesomes and getting really big cock. It was hot but my emotions around it were more complex than I anticipated.

 

[Doctor Joe]

Justa said.." there are actually very few that I think would complain. I think as long as I kept it from the suits, maybe I could pull it off."

referring to your Halloween costume, I think you could pull it off. If you ever decide to dress that way again, I'm sure we would love to see you in your trenchcoat!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Wow! You are beautiful!

well thank you

See, I also know that fantasy vs reality play out way differently. I dated a gal and we were open, for me that meant I went on a few dates— she was having threesomes and getting really big cock. It was hot but my emotions around it were more complex than I anticipated.

hum, so if I ever manage to end up in an open relationship again, I should be less excited about it and probably only pick one man, and that man should be someone the primary partner considers "below their league", as the alternative is more likely to bring complex emotions. like it might fall somewhere between fantasy versus reality.

Justa said.." there are actually very few that I think would complain. I think as long as I kept it from the suits, maybe I could pull it off."

referring to your Halloween costume, I think you could pull it off. If you ever decide to dress that way again, I'm sure we would love to see you in your trenchcoat!

I do have some cute trench coats.

 

[whenagain]

well thank you



hum, so if I ever manage to end up in an open relationship again, I should be less excited about it and probably only pick one man, and that man should be someone the primary partner considers "below their league", as the alternative is more likely to bring complex emotions. like it might fall somewhere between fantasy versus reality.



I do have some cute trench coats.

Complex doesn’t have to be bad! You just have to be willing to work through it.

For me part of the thrill was knowing that she was being pleased. I just needed more reassurance than I expected.

 

[EctoJohn]

well thank you. I don't know that I have ever had that kind of cone. I do think the ice cream is seriously missing chocolate.

Everything is always missing chocolate all the time.
Chocolate ice cream? It's missing chocolate sauce.

And how do I get to hang out undressed with you like that?
It's more fun than my work.

 

[19jimbo99]

Was up baby girl ?TGIF. ..thought it would never get here, your thread has taken an interesting turn....pretty cool discussion tho.. I would say I can see where jealousy could be a problem ..however I would share you proudly because as with other open relationships I've been involved with in the past..yea she's fucking hot , and she's a freak but at the end of the night she's going home with me!!!
Have a great Friday night..any big plans??

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Complex doesn’t have to be bad! You just have to be willing to work through it.

For me part of the thrill was knowing that she was being pleased. I just needed more reassurance than I expected.

Oh, I don't know. Complex is usually code for hot mess.

So, did it work out for you in the end?

Everything is always missing chocolate all the time.
Chocolate ice cream? It's missing chocolate sauce.

And how do I get to hang out undressed with you like that?
It's more fun than my work.

So true so true.

And generally i am as undressed as the situation permits. So don't make me go in public and don't have visitors then I have no need to wear clothes, thus I won't

Was up baby girl ?TGIF. ..thought it would never get here, your thread has taken an interesting turn....pretty cool discussion tho.. I would say I can see where jealousy could be a problem ..however I would share you proudly because as with other open relationships I've been involved with in the past..yea she's fucking hot , and she's a freak but at the end of the night she's going home with me!!!
Have a great Friday night..any big plans??

Why is it unexpected? My thread often goes off point. I don't even think it is jealousy. I think people just expect relationships to be the typical pairing and most just refuse to deviate so it is how it is. Ya know. Good outlook you have though.

And i am a 40 year old married woman with a young child, will I have plans on a Friday night ever again is the question?

What about you?

 

[19jimbo99]

Oh, I don't know. Complex is usually code for hot mess.

So, did it work out for you in the end?



So true so true.

And generally i am as undressed as the situation permits. So don't make me go in public and don't have visitors then I have no need to wear clothes, thus I won't



Why is it unexpected? My thread often goes off point. I don't even think it is jealousy. I think people just expect relationships to be the typical pairing and most just refuse to deviate so it is how it is. Ya know. Good outlook you have thhingough.

And i am a 40 year old married woman with a young child, will I have plans on a Friday night ever again is the question?

What about you?

nothing planned yet but I'm.pretty flexible, most of my croud are going on a camping trip.for the weekend so I'm going down to the waterfront ,there's always something going on there. Free music a lot of outdoor dining and its a great place to people watch ..But in this city.your ass better be in early..its getting crazy out here with crime..these youngsters have a whole different outlook ..they shoot first its sad ... Google Stockton ca.
Maybe a quite night at the house wouldn't be so bad....

 

[Shyguy1369]

So work has been very busy? Are you calling me fast? haha. Seriously though, thank you, you are way too kind. As for what I found, I started my search with google, which led me to a review on forums written by a porn loving guy, so maybe I had a methodology problem. though, things got worse when I tried specifically women, but I might still browse when bored. So women on your other site are less talky or what?

Work has been busy, and I was on holiday just over a week ago. Feels like ages ago already. And no, you're not fast... but sometimes the thread does move fast
As for less talky... Yep. Very rarely want to communicate, and MOST are looking to make money, and if you're not talking cash, they don't want to talk. Now, not all, but most.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

nothing planned yet but I'm.pretty flexible, most of my croud are going on a camping trip.for the weekend so I'm going down to the waterfront ,there's always something going on there. Free music a lot of outdoor dining and its a great place to people watch ..But in this city.your ass better be in early..its getting crazy out here with crime..these youngsters have a whole different outlook ..they shoot first its sad ... Google Stockton ca.
Maybe a quite night at the house wouldn't be so bad....

Well that could be fun. Music, food, drinks, and people watching isn't a bad night. And yes I am aware of Stockton's reputation. I also wasn't always rural. I grew up in a pretty rough area myself. Not as bad as Stockton but still on the list. But what we lacked in violence, we made up for in poverty. Interestly enough, as poverty rates grew, violence dropped. I guess people had to ration bullets and there was no one worth robbing. Things you can look foward to. Stockton is almost half way there.

Work has been busy, and I was on holiday just over a week ago. Feels like ages ago already. And no, you're not fast... but sometimes the thread does move fast
As for less talky... Yep. Very rarely want to communicate, and MOST are looking to make money, and if you're not talking cash, they don't want to talk. Now, not all, but most.

Vacations are nice, but so hard to return from. And yeah, I saw lots of pros. Granted, I can respect everyone needs to make a living. And if you have the cash, i am sure they are probably better at getting men off. They do it all the time, are fully focused on who is paying and trying to meet the needs of that client. I could see the appeal. I could also see why they wouldn't appeal to many.