are you switchy?

MissAshleyToYou

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i do not know what i am looking for. might be easier for you to tell me what you are looking for because
i do know what im not looking for and i can prolly base it off your answer better than my own words.
i talk in circles a lot.

i curse like a drunkin sailor.
i like music and sports more than a girl should.

i like to think i play well at hard to get. sometimes yah just gotta take what you want.
sometimes ill play along.
im picky. i know. im hard to handle.

i do like when someone lets me pick their brain... double props for picking mine back. i like questions.
someone who wants to get to know my brain before my boobs. they are both nice.

im sarcastic as fuck.

someone who likes to share pictures..hopefully of you...of your food. of your work day. of your god damn back yard..but seriously day one dont send me the fucking dick pic. come on.
speaking of. you should kik. i mean we can start here. i dont need 100 random dudes in my kik. so yah before we get there...we will prolly know if we are compatible.

speaking of compatible. im married. it is what it is. i have alot of spare time. you should to.

i like the give and take dynamic.
i am a sexual person but i like to think im more than that. and you are interested in more than that. think of it as a bonus. a big bonus ;)

maybe this isnt the right place. but i know why i put my ad here.

im definitely more dominant than not.

Be close to east coast time zone ish...

Age range 25-45 ish...
 
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Hi miss

So I read your post and it intrigued me. I also like someone of who wants more out of a situation than just a toy. I'm not going to send any dic picks until you ask, I'm also sarcastic as hell. I also like the thought process that goes into a dom/sub role. I can pick your brain with many questions on many different topics like sexual as well as sports and life in general. Many different thoughts of life interest me. So my name is Paul and if you are interested you can catch me here or I can give you my email or kik just ask and you shall recieve.
 
and you

Hello wife ;-) :devil:

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like woman who wants something
but doesn't really knows what. :mad:

May I spit on you, piss on you, tie you and put in my cellar into cage
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Than be more specific in your wishes because
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you can receive very painfull spanking :D
 
Hello wife ;-) :devil:

There's nothing easier like test your own
preferences by bdsmtest dot org.

Answer honest for couple of question
and you'll know what kind of BSDM animal you're.

Maybe you find you fetish life side
and can be more specific in your searching and best sides.

there's nothing more frustrating
like woman who wants something
but doesn't really knows what. :mad:

May I spit on you, piss on you, tie you and put in my cellar into cage
or you just wants good hard spanking and wax? ;-)

Last time woman tells me about wish
of clit spanking with wooden line.

Than be more specific in your wishes because
if you let someone take control

:caning: :caning:

you can receive very painfull spanking :D



interesting this was your take from my ad.
 
i do not know what i am looking for. might be easier for you to tell me what you are looking for because
i do know what im not looking for and i can prolly base it off your answer better than my own words.
i talk in circles a lot.

i curse like a drunkin sailor.
i like music and sports more than a girl should.

i like to think i play well at hard to get. sometimes yah just gotta take what you want.
sometimes ill play along.
im picky. i know. im hard to handle.

i do like when someone lets me pick their brain... double props for picking mine back. i like questions.
someone who wants to get to know my brain before my boobs. they are both nice.

im sarcastic as fuck.

someone who likes to share pictures..hopefully of you...of your food. of your work day. of your god damn back yard..but seriously day one dont send me the fucking dick pic. come on.
speaking of. you should kik. i mean we can start here. i dont need 100 random dudes in my kik. so yah before we get there...we will prolly know if we are compatible.

speaking of compatible. im married. it is what it is. i have alot of spare time. you should to.

i like the give and take dynamic.
i am a sexual person but i like to think im more than that. and you are interested in more than that. think of it as a bonus. a big bonus ;)

maybe this isnt the right place. but i know why i put my ad here.

im definitely more dominant than not.

My wife just walked out on me because i worked alot and i liked to have fun, i am looking for someone to chat with and if it leads to more cool. Maybe you and i need each other to see what we both need?
 
Hello wife ;-) :devil:

There's nothing easier like test your own
preferences by bdsmtest dot org.

Answer honest for couple of question
and you'll know what kind of BSDM animal you're.

Maybe you find you fetish life side
and can be more specific in your searching and best sides.

there's nothing more frustrating
like woman who wants something
but doesn't really knows what. :mad:

May I spit on you, piss on you, tie you and put in my cellar into cage
or you just wants good hard spanking and wax? ;-)

Last time woman tells me about wish
of clit spanking with wooden line.

Than be more specific in your wishes because
if you let someone take control

:caning: :caning:

you can receive very painfull spanking :D
I think she is looking for her equal. Someone who can dish it out and take it in turn.
 
my equal... most definitely... doesnt mean 50% anything... but i think we will know.
I never meant 50%. I’m sure most times it will be 100% one way or the other. I’m just assuming you want it both ways. That’s what you mean by switchy right?
 
I like to switch roles.

I like the erotic aspects of bdsm. A little pain but more the aesthetics of bondage / restraint and the Dom / sub dynamics and the intensity it can give both people sexually.
I’m not sure if that answers your question but kinky can be great fun.
 
I’m switchy ;)

I’d love to chat if you’re interested. I believe we’ve talked before. Once upon a time.
 
people who write mostly about sex in your post to me wont get an answer.

also i didnt answer anyone over 45. i didnt realize it was an issue for me till it just was. thats all. no harm no foul.

also maybe before you write me...you should read my post again and make sure you really even want a conversation.
holy fuck. i didnt think this would be so hard
 
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people who write mostly about sex in your post to me wont get an answer.

also i didnt answer anyone over 45. i didnt realize it was an issue for me till it just was. thats all. no harm no foul.

also maybe before you write me...you should read my post again and make sure you really even want a conversation.
holy fuck. i didnt think this would be so hard

Youd be surprised how few of us men can read when the only head that works is the lower one.
 
Happy hunting?

Good morning, Ms Ashley

The last time we chatted, you were changing careers and didn't want to engage too much until you were settled again.

By your post it looks like that must be working for you--congratulations!

If you're still looking for a new friend now, I'd be happy too!
 
Still looking for switchy?

Wow this thread really did get some weird responses, surprising given that you were pretty eloquent and straightforward.

I'm very much interesting in the swearing, sarcasm and brain picking! If you're still looking for somebody switchy I'd be very keen to start a conversation, get to know each other better and see what happens.
 
I am also married and very bored. Mid 40's fit fun and very sexually openminded.

I love picking someones brain and having mine picked as well. Someone to can debate passionately about anything. Someone who loves sports.

I want someone who I can open up to about my sexual interests. A woman who will try something with me enthusiastically at lease once even if it was not her thing. I would of course afford her the same courtesy.

Let me know if you ever want to chat on here or kik. jaastor75

Would love chat about each other and see where we can go.
 
Someone who can have a conversation that doesn't include sex .... you know...like I mentioned.

Brains before boobs.

Let's play in each other's brain.
 
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