Butt Plug - How do you encourage your GF/Wife ?

[lovesexfun]

My GF has virgin ass and now its the time to break it but how do you encourage her ? Is it only using butt plug ? Is there any other alternate ?
How people here have done it any women or men want to suggest their ideas?

 

[Tnt69]

Have her listen to this and then go out and buy her one. She will love you forever!

https://youtu.be/FGmpZf2ICvw

 

[Jada59]

Try using your tongue back there first and then a finger. Use a lot of lube and be very gentle and go slowly. You can gauge her reaction. Not all people are into anal. No point in buying a butt plug if she's not into that stuff.

 

[glBock]

a very sensible comment

Try using your tongue back there first and then a finger. Use a lot of lube and be very gentle and go slowly. You can gauge her reaction. Not all people are into anal. No point in buying a butt plug if she's not into that stuff.

Jada, I found this a very sensible remark you made just now. Some women love it, but there are others who just don't like being touched there.

 

[BBWSugarKitty]

This! Personally I like it but I have friends who consider it an absolute no. If she shows interest I'd look at toys together, start small and go bigger ones ready (if she is)

 

[dz2681]

When eating her out move south a bit and tease her ass with your tongue. Play it by ear, if she enjoys that and is receptive try teasing her hole with your finger, gently pressing around but not penetrating. Once again if she responds well then make sure your finger is well lubed with her juices or other and gently insert into her gaging her response. If all goes well and she enjoys it should have a finger or two inside to work with. Also used to do this when doing a woman doggystyle. Would let a little saliva fall onto her tight hole and tease it then slowly work a finger in if she was enjoying it

 

[BackwoodsMama]

I'd suggest talking about it with her. Honestly, the suggestions to just start small play without her engagement make me feel a little uncomfortable. Bring it up and see where it goes.

 

[BBCfan]

My GF has virgin ass and now its the time to break it but how do you encourage her ? Is it only using butt plug ? Is there any other alternate ?
How people here have done it any women or men want to suggest their ideas?

I've had anal with a few female partners but not many. Never used to be interested but now love it,especially fantasy-wise. It is awesome with the right partner once in awhile.

I'm in a similar situation with my wife. I would love to take her anal virginity but she has zero interest. I tried being persuasive and planting the seed but I could tell she wanted me to drop it, so I did.

I will once in awhile lick or massage her super sexy asshole when she seems very horny and more receptive but no more and very teasingly.

I'll play the long game as we're fairly newly married and I don't plan on going anywhere. There's plenty of other hot kinky stuff I can focus on instead for now

 

[wolfgrrl]

Hopefully you have an open healthy relationship when it comes to sex and you can just talk to her about it. See if it's something she's interested in trying, if you want to see her with a plug, maybe go online and pick one out together, something small and not intimidating. There are so many out there right now, maybe she can find one with a pretty jewel in it, or a tail (I personally love these! The big fluffy tails feel so good on my thighs) as for shape, I would suggest something with a more gradual taper to it in order to allow her to grow accustomed to the sensation and size gradually. Use lots of lube, talk lots, and if she says stop... then stop!!

good luck!!!

 

[lovesexfun]

Try using your tongue back there first and then a finger. Use a lot of lube and be very gentle and go slowly. You can gauge her reaction. Not all people are into anal. No point in buying a butt plug if she's not into that stuff.

she doesnt allow me all the time but i do it sometime very little.

 

[lovesexfun]

This! Personally I like it but I have friends who consider it an absolute no. If she shows interest I'd look at toys together, start small and go bigger ones ready (if she is)

i thought may be a toy will increase the interest in her.

 

[lovesexfun]

When eating her out move south a bit and tease her ass with your tongue. Play it by ear, if she enjoys that and is receptive try teasing her hole with your finger, gently pressing around but not penetrating. Once again if she responds well then make sure your finger is well lubed with her juices or other and gently insert into her gaging her response. If all goes well and she enjoys it should have a finger or two inside to work with. Also used to do this when doing a woman doggystyle. Would let a little saliva fall onto her tight hole and tease it then slowly work a finger in if she was enjoying it

well explained but at that moment you are so much into it that forget so much detailing. hahaha

 

[lovesexfun]

I've had anal with a few female partners but not many. Never used to be interested but now love it,especially fantasy-wise. It is awesome with the right partner once in awhile.

I'm in a similar situation with my wife. I would love to take her anal virginity but she has zero interest. I tried being persuasive and planting the seed but I could tell she wanted me to drop it, so I did.

I will once in awhile lick or massage her super sexy asshole when she seems very horny and more receptive but no more and very teasingly.

I'll play the long game as we're fairly newly married and I don't plan on going anywhere. There's plenty of other hot kinky stuff I can focus on instead for now

you spoke for me here...ditto

 

[lovesexfun]

Hopefully you have an open healthy relationship when it comes to sex and you can just talk to her about it. See if it's something she's interested in trying, if you want to see her with a plug, maybe go online and pick one out together, something small and not intimidating. There are so many out there right now, maybe she can find one with a pretty jewel in it, or a tail (I personally love these! The big fluffy tails feel so good on my thighs) as for shape, I would suggest something with a more gradual taper to it in order to allow her to grow accustomed to the sensation and size gradually. Use lots of lube, talk lots, and if she says stop... then stop!!

good luck!!!

good advice
we talk a lot on sex but less on anal as she is not that much receptive.

 

[lovesexfun]

there are so many options in the market from small to big but to start with small finger is ok or shall i start with thumb ?

 

[DarkStarWorshipper]

I think the gentle rimming/anal stimulation ideas people have already mentioned are all good. But also ... lead by example. Find a plug that you like for yourself, and use it. That will help normalise it for her, and maybe make it more of a mutual thing you can explore together.

 

[lovesexfun]

I think the gentle rimming/anal stimulation ideas people have already mentioned are all good. But also ... lead by example. Find a plug that you like for yourself, and use it. That will help normalise it for her, and maybe make it more of a mutual thing you can explore together.

is there a plug for men as well...i didnt know it.

 

[DarkStarWorshipper]

is there a plug for men as well...i didnt know it.

I’m pretty sure they’re ... unisex, shall we say.

 

[anniebaby10]

Try using your tongue back there first and then a finger. Use a lot of lube and be very gentle and go slowly. You can gauge her reaction. Not all people are into anal. No point in buying a butt plug if she's not into that stuff.

Great advice. I love to have my ass eaten and getting it nice and wet. Then I will put in an anal plug. I love to fuck with one in and my orgasms are really intense. but you gotta go slow with lotta lube just as you said. Some girls may be afraid but they will not know the real pleasure of anal sex unless you take it one step at a time.

 

[lovesexfun]

Great advice. I love to have my ass eaten and getting it nice and wet. Then I will put in an anal plug. I love to fuck with one in and my orgasms are really intense. but you gotta go slow with lotta lube just as you said. Some girls may be afraid but they will not know the real pleasure of anal sex unless you take it one step at a time.

what anal plug you are using and lube can be anything or something special ?

 

[SexiBexi84]

My adventures in anal started when I was on all fours one night while my bf was playing with my pussy, he kept gently rubbing over my ass with his other hand then massaging around the rim. I'd been horrified at the thought of anal sex before but this felt really good, as I moaned my appreciation he slipped one finger up my ass with two fingers on the other hand deep inside my pussy, I'd never felt anything so amazingly satisfying in my life and after that was desperate for more. I'm utterly hooked on dp now, there is nothing better than having both holes filled at once. My dream now is to be double penetrated while also sucking a nice fat cock too

 

[BeautifulBlueSky218]

Be very open and honest with her. Listen to her needs and wants. Set a "safe word" for her if you do end up engaging in anal play. Use your tongue and fingers first. It's always best to use them first, before you run out and play a butt plug. It's never good to rush into that sort of things anyways. Allow her to feel comfortable about that sort of thing first.

 

[lovesexfun]

My adventures in anal started when I was on all fours one night while my bf was playing with my pussy, he kept gently rubbing over my ass with his other hand then massaging around the rim. I'd been horrified at the thought of anal sex before but this felt really good, as I moaned my appreciation he slipped one finger up my ass with two fingers on the other hand deep inside my pussy, I'd never felt anything so amazingly satisfying in my life and after that was desperate for more. I'm utterly hooked on dp now, there is nothing better than having both holes filled at once. My dream now is to be double penetrated while also sucking a nice fat cock too

i wish your dream come true soon...like mine.

 

[lovesexfun]

Be very open and honest with her. Listen to her needs and wants. Set a "safe word" for her if you do end up engaging in anal play. Use your tongue and fingers first. It's always best to use them first, before you run out and play a butt plug. It's never good to rush into that sort of things anyways. Allow her to feel comfortable about that sort of thing first.

i agree to your thoughts but i always wonder what difference it makes when it comes to anal compare to pussy ?

 

[roc23]

My GF has virgin ass and now its the time to break it but how do you encourage her ? Is it only using butt plug ? Is there any other alternate ?
How people here have done it any women or men want to suggest their ideas?

I love anal sex. But I never rush into it with a girl. If she’s experienced it before that just makes things easier.

If she hasn’t,I don’t rush into it. I take my time. When I’m down on her,after awhile I’ll get her on all fours. I’ll rub her pussy and get her wetness on my fingers then wipe my fingers on her asshole. I start licking. I wait for her reaction. If she moans,moves her hips,let’s me know she’s enjoying it I’ll go farther.Then I spread her ass wider,slap it,then start tongue fucking her asshole. I don’t even mention fucking her up the ass. After a few times she’s asks for it. But go slow the first time. It’s worth it,believe me.