Habits and learning experiences

[Hatsjikkiedee]

Hi all,

I was thinking about my conversations that I have with some of you, and looking through some posts...and I started to wonder. What habits do you all have here on Lit that you would like to change, but cant? Or..what experiences have you had here that made you learn from them? For me...my habit and learning experience was going on too hard on a woman in a horny mood. And regretting it when I was "normal" again. I try to remain focused, even when horny now, as to not put my own needs above hers all the time.

I am eager to hear from you!

 

[Jada59]

This doesn't specifically apply to Lit and I am working hard to change it but I need to be a better listener.

 

[Hatsjikkiedee]

This doesn't specifically apply to Lit and I am working hard to change it but I need to be a better listener.

Good for you for acknowledging it jada! Are you making progress? Luckely listening is a thing I'm good at in my normal state.

 

[Jada59]

Good for you for acknowledging it jada! Are you making progress? Luckely listening is a thing I'm good at in my normal state.

Some progress.

 

[Hatsjikkiedee]

Some progress.

That's more than some people learn in their whole life!

 

[exxcuuse]

I am mostly amazed by how much some of us are skilled to write fabulous messages.
I try to learn from them but i guess i lack too many things to reach a tenth of their level.

Like you I am too harsh and blindfolded when I am on horny mood with women

 

[Hatsjikkiedee]

I am mostly amazed by how much some of us are skilled to write fabulous messages.
I try to learn from them but i guess i lack too many things to reach a tenth of their level.

Like you I am too harsh and blindfolded when I am on horny mood with women

It's not an online forum for nothing, so people are awesome with words here, hat's true. But what is so great about this forum is that there are so many different people on here, so you are bound to find someone that like the way you talk when you are you, your humour, your way of talking, as long as you dont only steer the subject to sex, you will be fine I think.

But..what is frustrating for some guys here is that it is a hit and miss kind of thing. You will get ignored by some woman here, but you just have to keep trying, not get frustrated and keep being easy to talk to without your sexual urges being the only topic of conversation..