Living with your dom

[Sb_20_indiana]

I've never lived with a Dom and I've been debating on finding a Dom to start a relationship that would build toward me living with him as his submissive. What are the pros and come of living with a Dom?

 

[surrenderedfaith]

It's WAY too broad a question really. Honestly there are so many variations on how the people involved can work that there is no way to reply. It can be heaven and it can be hell on earth, the same as any relationship. If you spend the time and get to know someone, you are both very self aware and communicative of your wants and needs then you should be very clear on what you are bringing to the relationship, and what you will be getting out of it.

Good luck!

 

[SissySalina]

Every person is different, except identical twins, and that applies to every relationship, think this may include identical twins. When people are involved always the negative side comes out and if you can tolerate that then the relationship will have a chance. This also applies to the D/s relationship when it is 24/7 which is the D & s living together. As all relationships Trust and Communications are required.

 

[cookiecat]

Well - yesterday, OP posted in personals advertising naked pics for a price.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=91019155#post91019155


More power for the entrepreneurs of the world.

 

[Miles Long]

Well - yesterday, OP posted in personals advertising naked pics for a price.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=91019155#post91019155


More power for the entrepreneurs of the world.

It's always for a price!

 

[switchersm]

What does this has to do with the question above?

 

[Ewobbit]

It's always for a price!

Especially when it's fucking "free!" Usually the price is even higher!


In all seriousness, though, getting back to the original question, I was fortunate to live with my wife, my submissive, my slave, my pet, my little, my lover, my best friend for two and a half decades until she died (without my permission, damn it!).

And, I can tell you that Cascadia hit the nail right on the head.

Not every relationship is going to work precisely as mine did with Love. Which can be bad in some cases and good in others.

In a nutshell, it just doesn't fuckin' matter if you are submissive and your potential roommate and life partner is dominant. What matters is the fuckin' relationship. As I have asked countless couples over the years, "is the worst day with them in your life better than the best day without them? If it is, then fuckin' go for it! If, on the other hand, you are more miserable with them than without them, then it would be better to be miserable alone than having to step around someone else gettin' in the way."

 

[cookiecat]

What does this has to do with the question above?

Nothing, really.

Well, that's not true. So when I re-read the original message here, she's going out to find herself a Dom to live with and be his sub. Then I read the sugarbaby "pay me for pictures" post and I wonder if these two messages are somehow linked? The idea that being a submissive means a Dominant is going to take care of all my needs, sexually, emotionally, financially.

 

[AlwaysFara]

It's always for a price!

“I don’t want to have to use sex as a tool, Brad!”

(Only old people will get that!^)

 

[AlwaysFara]

What does this has to do with the question above?

You have a better answer? Let’s hear it!