Ex Gf left in the nude

[betamale30]

So on Saturday night my ex gf had gone out to a club with her friend. She ended up meeting a guy and I guess they hit It off and he offered her a ride home. During the drive home they started hooking up, he pulled over in this mall parking lot and she hopped over onto his lap. I guess It was to cramped in the car for them so he took her outside and they were having sex by front of car, when he came he pulled out and shot It on her back. He told her to wait a minute that he had tissues in his center console for her to clean up with, but instead of grabbing the tissues the jerk jumps in the car and pulls off laughing. She thought he was just teasing and was going to stop. Which he did like 30 ft away from her she went to run to his car and he opened window and threw her phone out the window and pulled away with her dress still on floor of his car. I guess It was a big joke to him, she called me hysterical crying asking for help.

I’m curious what other people would have done. Do you go to her rescue? Or just laugh at where her bad decisions got her?

 

[Ruby_Rosepetal]

Depends if you’re an asshole or not.

 

[Wackywagg]

Personally I would help the poor girl. But that’s just me. If I was in that situation I would be freaking the fuck out and be desperate for help. She already dealt with enough assholes, give the girl some pity.

 

[betamale30]

Personally I would help the poor girl. But that’s just me. If I was in that situation I would be freaking the fuck out and be desperate for help. She already dealt with enough assholes, give the girl some pity.

Yea I definitely went and picked her up. Then yesterday I was fishing with a buddy and I had told him what happened and he thought I was crazy for helping, was making fun of me saying how my ex calls me and tells me she was just having sex with another guy and you go pick her up. So I guess I do look dumb but wanted to help her

 

[Ruby_Rosepetal]

Yea I definitely went and picked her up. Then yesterday I was fishing with a buddy and I had told him what happened and he thought I was crazy for helping, was making fun of me saying how my ex calls me and tells me she was just having sex with another guy and you go pick her up. So I guess I do look dumb but wanted to help her

Maybe your buddy is an asshole and you’re not?

 

[betamale30]

Maybe your buddy is an asshole and you’re not?

That’s more then likely lol

 

[Paul_Chance]

I always help people in need when I can, so for me, I'd go to help, even an ex I parted on bad terms with. No one needs to get left nude somewhere, even though some folks might have it coming.

(I've seen the "left nude trick" before, several times over the years. Sometimes they had it coming. Other times it was just cruel. Every time I thought it was pretty funny...and taught me "never get out of the car naked".)

 

[betamale30]

I always help people in need when I can, so for me, I'd go to help, even an ex I parted on bad terms with. No one needs to get left nude somewhere, even though some folks might have it coming.

(I've seen the "left nude trick" before, several times over the years. Sometimes they had it coming. Other times it was just cruel. Every time I thought it was pretty funny...and taught me "never get out of the car naked".)

I did help but don’t think I’m that good of a person because I did find It pretty damn Funny.. I pull up and see her running out from behind a dumpster naked lol

 

[Paul_Chance]

I did help but don’t think I’m that good of a person because I did find It pretty damn Funny.. I pull up and see her running out from behind a dumpster naked lol

Just because we're helping someone, doesn't me we can't be amused by their circumstances (and hopefully at some point they'll laugh at it too - some of the funniest stories are crazy crap that happened was NOT funny at the time).

First time I ever heard of that trick, a friend of mine had been picked up at a bar by two women (hot women according to him), one lured him out to a dark country road. Got him outside and naked with the promise of a blow job - and then left him there. Alone. Naked. It turned out they were friends of his ex (who he had been cheating on) and it was retaliation. This was back in the days before cell phones so he had to walk back to town naked and then call his brother from a pay phone. While he was hanging out at the pay phone someone called the cops, but fortunately they thought it was funny.

 

[keith117]

Why didn't she call her friend she went out with? Or another girlfriend? Not saying I wouldn't have helped, but I guess it would depend on how things ended between you two. Some ex's I definitely would have helped out, others I would have told them to think of it as a teachable moment, make them sweat for a bit, then called one of their friends to pick them up. I guess it all depends.

 

[betamale30]

Why didn't she call her friend she went out with? Or another girlfriend? Not saying I wouldn't have helped, but I guess it would depend on how things ended between you two. Some ex's I definitely would have helped out, others I would have told them to think of it as a teachable moment, make them sweat for a bit, then called one of their friends to pick them up. I guess it all depends.

She had cheated on me while we dated so part of me wanted to be like if you act like a whore deal with what comes from that. I did ask why she didn’t call her friend, she claimed I was the first person she thought of that she knew she could trust.

 

[chame1eon]

I would definately help.

 

[keith117]

She had cheated on me while we dated so part of me wanted to be like if you act like a whore deal with what comes from that. I did ask why she didn’t call her friend, she claimed I was the first person she thought of that she knew she could trust.

Well, I guess you have that going for you then. Props to you.

 

[PanteyFetish]

I’d help in a heartbeat then try to hunt the asshole down

 

[nassauguy_2001]

So on Saturday night my ex gf had gone out to a club with her friend. She ended up meeting a guy and I guess they hit It off and he offered her a ride home. During the drive home they started hooking up, he pulled over in this mall parking lot and she hopped over onto his lap. I guess It was to cramped in the car for them so he took her outside and they were having sex by front of car, when he came he pulled out and shot It on her back. He told her to wait a minute that he had tissues in his center console for her to clean up with, but instead of grabbing the tissues the jerk jumps in the car and pulls off laughing. She thought he was just teasing and was going to stop. Which he did like 30 ft away from her she went to run to his car and he opened window and threw her phone out the window and pulled away with her dress still on floor of his car. I guess It was a big joke to him, she called me hysterical crying asking for help.

I’m curious what other people would have done. Do you go to her rescue? Or just laugh at where her bad decisions got her?

I would have gone and helped her, just who I am. Don't judge other people.
Now.... maybe she would have been very thankful and just blown me on the ride back to her place...
Just thinking doesn't make me a bad guy!

 

[Kindude]

We all want to know, did you get sloppy seconds?

 

[betamale30]

We all want to know, did you get sloppy seconds?

Yes I’ll admit I did end up getting sloppy seconds.. that wasn’t my intention when doing the favor for her though. When we got to her house she invited me in she was pretty emotional in the car definitely wasnt going to try anything then. She got some cloths on when we got back to her apartment and then we were just talking on her couch. She was saying how thankful she was and that I was such a nice guy and she leaned in and started kissing me. I didn’t make the move on her but I definitely didn’t stop things

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

So on Saturday night my ex gf had gone out to a club with her friend. She ended up meeting a guy and I guess they hit It off and he offered her a ride home. During the drive home they started hooking up, he pulled over in this mall parking lot and she hopped over onto his lap. I guess It was to cramped in the car for them so he took her outside and they were having sex by front of car, when he came he pulled out and shot It on her back. He told her to wait a minute that he had tissues in his center console for her to clean up with, but instead of grabbing the tissues the jerk jumps in the car and pulls off laughing. She thought he was just teasing and was going to stop. Which he did like 30 ft away from her she went to run to his car and he opened window and threw her phone out the window and pulled away with her dress still on floor of his car. I guess It was a big joke to him, she called me hysterical crying asking for help.

I’m curious what other people would have done. Do you go to her rescue? Or just laugh at where her bad decisions got her?

Ever since I have been old enough to have a girlfriend, there was NEVER an instance or a breakup that couldn't have started a world war. But I have NEVER turned my back on someone who was in 'honest' need of help.
I have had fusses and knock-down drag out fights, getting my ass beat; then turn right around and stand shoulder to shoulder with those same people because it was the RIGHT thing to do.
In my opinion you did the right thing---, about helping her. The sex thing afterwards, weeeellll--, that's a question you have to answer yourself.

 

[tonydude]

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[Wackywagg]

Yes I’ll admit I did end up getting sloppy seconds.. that wasn’t my intention when doing the favor for her though. When we got to her house she invited me in she was pretty emotional in the car definitely wasnt going to try anything then. She got some cloths on when we got back to her apartment and then we were just talking on her couch. She was saying how thankful she was and that I was such a nice guy and she leaned in and started kissing me. I didn’t make the move on her but I definitely didn’t stop things

Glad to hear you did the right thing. And you even ended up getting rewarded for it. Sounds like it all worked out in the end. Hopefully she learned to me more careful of the assholes out there.

 

[Hipshot1554]

You would have to hate someone very much not to help in that situation.

 

[bigatx7]

For me I think it depends on how the relationship ended.

Years ago I was in a relationship and she took every advantage of me being the nice guy and treating her like a queen and would always treat me like shit. It took over a year for me to open my eyes but I realized it after we broke up she was drunk texting me from a town about an hour away and just wanted me to go pick her up and take her to her apartment and drop her off because she didn’t want to pay for an Uber. I realized then how toxic she was and how she always manipulated me even when we were together.

If she had called me, I probably would have hung up, but then again maybe I’m not a nice guy after all.

 

[ILuv2Taste]

Yes you should of driven over to pick her up...…..but...…….
when you pulled up and she had the relieved look on her face,
driven away like the other guy did.

 

[betamale30]

Yes you should of driven over to pick her up...…..but...…….
when you pulled up and she had the relieved look on her face,
driven away like the other guy did.

Lol she probably would have died

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Yea I definitely went and picked her up. Then yesterday I was fishing with a buddy and I had told him what happened and he thought I was crazy for helping, was making fun of me saying how my ex calls me and tells me she was just having sex with another guy and you go pick her up. So I guess I do look dumb but wanted to help her

you did the right thing. she was distressed and vulnerable, and this guy was a creep. you don't look dumb at all. good for you for helping her out, i would have too